The Heffernans of Oakland Ave. extension ! We all went to the Oakland Ave School . Always thought Billy was such a nice kid . I’m sure he will be missed by family and friends .

I met Bill years ago when he was working for Yellow Freight and I was working at RR Donnelley in Old Saybrook.  His sales calls to our
department were always so much fun and the lunches: we always looked forward to those!  One day he brought Sally along to lunch and we've been friends ever since!  So many fond memories.  Sally and family:  I was so sad to see this news about Bill .... Please know that I'm keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.  May you find comfort in your memories and strength in your faith.  And may this most amazing man Rest In Peace ....  God Bless you all .... 
Carol & Don Ward

Bill was such a beautiful, happy, and passionate human being and soul. I knew Bill from Snap Fitness in Clinton and he was a true gem to be around and talk to. His amazing, positive, always happy energy rubbed off on everyone. Such a great person to talk with because he was passionate and positive about everyone and everything. He will never be forgotten. Wishing my best to his beautiful family.

Bill hired me at Yellow many years ago.  He was great to be around, and had the best stories!  I always looked up to him.  My condolences to the Heffernan family during this difficult time.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers, and may you find strength in the Lord.  

Mark Cignarella

I met Bill and Sally at the food pantry.  Bill always had a kind word and something positive to share. Certainly he will be missed.  Sending  condolences to the entire family. May his memory be a blessing...

So sorry for the loss of Bill. He was a great man and great mentor to me. He stayed in touch with me after his retirement from Yellow and I always appreciated how he helped me and checked in on me.

Sally, Scott, Dan and families,   We are so very sorry to hear the extremely sad news of your beloved husband, devoted father and grandfather's passing.  Life at Granite Lake will never seem the same without your Bill and his great big happy smile! Sal and family our thoughts and prayers are with you and will continue to be with you.         With love and friendship,  Tyke and Gail Lavigne and family

I have no words to express how I feel for the whole Heffernan family.  Bills loss will be measurable so here is a reminder to embrace the love you shared.  To Sally, Scott and Dan~we are always here for you 
     Love. 
Kathy and Bill Moran🙏🏼

                              Grief and Love

Jim Carrey once said: Grief is not just an emotion—it’s an unraveling, a space where something once lived but is now gone. It carves through you, leaving a hollow ache where love once resided. 

In the beginning, it feels unbearable, like a wound that will never close. But over time, the raw edges begin to mend. The pain softens, but the imprint remains—a quiet reminder of what once was. The truth is, you never truly "move on." You move with it. The love you had does not disappear; it transforms. It lingers in the echoes of laughter, in the warmth of old memories, in the silent moments where you still reach for what is no longer there. And that’s okay.

Grief is not a burden to be hidden. It is not a weakness to be ashamed of. It is the deepest proof that love existed, that something beautiful once touched your life. So let yourself feel it. Let yourself mourn. Let yourself remember.

There is no timeline, no “right” way to grieve. Some days will be heavy, and some will feel lighter. Some moments will bring unexpected waves of sadness, while others will fill you with gratitude for the love you were lucky enough to experience.

Honor your grief, for it is sacred. It is a testament to the depth of your heart. And in time, through the pain, you will find healing—not because you have forgotten, but because you have learned how to carry both love and loss together.

I met Sally and Bill at the food pantry. Bill and Sally were so kind, made me feel so welcome. 
I am so sorry for the family and friends, such a huge loss for all. Sincere condolences.

Sally and family,  I am so sorry to hear of Bill’s passing.  Always looked forward to seeing him and spending time with him whenever I was at the lake.  I’m going to miss my good friend.  My condolences to you and your family.  Mike Robidoux

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William James Heffernan

June 20, 1952 – July 16, 2025

Swan Funeral Home

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