So from the very first time that we met Peter, we knew he was a very loving soul. Even the very first time that we met him he gave us big hugs and kisses the girls on the cheek (it must be the Sweedish (sweet) in him).  You never saw him without a smile from that big grin of his. He always spoke in a joyful manner, always positive things to say. The summer of 2019, my family was staying at Morro Bay and Peter and his family and the CaPece family we’re all staying in Pismo. They all came to visit us in Morro. We decided to walk along the beach and Peter was a man with a mission. He kept us going as we walk the entire beach all the way to the rock. And of course after a visit with the sea otters, he turned around and took the walk back. There was no rest for the weary. He wanted to make sure that we experienced at all while keeping us on our task.

I’ve known Pete for about 25 years. He was the most upbeat, optimistic, energetic, and friendly person, who always had a smile on his face. I can picture him at Missy’s Christmas party gloating about the guys beating us girls in Pictionary. I used to get so irritated, but I’m really going to miss that. You will be missed, Pete!

The day Peter and Denise were going to get married, Denise was getting her hair done so I was helping Peter with some last minute items. We went to get the marriage license but it was not where it was supposed to be. We both panicked and started tearing the house apart until we finally found it.  I was glad we did because it helped to start their wonderful married life together and 
 allowed me to become his mother-in-law.

The first time I met Peter was at the Grand Californian Hotel at Disneyland. I was there to pick up Peter's mother-in-law. He came down with her to make sure I had not arrived on a Harley Davidson or in police custody. He must have approved because his mother-in-law and I left together. He later became my son-in-law.

Was talking to Denise about the photo I’ve been looking for for days... And she sends me this.
It’s not the same pic as mine. My arms are wrapped around Denise and Tony and our smiles are bigger. But I’m thrilled to have this one!!!!

Peter was married to my cousin Denise which made him family.  He was LOVED more than words can say! He meant so so much to me, my son Bryce and my daughter Cassidy! We have some many memories.  I wouldn't  know where to start with sharing them! We traveled together as families, spent every major holiday together, played games including my annual Christmas party were we played pictionary together, went swimming, had BBQ'S, and so much more. He would make the Turkey for Thanksgiving at my house and it was amazing too! There will definitely be a part of my heart that will hurt forever because I loved him so much!!!!

I’ve been trying to come up with the words to express my feelings towards the loss of Peter and my mind goes numb. There’s so many special moments and ways to say how wonderful of a man he was. 
There was one picture I wanted to share and it is not in the spot it has been for years. Looked all over for it and haven’t a clue why it got taken out of the photo album.  
It was the very first picture of him, Denise, Tony (Denise’s brother) and I (at the time Tony’s girlfriend of almost a year) taken about 23 years ago.  I can still picture all of us standing in the entry way. Our smiles and how carefree we were.   Looking  back on it now it was the start of what became such a strong bond between the four of us. I got pretty lucky gaining Denise as a sister.... but it was definitely an added bonus getting to have Peter as a brother. 
Him and I  would joke at family gatherings on how we were the only ones not blood related to them but then say....we are the ones that chose them. But then say we were ok with that lol 
I especially love how he treated my kids. He was an uncle that took that title seriously. There’s nothing he wouldn’t of done for them. My kiddos all have amazing memories with him. From talks during  car rides to camping trips and everything in between. Oh and can’t forget the cookouts!!!!
He surely has been missed but know he’s looking over us. Until we meet again 💖


I dont have just one memory that stands out because they are all great. Such an amazing guy, always smiling, always there to help, always something nice to say or do.... Great husband, father and friend, you will be so missed by those of us blessed enough to have known you! So glad we got to "socially distance" ourselves with puppy therapy!! And your amazing meatloaf recipe is now a family favorite! Doesn't seem real..... RIP my friend....  Lea

Wow, where to begin.  Surreal to write a memorial to my buddy who left us way too soon.  I will forever remember and be grateful for our long, late nights outside of the dorm, Graves Hall, where we would talk and argue over irrelevant topics and some relevant life ones.  I will also be grateful for our bike rides, rafting trips, countless camping trips and all the conversations and experiences we had off the grid.   What I will hang on to the most however, is your ability to be in the present.  No matter what.  In many ways, you taught me to not dwell on the past or worry about the future, but to jump into the present and make that your focus and give that your energy.  This picture, breaks my heart but also reminds me how lucky I have been to have had you both in my life....I love you buddy and will see you again in due time.   

I only know of Peter through Denise and her love for her family. They are the center of her universe. We have shared many things and have connected from the beginning. Now we share this life experience. My heart goes out to you. I’m so glad your son is your rock. I think of you often and wonder how you are holding up. I know he is watching you and cheering you on just like David is doing for me. You are strong and all of you are blessed to have shared the love you have. God bless you all ❤️ Love, Jam

I can still recall the first time I met Pete at Fresno State in the late 80's.  He had a dorm room on the first floor of Sequoia and he was standing outside it looking down the hall with Led Zeppelin's Koda song blaring from the inside.  I didn't realize it then, but Pete would become a friend and regular fixture  in my college career over the next couple of years.

Pete was proud that he came from Ripley CA, where he played wide receiver for the football team in high school.  Pete shared an anecdote once about how people he didn't know would congratulate him on a game well played in the post office or walking downtown.  It was a 'small town' according to Pete.

It would be impossible to count the number of parties, bike ride adventures or just chilling in an apartment while playing darts that I shared with Pete.   He was always so fun to be around, full of life and good humor.  I also remember early on how Denise had found her man in Pete and didn't let go.  As time turned out to be short, I am glad they were able to find each other early.  

Our circle of friends also suffered through the untimely death of a mutual friend John Kordich in a sledding accident.  A few of us traveled to LA  to attend the funeral and grieve together.

In my last week of college before graduation, I remember riding my bike with Pete and Kirk Goodell (now also deceased) just after a rainstorm.  The sidewalks were slick and we were all laughing it up 'brake sliding' our bikes around corners.  I knew at the time I would be leaving soon to get on with my life and career, so the memory stayed vivid.

Shortly after college both Kirk and Pete came to visit me in Bullhead City on a road trip in 1995.  It would be the last time I would see either Pete or Kirk again.  

I am thankful for the friendship and time I spent with Pete, and offer my condolences to his family, loved ones and friends.  May his gentle soul rest in peace, and leave behind the cherished memories for those who cared for him.

I had the privilege of meeting Peter when I was in 7th grade and he was in 8th.  He always had a smile on his face and had a gift of making people laugh. This continued in high school, and Pete was always just a genuine, good friend. I was so glad to reconnect on Facebook after all these years. I will always treasure the memories, and my thoughts and prayers continue to be with the Widmer Family.

I knew Peter for just about as long as Denise has! I witnessed their friendship and love blossom!!  I have way too many memories of Peter. Holiday get togethers, camping trips, birthday parties....but the one that stands out the most if a trip to Kauai. I was going through a particularly hard time in my life. Peter and Denise invited me on their family trip to Kauai.  It was very last minute and very generous!! I will never forget that. Peter's easy going personality and great sense of humor helped me get through a difficult time. I will never forget that, Peter!!! We all miss you so much!! Our family will make sure Denise and Nicholas are taken care of....ALWAYS!!! We love you all!!! Saldivar Family 

We were very saddened to hear of Peters passing.  We have many fond memories of our Swiss families getting together for many a meal and visiting at each others homes in our younger years.  Peter held a special place in our family’s hearts as our mom was his godmother.  We remember Peter always had an infectious smile and laugh.  It was always a highlight to meet up again with him at Swiss events in adulthood, at the Members BBQ and the latest Sangerfest where the Widmer family pitched in, with Denise repairing edelweiss flowers while Peter and Nicholas climbed ladders and helped hang them around the Swiss park - a wonderful thoughtful family pitching in and helping out…just because...we’ll miss you Peter...love and prayers to your family...

- The Eisenhut girls
- Rosanna Murata, Trudy Louchart & Marianne Baird

I have struggled to know what to say about such a good friend in my younger years. Peter was my best friend for a time when we were in our late teens,and early 20’s so much time has passed and it seems like yesterday when we would travel up and down the pacific coast from one Swiss festival to another. We had so many good times together dancing to Swiss music and just hanging out with each other. We may not have stayed in touch as much as we would have liked to , but Peter will always have a very special spot in my heart and will be missed.  I was very luck enough  to be able to spend some time with Peter and his family 3 years ago at the Sangerfest in Ripon. 

Like others, I also had the utmost privilege of meeting Pete in the Graves Hall dormitory in the Fall of 1989.  To this day, I have NEVER met anyone with the same energy level or excitement for what life brought each and every new day.  For that alone, I loved him.  “Hey Wood, tomorrow let’s get up early and go play frisbee golf at Woodward” or “Let’s go camping at Pine Flat” or “Let’s go watch the Sunset”.  He was hard to keep up with but...I loved him for that. I will NEVER forget you Pete. Your energy, your love of people, friends, family, and the great outdoors (which always was and will remain your playground). I will remember you by your infectious smile and excitement for life.  You were taken too early but we all know the Lord needs HIS Angels and as in this life, you have always answered the bell.  Love you Bro.  Always in our hearts. 

I had the privilege of meeting Peter at GTE wireless, before it became Verizon.  We worked together for a couple years around the new mellenium- 1999 and 2000.  We had a great group:  Mical, Joel, Janell, Peter, and I.  He was the most positive,  outgoing, friendly/big brother type, to the girls at the office.  He was always proud of his wife and would share their new life milestones with us.  They bought their first house when we worked together, if I remember correctly.  Company parties were always merged and he would show off Denise.  We were all young, kid free, and carefree.  It was the best of times.  Even though we all moved on in life, we forever etched a bond of unforgettable memories.  I enjoyed keeping in touch through mutual friends who continued with Verizon and later through FB.  I will miss you Peter, RIP.

Jen Mouliot Smith

I first met Peter in 1988, when I moved into the dorms at Fresno State.  He was one of the first people I met and struck up a friendship with, which has lasted ever since.  We spent a couple years in the dorms before moving out into nearby apartments and even though we joined different fraternities, we still found time to get together and do what college-aged guys do!  It wasn't long after that time that we both ended up working together for several years at Lucy's Lounge inside the Holiday Inn.  We had a good working comraderie, as well as a solid friendship and we shared some memorable times during all those years.  Life took us in different directions after that span of time in our early 20's, but we always remained in contact with each other.  One of the most memorable moments of our friendship was a trip we took to Kauai together with Denise... he proposed to her on that trip and it was a special moment to witness and be there for.  It has also been great to watch his son, Nicholas, grow up and become the young man he is, Peter served as a great father to Nicholas, and I'm proud of both of them!
It has been an honor to have Peter as a friend, someone who I have great respect for.  I'm thankful for all the moments he and I shared together, as it definitely influenced who I am today.

Peter was a huge angel in my life.  I knew Peter 12 years. He was my hiring manager at Verizon. He always believed in me, even when I couldn’t believe in myself. That’s no surprise, I’m sure anyone that knew Pete knew his heart was made of Gold. He was there for me thru some very hard times in my life, and he always found a positive in everything it was like an amazing superpower he had. I’d have to say Peter hands down was the most positive person I have ever met, and I’m beyond blessed to have been able to call him my manager, coworker, but above all My Friend! We had so many laughs together. I miss your smile and of course your weather updates! Thank you so much Peter for being the best you ever! I love you Peter! I pray you are dancing in the sky and I hope wherever you are they have weapons you can shoot some cans with. Until we meet again my dear Friend! 

Denise & Nick Im so very sorry for your loss and pray God blesses you with strength thru this  difficult time. Please know you were beyond blessed having such an amazing man in your lives, and you both were his world. I remember him always talking about how proud he was of you both, time and time again you both made him so happy! 

Mary Ann Lopez-Cruz 

Peter!!

I’ve come here to write you many times hoping that this is just a dream. You are a warrior, my spirit animal, the angel on my left shoulder when faced with tough decisions. I can’t thank you enough for coming by the store the day you and Denise did. God moved me to speak to you, through the tears I was able to tell you something I’ve never been able to before and that was I love you. You are the epitome of a man. You are the greatest human being I know. Your selflessness was contagious, your humor and humbleness was second to none. You did nothing for self and all for anyone. I thank you for showing up in my life at a time where a strong man was needed. Thank you for sharing your greatest gifts and always being so willing to help. During work I never had to question whether or not you were ready to go, because you’d be front and center asking me who’s next. I’ll miss all that you embody as a man; humility, fun, passion, love and most important of all understanding. I miss you my man. I pray that in the place you are that everyone is as impressed with your baking as I am, and as tickled by your jokes as I was. I miss you more than you’ll ever know. Keep being the angel you are.

Love 
Stephen

I met Pete in college as a fraternity brother.  A brother that always had a smile and the first to give you a baby bird (Pikes will know what that is).  Many great memories during college.  As our lives change dramatically after college Facebook brought many of us back together at least online.  It was great to see the life Pete lived and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family.  Phi Phi Brother 

 

Pete and I were cocktailing at Lucy's at the Fresno Airport Holiday Inn. We had Karaoke Night, Pete and I broke the ice were the first to sing. We decided to sing Bob Marley's - Three Little Birds.  We had so much fun singing this song. 

With love, here is our message to you...

"Don't worry about a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be alright.
Singing' "Don't worry about a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be alright!"

Rise up this mornin',
Smiled with the risin' sun,
Three little birds
Pitch by my doorstep
Singin' sweet songs
Of melodies pure and true,
Saying', ("This is my message to you")

Singing' "Don't worry 'bout a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be alright."
Singing' "Don't worry (don't worry) 'bout a thing,
'Cause every little thing gonna be alright!"

Peter and his brother Dominic use to love to visit our farm.  There was always something to do in the hay barns.  I enjoyed helping them build forts, swing on the rope attached to the rafters and play "army" around the haystacks.  We all had a great time together. 

Don Widmer 

Peter was a special person.  He was always helpful and cheerful.  We had many happy family times camping  and at cookouts.  

Peter was definitely the friendliest and best next door neighbor anyone could ever ask for. Our family will miss him dearly. We love you Nick and Denise.  

Peter Widmer:  To know him was to love him!

When Peter turned 21, my co-worker, and his good friend, Erik brought him in for an employment interview where we worked at Lucy’s.  Due to his quick wit and engaging smile, balanced with his keen awareness and natural intelligence, he was hired that day and began training that night.  One of my best decisions.  He was a very quick learner and through the years he proved his abilities and loyalty to the job many times, serving in multiple and various capacities within the flow of business.  He had a unique ability to employ his infectious sense of humor and an understanding of the bizarre to provide wonderful customer service.  Invaluable!

Young ladies found Peter to be quite intriguing, which meant his future wife/life companion, Denise, was challenged to be profoundly patient while awaiting fulfillment of her true love for him.  She persevered and they were both rewarded with a lasting marriage and a strong supportive son, Nicholas.  It saddens me deeply that Peter’s loved ones will miss his presence during the meaningful milestones which will continue beyond his premature passing from their lives.  I pray that they will sense his incredible spirit throughout those special events, with God’s blessing.

Recently my husband and I had reason to visit the Clovis Verizon store and were treated to some of the best customer service we could remember.  Upon leaving the store we were commenting upon such excellent, helpful and friendly treatment and John stated:  “Clearly that guy must have been trained by Peter!”

Aloha Peter, Mahalo, we love you…

Gayle and John Hays, Auberry      


I have so many memories of Peter that I will cherish forever! Disneyland, Kuaii, the coast, camping with the family are just some of the great times that I was fortunate to spend time with him, Denise and Nicholas.  He had a giving heart and a wonder about the world that made everything fun when you were around him! Will miss him so much. Denise and Nicholas you both are in my constant prayers, love you so much! Peter, rest in peace my friend.

Peter will be remembered as a fun and loving friend. I remember him meeting Denise and their beautiful growing relationship that started at working at GTE (now Verizon Wireless). There are many good memories of Peter throughout the time i worked with him but what stands out the most is our good times on our trip to the Caribbean Islands. A Winner’s Circle work trip. I will never forget his sense of humor and all the laughs we had together. I am so blessed to have him touch my life and always brought me to a smile . I will continue to treasure those wonderful memories and remember how his smile always brightened our work days. 🙏🏽🥰


I am Peter's cousin by his marriage to Denise. I have gone on several trips with his family, and my sister's, over the last few years. We have had many fun adventures together and we always joked around that Denise, my sister, and I were his three wives.

We went on many long walks together, exploring, laughing and enjoying each other's company. Squirrel! (Inside joke). I will miss you.

I may not of known Peter personally but I did know his wife, Denise you are such an inspiration and light.It is pretty obvious that you and him were very close and he sure sounded like a wonderful man, friend, husband and dad. I thank God he has you all in his embrace. Love to you both Denise and Nick.

So many memories working with Peter at Verizon for almost 10 yrs. He always had a smile on his face, and I loved his energy. I would enjoy all the conversations we would have about our families, sports, and our aspirations. He was always very encouraging to me and others and was a great manager. I especially loved how on Sundays during football season we would put on the games on the phones. Or how on someones birthday we would set up text messages on all the phones and then send them back to back so we can blow up the birthday person's phone with messages. Also, I will always remember and am greatful that he thought about my kids when Nicholas outgrew his swing set. Peter, you will be greatly missed! Denise and Nick, I am so sorry for you loss. May he rest in peace.

I did not have the privilege of knowing you that well.  But in the short time I did...your positive outlook and bubbly personality were electric and contagious.  You went through your treatment like a champ with no complaints and you always had a smile for everyone.   You lived a wonderful,  fulfilled life surrounded by so many people that loved you.  Will be great to see you in heaven one day😊

Whenever I’d see him I would refer to him as Mr. Widmer and he would want me to call him by his first name but I just couldn’t. I wanted to show my respect for him so I had to call him Mr. Widmer, because he gave me my best friend and I can never thank him enough for being the leader of our group called finé tea 

I grew up just down the street from Peter.  I have tons of memories from when we were kids through high school.  I have particularly fond memories of playing football and being on the wrestling team with him.  Peter was always friendly, smiling and funny.  Always willing to help a friend.  For example, at wrestling practice one day I had mentioned I was about to get my license but I did not know how to drive a stick shift.  Well that day after practice, Peter took me out in his vehicle and taught me how to drive.  I am terribly sorry to hear of his passing and am particularly sad that I did not take the opportunity previously to catch up with my old buddy before he was gone to tell him thank you for his friendship.  You will be truly missed Peter.   To his family, and  particularly his son, your Dad was a a great friend to everyone, a fierce competitor in athletics, a good sportsman, and an teammate you could always rely on  both on and off the field/mat.    RIP my friend.  Tony Cardoza

I loved Peter!  I grew up, worked, and went to college with Pete.  He was so positive, genuine, and always smiling!  We had some great times frisbe golfing, “he always beat me”, fishing, and golfing.  May your soul Rest In Peace Peter!

I did not personally know Peter, I was in choir with his son nick Widmer. He seemed to be very involved in his life and a bright light to be around. I sat right in front of peter on a tour bus going to an amusement park (a tour that the Clovis high choir got to attend) and I remember just smiling the majority of the ride cause Peter had so many jokes up his sleeve. There wasn’t a time I caught him frowning. I had a good impression that he was a very positive energy to be around. 

I remember all the times our friend group has gone over to Nic’s house to hangout and how his dad with always would always have fun with us and act like a teenager.  Nic’s dad would also give me a hibiscus flower every time I was over before I left and I’ll always remember how sweet that was. Peter was a great dad and fun guy to be around, he will be missed greatly.

I will always remember Peter as a kind, giving and funny guy.   He always had a smile on his face and  full of love to give to everyone he encountered.   Rest In Peace friend.

Words can't describe how heart-broken I am for you.  I am so sorry you had to go thru this.  All my love and prayers to you and your son.
xoxo Denise

I will never forget how great Peter was at staying busy.  I never saw him sit down!  He was so awesome with Allie (your 2nd kid) all those years. We will never forget his kindness.   Rest In Peace ❤️❤️

My condolences to the family and loved ones.
I worked with Peter in the early 2000s at Verizon.
He was always positive and professional. His attitude and love for others was always evident. The Lord blessed him with a good heart and a willingness to smile and help others.
I am honored to have fond memories of a good man. 
Rest In Peace Peter!

Where do I begin! That smile, that laugh! Peter will be forever missed. Nicholas was Lynsey’s first friend from that very 1st day of Kinder and Peter has been a part of our lives since. So many memories of driveway movies and laughter. He was a truly kind hearted and remarkable man. Denise and Nicholas we love you guys so much and our prayers are with you. 

I’m so sorry for your loss.  I grew up with Peter in Ripon.  Peter , always had a smile on his face along with a great outlook on life.  He would get annoyed me with me because I was hyper and he was mellow 
Pete was also know for his backflips  He was a really good athlete.   Rip Pete !

Sending my condolences to your family. My brothers and I lived down the street from Peter on Baker Drive. We were in the same graduating class. I remember some funny stories involving Peter.  I am truly sorry for your loss. 

I was so sorry to hear of Peter's battle with cancer, and his passing. I have many fond memories of playing with Peter as a child on Baker Drive, and down by the river. As kids we trekked all over town on many adventures.
My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

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Peter Widmer

April 22, 1970 – July 21, 2020

Boice Funeral Home

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