OBITUARY
Mrs. Jacquelyn Oneta (Pope) Humphrey
January 25, 1941 – November 20, 2020
Mrs. Jacquelyn Oneta Pope Humphrey of Argyle, Texas, passed away on November 20, 2020, in Plano, Texas, from complications following open heart surgery.
Jackie will always be remembered as a follower of Christ, a loving wife to Steve, a cherished and adoring mother & grandmother, and an inspiring adopted mom to the extended family she lovingly gathered in every circle of her life’s journey.
A eulogy of Jackie’s life, without a bound book, seems trite and will leave out so much that needs to be mentioned. Jackie was born in Dallas, Texas, on January 25, 1941, to Lofton Alonso and Corrie Elizabeth Pope. She grew up in Pleasant Grove, graduating from W.W. Samuell High School in 1959. Jackie and Steve Sr. were married on July 15, 1961, under a blooming mimosa tree in her parents’ front yard (they would have celebrated 60 years of marriage in July). They raised their three children to seek Christ first, love others with Joy, serve unselfishly, work diligently, gather often to enjoy others in celebrating life and always to dance. Jackie honored her husband in a relationship that set an example for the way a marriage should be. Always loving, encouraging, sharing her experiences, and supporting their faith, she loved her grandchildren the “mostest”!
Jackie’s love, influence, and efforts will echo for generations through the lives of her family, the construction industry, those into whom she poured life, and those touched through her life of ministry.
She and Steve led many Bible Studies impacting individuals, marriages and churches. Even up to the end of her life she and Steve were in the midst of leading a couple’s marriage study at Humphrey & Associates utilizing Tommy Nelson’s guide through the Song of Solomon. YoungLife influenced their lives during their teen years, and they became strong advocates & supporters as adults serving in various committee and leadership roles. They helped build the original YoungLife clubs in Grapevine and the HUB (Hurst/Euless/Bedford). Steve and Jackie were named as the National 2020 YoungLife Alumni Service Award winners on November 9th. They have championed the Coaches Outreach Ministry since its formation by Tommy Maxwell, and they faithfully supported countless other missions and charitable efforts and organizations too numerous to list.
Raising their young children in Austin and Arlington, Jackie volunteered at Tate Springs Baptist and other churches, teaching youth and young married Sunday School classes with Steve and actively participating in International Friends. Jackie was a certified Zig Ziglar speaker and Zola Levitt instructor, constantly encouraging all to be professional and Christ-like. Moving to Grapevine in 1978, Jackie was the matriarch of Humphrey & Associates, the company that she and Steve built from its start in 1977 into one of the Top 600 Specialty Contractors in the country. She always cared for and loved the employees of H&A, creating the culture of love for people, mutual respect for everyone from the entry level employee to the CEO, and a team that always gives back to the industry and the community. She told everyone she had three kids she birthed and hundreds at the office whom she loved as her own. Jackie was an inspirational leader, serving locally, regionally, and nationally on many construction industry committees and boards, as well as supporting Steve’s service to the industry. She helped start programs like the North Texas Construction Industry Awareness Program (CIA) and Get into Politics or Get out of Business with Associated Builders and Contractors. She served on the original board of the National Center for Construction Education and Research, and was part of the brainstorming team which established a national image awareness program with the Independent Electrical Contractors PRIDE (promoting responsible independent dedicated electricians) in the 80’s.
Jackie had the gift of encouragement. She always found and shared encouraging words and phrases that carried a story focusing on positive attitudes and actions. “Pray towards heaven, but row towards shore.” “Make the choice to rejoice.” “Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.”
Jackie is survived by her spouse Steve Humphrey, Sr., of Argyle, Texas; her children Stephen Jr. and Mary Humphrey, Leah and Rick Rennhack, Randy and Scottie Humphrey; and her grandchildren Hunter, Cody and Samantha Humphrey; Riley, Annelise, Nathanael, and Grace Rennhack; and Brayden, Grantham, Marshall and Corey Humphrey. She is also survived by her children by choice of Humphrey & Associates, the construction industry, and the many Bible studies she and Steve led.
She was preceded in death by her father Lofton Alonso Pope, her mother Corrie Freeman Pope, and younger brother Ronnie Pope of Dallas, Texas.
A visitation is planned for Wednesday, December 2nd, 4:30-6:30 p.m. in the chapel at Bluebonnet Hills Memorial Park in Colleyville. The Celebration of her life will be held at the First Baptist Church of Colleyville on Thursday, December 3rd at 10:00 am with the internment immediately following at Bluebonnet Hills Memorial Park. Those who wish to join virtually may view the service online through Facebook Live. A link will be available on the Humphrey & Associates Inc. Facebook page.
I Thessalonians 5:16-18 - Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
If you prefer making a donation to honor Jackie’s memory, here are some of her favorites: YoungLife ( https://giving.younglife.org/s/ ), Coaches Outreach(https://www.coachesoutreach.org/donate ), Denton Bible Church ( https://dentonbible.onlinegiving.org/donate/login ).
If you wish to send flowers in honor of Mrs. Humphrey please contact Lilium Floral Design at 817-589-1566 or http://www.liliumflorals.com.
Services
-
Visitation
Wednesday, December 2, 2020
-
Funeral Service
Thursday, December 3, 2020
-
Committal Service
Thursday, December 3, 2020
Memories
Mrs. Jacquelyn Oneta (Pope) Humphrey
have a memory or condolence to add?
ADD A MEMORYSteve Ritchey
June 27, 2021
Hi Steve,
Jackie was one of my favorite family members ever. She and Ronnie were the highlight of my day whenever I got to visit their parent's house. I cried for days after Ronnie's accident. The fun my sister, Shari Taylor, and myself had created life long memories. The last time I saw y'all was in Grapevine. I regret not seeing more of y'all, Prayers for you and you're family and I know Jackie is at the side of the Lord. Take care Steve.
Nathan Bailey
December 11, 2020
SuZanne, Kadyn and myself extend our deepest condolences to the Humphrey family and the “Humphrey family.” Though we are saddened by her passing we rejoice in knowing Miss Jackie’s eternity. Her faith in Christ was always on display.
Our family is grateful for her support and call for prayers when our daughter Kadyn was born at 26 weeks in 2008. Our daughter is a living miracle of God and a testament to the power of prayer from believers like Miss Jackie.
We will continue to shower the Humphrey family in prayer. God Bless.
The Baileys
Sulphur Springs, TX
Meloni Raney
December 9, 2020
Mrs. Humphrey has always been so welcoming to me since the first day I started at TEXO! The entire Humphrey family became my sanity group and you all brought me in so quickly it was exactly what I needed during this transition in my life. What has always stood out to me is the way you all love people so well and Mrs. Humphrey was an amazing example of loving people like He does. When I first brought Ronny to the Gala he was sitting alone at our table and then the next time I saw him he was at the Humphrey table with you all and my heart was so happy. Because I knew if someone was in your presence, they would be well loved! Thank you for showing us what a marriage focused on Jesus should look like... it truly is an inspiration during a time when it's desperately needed in this world! I'll miss you so much Mrs. Humphrey but am so thankful for the time I spent with you on this earth. See you in Heaven someday! I love you and appreciate the many legacies you've left on this earth, in our industry and in my heart!
Patty Patterson
December 7, 2020
Words cannot express the sorrow in my heart for the loss of Ms. Jackie. May the peace of God, which passes all understanding, comfort your heart and mind through Christ Jesus. The memory I cherish the most is Ms. Jackie accepting me into the company as family with open arms like she had known me forever. She just had that love and remarkable spirit about her that was contagious. We begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget. Till we meet again...
Always loved, never forgotten, and forever missed!
Lynn Cunningham
December 3, 2020
No one who knew Jackie and Steve could not be immeasurably blessed. When I remember Jackie I think of how joyful she always was. Her smile could light up a room and her love for Jesus was obvious. She was such a wonderful reflection of Jesus and the family she raised and loved were evidence of it. I will miss her insight and words that she shared on social media. And though her loss will leave a void here, I know those of us who love Jesus will see her again and what a reunion that will be. When she crossed the threshold of heaven, I know God said “welcome home.”
Phil Brinkley
December 3, 2020
When I heard of Jackie's passing, the first word that came to mind was "Legacy". What a legacy she leaves. She's an inspiration to love well, welcome well and "Never stop talkin' about Jesus". My own personal favorite memories of her was at Trail West Lodge playing "Shoot the Moon" with her and Steve and just being loved on by someone who loved so well. Thank you Lord, for the life of Jackie Humphrey and blessings to such an amazing family. May the Great Comforter do His promised work in your lives.
Steve Taylor
December 3, 2020
We are deeply saddened to hear of Jackie's passing but are elated to know that she is going to meet Jesus. She IS a woman of Christ.
She was the leader of the Humphrey Family. Steve, you are the head of the family but we all know who was in charge.
The little amount of time that I got to be around her was a joy. While working for her and Steve, she treated me more than just an employee. She always made me feel like a friend first.
I have always thought that you are never gone as long as you leave a memory for someone to remember. Jackie will never be gone.
Thank you for allowing me to have been part of your family.
Sincerely,
Steve & Jackie Taylor
Eddie Corbitt
December 3, 2020
Jackie was a dear friend and inspiring Christian influence on myself, my family and everyone she came in contact with. She was such a positive role model as a woman, wife, mother, grandmother and person. Her presence in this world will be / is missed.
Russell Crawford
December 3, 2020
I do not believe that I have ever met anyone with a bigger heart for her family and other people. Her smile and warmth came through in every encounter. The family pictures and the pictures of Jackie and Steve are a display of the love she had for them.
We are grieving here, but I know there is a celebration in Heaven as Christ welcomed one of his children.
May God Bless the entire Humphrey Family and all who loved this wonderful Woman of God.
Russ & Suzanne Crawford
Jesse Abercrombie
December 3, 2020
Jackie was one of my favorites of all time. I felt like every time that I met or spoke with her I learned something. She was very smart, kind and just an all around caring person. She always asked about my family and was just a wonderful person to be around. I'll miss her very much.
Jaeson Thornton
December 3, 2020
"Today, Make the Choice to Rejoice - Mrs. Jackie/Mimi/Mom/Mrs. H" - this is how she would always sign her emails. She was all of those things to me. Such an amazing Christian woman that had such an incredible smile and grace filled heart. She will be missed by so many. A ripple effect that will never stop....... Thank you for all that you did for me and my family.
Shirley Armstrong
December 3, 2020
Jackie and I first met many years ago at First Baptist Church in Grapevine and remained friends ever since. She was a devout Christian, daughter, wife, mother, grandmother and friend and will be so deeply missed among us. But how comforting to know that she is receiving her reward in Heaven and is experiencing great peace. Jackie will serve as a guardian angel on the shoulder of many from this day forward. God's blessings to the wonderful Humphrey family. Until we meet again,
Shirley Jordan Armstrong
Eric Funkhouser
December 3, 2020
No one can count the number of people impacted by Mrs Humphrey. She was always a leader for Christ. Sharing her life and glowing personality with others. The example of her strong marriage will continue to be a blessing to my own marriage. I appreciate all she gave to invest in others and hope to model that in my own life.
Eric & Stephanie Funkhouser
Dennis Placke
December 3, 2020
To the Humphrey family, we are so sorry for your loss...You are in our family's thought and prayers. May God bless you and yours, Dennis Placke
Paul and Lois Lodola
December 3, 2020
Dear Steve and Family:
We are saddened to read about your loss of Jackie.
Everyone involved with ABC Liked and Respected Her.
Our Connecticut ABC family was always made to feel welcome and appreciated.
We regret that we are unable to attend in person to express our sympathies.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times.
Sincerely,
Paul and Loie former CT ABC.
Frankie Arthur
December 2, 2020
As I watched the tribute of Jackie "MiMi", I feel special to have known her the short time I did. Her kind and wonderful personality was such a pleasure. I will never forget after our first conversation on the phone which seemed to last over 30 min, I can remember MiMi saying, "I really like you and want you to our family's realtor" right before we hung up. That meant so much to me especially when I heard if MiMi likes you that says a lot. :) Well I guess I dodged that bullet.
She and I had lots of conversations about everything but her main focus was always on helping Tater & Elisha find a home. I learned very quickly that MiMi only wanted to best for them and nothing less.
I can recall a conversation while I was in Atlanta with my son at a baseball tournament, she wanted me to try this restaurant out in Atlanta called "OK Cafe" that her and Steve visited, she told me she loved their milk shakes & malts. She also said she loved that good ol southern country food with home baked style pie while Steve had a burger with fruit and malt. She even sent me a pic of the Cafe and said I need to try it out.
We are deeply sorry the family is experiencing the pain of a loss like this. My heart goes out to each of you.” Just know you are all loved dearly and MiMi is looking down with that HUGE smile.
Frankie Arthur and The Arthur Family
Heath Howe
December 2, 2020
I remember Mrs. Humphreys’s inviting me to the Dallas Leadership prayer breakfast, always greeting me with a hug, most of all her wonderful and kind smile. Mrs. Humphrey you will be greatly missed by many, but I know you are looking down smiling. Job well done Mrs. Humphrey, well done, you have left this world a better place because of your grace and love!
Jerry and Elaine Haynes
December 2, 2020
Jackie was a dear friend for many years.
We knew she was a Christian by the way she lived her life.
She had a kind heart, a loving spirit, and a bubbly personality.
We will certainly miss Jackie.
Our prayers are with you Steve and the family.
Ann Krausse
December 2, 2020
Dear Humphrey family,
Karl and I were greatly saddened to hear of Jackie’s passing. She was such a loving and encouraging person and I know the very heart of your home.
Two memories I cherish of Jackie were so telling of who she was every day! The first is a fashion show she set up for our church women’s group. She asked several members to model clothes she had arranged from Bealls. Linda Barton and I got to be models that day and we had so much fun! Now we are not your normal model type but Jackie said she was selecting for the inside as well as the outside, which shows how encouraging and inclusive she was.
My second memory is of a PRO’S class party at their lake house. Jackie and Steve were always so gracious and loved to entertain. We had a lovely time. We took a sunset cruise on the lake with Jackie driving the boat. Steve came riding up on his Skidoo and I could see the look of love and admiration on Jackie’s face as she talked with her beloved!
Your whole family is so precious and loving to all! Linda and I also had the joy of teaching several of Jackie and Steve’s grandchildren!
Karl and I pray for your comfort in this great loss. Heaven is even more fun now with Jackie there! I know she got to hear “Well done my faithful servant!”
With love, Karl and Ann Krausse
Ester Ball
December 2, 2020
The Humphrey home was a haven for all the teenagers who could fit into it. It was always full of laughter and games being played. One evening I had the honor of helping Jackie feed the teens. She told me I was in charge of the guacamole. So, I proceeded to dice the onions and tomatoes. When I peeled the avocados, they had black spots on them and I told Jackie they were no good. She replied, "Mash them and add to other ingredients. Add plenty of fresh lemon juice, salt, and pepper. Kids will not know the difference. Trust me, it will all be eaten." And, as usual she was correct! None was left to throw away!
Another evening, I had invited the Humphreys and two other couples to my house to enjoy dinner together. A bad storm came up and electricity was lost. I lit candles and we adjourned to the den to talk. Eleven P M drew near and no one made a move to go home. Finally, I asked if anyone was going to church in the morning to which everyone responded, "Of Course!" So, I told them you need to go home so I can go to bed. They didn't want to leave me alone and in the dark. So like Jackie and Steve...LOVE, Love, love the entire clan. God bless and keep you all until we meet again. Happy trails, Jackie. You will be so missed, but you gave us the gift of treasured memories and most of all yourself.
Misty Castleman
December 2, 2020
What an absolute privilege to have had Ms. Jackie be a part of all of our lives. She was a truly inspirational soul with such a caring heart that will be missed tremendously. Thank you for being you, and leading the way for all of us not just as a company but also as a role model on how to live a life well done!
Elizabeth Womack
December 2, 2020
I will always remember Mrs. Jackie's smile and her passion for
her family including those of us who have the honor of being a member of Team Humphrey.
Love you Jackie. I will never forget your kindness.
Ed and Dianne Fletcher
December 2, 2020
Eddie connected Steve and Jackie in 1961, and Jackie introduced Eddie and Dianne in 1962.
Two married cousins with young wives that loved making many memories over the next 59 years together. Our family has had the pleasure of spending so much quality time with Steve and Jackie and their family and we have been blessed beyond words. Jackie with her beautiful smile and the love for the Lord; led many to Christ just being who she was; loving and caring for others. God saved a special place for this sweet Angel and we know she watches over her flock on earth. We thank God for her life with us, and now she is His. Rest in peace forever Jackie.
David Zumar
December 2, 2020
Jackie was an amazing person who lead by example. She always had a kind word and I was happy to call her my work mom.
Her passing is heart breaking and she will be dearly missed.
Barney Barnette
December 2, 2020
A long time ago when we were all much younger, Steve, Jr. and I worked closely together for a while. I fell into the habit of calling Jackie "Mom" simply because he did. After a couple of weeks, I learned that she and I were born less than a year apart, so I quit calling her "Mom". She complained that I was insulting her by not wanting her to be my Mom.
I worked for at least two dozen contractors during the first half of my electrical career, but the love and feeling of family engendered by Jackie kept me at H&A for the remainder of my working life.
Harnton (Pete) and Mary Bell
December 2, 2020
I can not express how much I am going to miss her. She was like a Mom to me and I enjoyed seeing Mrs. Jackie and Mr. Humphrey together. Those 2 showed me what love is all about and brought so much joy to all. Mrs. Jackie you will always be in our hearts.
Mark and Patricia Kossler
December 2, 2020
It was such a treat to see Steve, Jackie and Family at the many different times during the year at Vermejo Park Ranch, Raton NM. Whether it was up at Costilla Lodge, or down below at Headquarters where I would run into the family and my most favorite times were when I could sneek in some chat time with Jackie. I so enjoyed those times when we could chat a little bit on a few of the visits. I want to say that I enjoyed "chatting' over Facebook messaging :-) Want to say that it was very special during out VPR Christmas gatherings while Mark and I were at the ranch (from 2007-2014) where we could get to know Randy and Steve Jr. Prayers and comfort for ALL the Humphrey's. You all are special to Mark and I.
Ed Smith
December 2, 2020
Jackie was one of those "most memorable" people that I always think of as part of my life despite only occasionally seeing her in recent years. I spent sixteen years at Humphrey & Assocs and I have nothing but fond memories of Jackie, Steve, and the entire "Humphrey family". Jackie was more a den mother and counselor than VP to those of us who worked there. As active as she was in community, Jackie did so much in small ways for people without any attention. There are too many memories to recount but I always remember when my daughter Jennifer was a teen and applied for a summer job in the office, it was Jackie who personally took her to the screening clinic--it was a small thing but a lasting memory for me. Jackie was a remarkable Christian lady and will be greatly missed by family and all of us who knew and loved her. Alicia and I are praying that God will grant peace and comfort to the family in their time of loss.
Charis Ferryman
December 2, 2020
I didn’t know Jacquie as well as some here, nor did I get to know her as long as I would have liked, but I was blessed to have known her for the time I did. She indeed was an encourager, full of love & joy, so easy to get to know, a beautiful spirit. Steve Sr. & Family, David & I pray for your comfort & strength over the next many days & months as you carry on without her, yet knowing where she is & Who she is with & what a wonderful time she is having! She left an awesome legacy & blessed your family well. Love & Prayers, Charis & David Ferryman
Ronnie & Lisa Bohannon
December 1, 2020
February 2016, Brazil, Peacock Bass Fishing. Wow! What an amazing trip with the Humphrey Family! We celebrated Jackie and Steve's 75th birthday, fished on the Amazon and we all witnessed their love and devotion to another! So many memories were made and they are proof that age is a matter of mind! Jackie never missed any activity and joined in all the fun with her amazing smile and positive outlook on life. It is our opinion that if you were to open a book titled "The Perfect Family" it would show pictures of Steve and Jackie's family. We feel blessed to have known her and know that she was loved by many and treasured by all who met her.
Mike & Susan Steed
December 1, 2020
How do you begin to speak of a “one -of -a -kind” while being such a special person such as Ms Jackie! This lady was such a role model to so many and we all sat up to pay attention to her every word. She made everyone she touched feel so welcome , so special , & such a part of.
Jackie made such an impression on us when she made sure she knew your name, your family’s name, and even the grandchildren’s names.
I know our lives are better having had Ms Jackie touch it.
She was always so gracious that I know heaven got an “Angel” To lead them all. She just went ahead to get everything ready for the rest of us and I know she will be there ready to greet us all when we arrive. Rest in heavenly peace Jackie.
We will love you forever..,Mike & Susan
Ann Pickerrell White
December 1, 2020
Jackie and I would host with others dances in high school. We would rent the building at Winfrey Point, a band and then go to my house and fill out invitations. So many memories including sleep overs. Not too much sleep.
Scott Fletcher
December 1, 2020
It’s hard for me to share a memory of Ms. Jackie because there are so many over the 43 years that I have worked for The Humphrey Family, or the 60 year that I have known her. Even though I don’t remember it, she always tells people that I threw up in her lap the first time she met me. I was only 2 or 3 years old. (I’m pretty sure that I caused her to throw up a time or two over the years).
She was always there for me during the good and bad times. I will miss her smiles and encouragements. We will definitely miss her “hands” and “heart” in every aspect of the Company and “get-togethers”.
We have loved her over the years and will continue to love her.
Barbara Aly
December 1, 2020
Being new to the Humphrey family, I have only met Jackie a few times but what a joy to have met her. She was always so kind and warm. Her bubbly personality and smile was infectious and made me feel welcomed. Scooter just adored her and spoke of her often as he does of all the family. I am sadden of her passing but am in awe of the faith, peace and love you all have for our Lord and your Jackie/Mom/Mimi. Truly an inspiration.
Heaven has indeed gained an angel!
Love, Barbara Aly
Nelda Robertson
December 1, 2020
My fondest memory of Jackie was attending her wedding to Steve. I’m pretty sure I’m the oldest living person who was there, but I remember the mimosa tree and how beautiful Jackie was. I always looked forward to being a guest at office Christmas parties because I got to visit with Jackie and Steve. She was a blessing to all who knew her! My prayers are with Steve and her family.
Melinda Fletcher
December 1, 2020
There's just not enough room on this page to express how I felt about Jackie. Even though I wasn't blood family, she called me family and even though I didn't work for the Humphrey & Associate family, she considered me a close part of that family as well. I'm sure many others felt the same because Jackie had a way of making everyone feel part of everything. Her love for God was strong and many came to know Him through her. She was a force to be reckoned with but loved with all her heart and was one of the most giving people I've ever known. Thank you Jackie for a life well lived. You always said Make the choice to rejoice, so even though we are sad, we will make the choice to rejoice knowing your name is written in the book of life
Gerald and Angie May
December 1, 2020
Wow what a shock to find out about Mrs Humphrey’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. She was a shining light and the sweetest person we knew for over 18 years. She will be greatly missed.
Jason Foshea
December 1, 2020
Jackie was nothing short of an AMAZING woman. She had an infectious love for God, family, friends & was pivotal in building the amazing network of people in & around the Humphrey family. We'll definitely miss her & continue to pray for Steve Sr & the rest of the awesome Humphrey family! May she rest in peace!
Sherri Suggs
December 1, 2020
Take comfort in the light of Christ that shines bright through Ms. Jackie Humphrey in heaven and on earth. Her love of Christ will live on through everyone she touched. Be faithful to the Lord and take comfort in knowing that you will join her again standing at the throne of God in all his Glory.
With Loving Sympathy,
Sherri and Billy Ray Suggs and Hannah Walthall
Debbie aka Dixie Lassiter
December 1, 2020
Jackie, WOW!! What a light you were to others. I think back on the notes you would leave me at the office detailing something you needed me to do. I would chuckle to myself because the note was so long, you could have done the project yourself by the time you finished writing the note. 😂 Little did I know then that you were teaching and grooming me to be who I am today in the workplace. Thank you for those detailed notes. I will always remember you and cherish my time at H&A. Shine bright!
Dixie
Terra Stegman
December 1, 2020
I loved Ms. Jackie for 17 years as an H&A baby of hers. She was always there to offer encouraging words throughout my marriage and being a mother; her words helped develope who I am today. I feel very fortunate to have known her and hold a personal relationship with someone such as her. She was a remarkable person and I will carry her lessons with me and teach others what I have learned from her; it is her great legacy at work.