Pam was the catalyst for this group of ladies to gather as friends and disciples on a regular basis.  We had a number of great times together and every one of them is special and God-filled.  I pray for Mike and her family as they grieve, and that the many special memories will lift you up.  May Pam rest in peace and rise in glory and may light perpetual shine upon her.  I do wish we'd done a better job of staying in touch as we moved on with our lives.  She will always be with us reminding us of joy, love of Jesus and how to stand up faithfully to the worst life can throw at you.

This was one of their frequented breakfast and coffee places in PV,

Even in Puerto Vallarta, still have to go to work sometimes.

This is Mike and Pam at their condo in Puerto Vallarta. Some very happy memories for them and the many friends they hosted.

This was from Mike’s retirement party in Puerto Vallarta, MX.   Pam loved planning a party and was so hospitable.  In Mexico she was allowed in the kitchen of this restaurant to teach Mexicans how to make hot wings the way Mike liked them. 🥰

This is from one of Pam’s visits with me in Oklahoma.

I will always remember Pam with a sweet smile and a soft spoken encouraging word. Her deep compassion and  unique ability to truly listen to others were rare gifts she used to help and support others. She was a beacon at St. Andrews. She never hesitated to lend a helping hand. My heart is heavy learning of this news. Covering you in Christ’s perfect peace, Mike. What crown of jewels Pam must have received. 
Betty Groom

Photo shows Pam holding one of her cousins surrounded by other cousins.

So very sorry for the loss felt at this time for Michael and family.  Pam was not a cousin I grew up with as a child but in the past several years she managed to catch me up. I'm certain the emptiness felt by Mike and family will be great but I pray that you lean on the only One, Jesus,  who pours out peace that surpasses all understanding. Pam would say the same to us all. We will miss her beaming smile and genuine interest in our lives. She gave so much. Now she can rest in the everlasting arms of Jesus.

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Pamela Kay Connery

April 22, 1961 – August 31, 2025

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