`I remember the last time your mom was here for a visit.  We had a lot of time to just talk.  One day your mom said to me that she wanted me to know that she spelled her name with an ie not y.  So I asked her why she didn't tell me that 10 yrs.ago.  She said she was getting around to it and it really didn't matter to her as long as I kept sending her cards. 
She would talk all day about her family and tell me that she wouldn't know what to do without them.  She said that Donna and Peg helped her and took such good care of her.  She loved them so much.  She also talked about her Grand children and how she loved them.  They loved their Oma and she loved seeing them and going out with them.  It was all the love and family support that kept her going and gave her a full life.  I hope we all can reach 93 years.
She did so much with her children when they were young.  One story........
Frank told me that his mom would let him and his sisters make their own birthday cakes.  Imagine!!
Well Peggie with an ie we all love you and miss you.  
And I already do.
Helen with an e
Your loving daughter-in-law

Frank,

I am so sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful woman, I am so happy I had the pleasure to meet her when she was here in MA. She lived a long life and you now have many beautiful memories to cherish.  She is now at peace and "the wind beneath your wings". Please know you are in my thoughts at this difficult time.

Frank and Family,
I sent my condolences on this site from Kuwait. Apparently they did not arrive. Please know that you are all in my thoughts. Losing a parent is so very difficult. I met your mother when she came to MESPA. She was a wonderful woman, and she stands as an inspiration to us all -- to live life to the fullest. Be well, all of you.
Nadya

Sorry for your loss. May we all have the long life that she enjoyed.  Know that you are in my thoughts.  Jim

Hi mom,

I hope you are at peace in your new adventure.

I will miss talking to you on those rare occasions when I called. You were always in my thoughts though and you will forever remain there and in my heart.

I love you too much.
 
Your favorite son
ME

I had the pleasure of meeting your mom when she came to MA to visit.  What a lovely woman and what a lovely photo chosen for this memorial page!  Thinking of you all.  Sincerely, Brenda (MESPA)

Frank and family... So sorry for your loss. I'm sure you're all left with many fond memories filled with love.

For all those who new Peggie/Oma/my mother.

Loss of Mother Poem

Now that I am gone,
remember me with smiles and laughter.
And if you need to cry,
cry with your brother or sister
who walks in grief beside you.
And when you need me,
put your arms around anyone
and give to them what you need to give to me.
There are so many who need so much.
I want to leave you something --
something much better than words or sounds.
Look for me in the people I've known
or helped in some special way.
Let me live in your heart
as well as in your mind.
You can love me most
by letting your love reach out to our loved ones,
by embracing them and living in their love.
Love does not die, people do.
So, when all that's left of me is love,
give me away as best you can.

~ Author unknown

Mom, just wanted to tell you-- you are in you're favorite chair ????

Peg and family,
Sorry to hear of your mom's passing Hopefully all your goood memories will make this difficult time easier on all of you.
I lost my mom 21 years ago (she was only 67) and every time I think of her I am full of memories! Time will heal your pain.
Carol Pugliese Withycombe

Love you Mom.  I know you are keeping and eye on me from where you are.
Love Peg

Thank you Oma for sharing with me the love of a grandmother when I didn't have my own. Thank you for loving me, loving my children too and giving me so many happy memories. I will miss you very much, rest in peace until we are all reunited in Heaven.

Oma,  you are the beautifulist woman in the whole world.  We miss you and love you for always.

My dearest Oma. What can we say you where one of a kind. The warmest most loving woman that I was fortunate enough to have as a grandmother. Every person you came in contact with loved you. You had a heart of gold. Love by so many. You will be loved and missed . It was an honor to have such a role model. The patience of a saint. You meant so much to me. I will always love and miss you. My memories stay vivid in my mind. Being able to spend those last days with you, being able to say how much I loved you, and being able to say goodbye, although very difficult, was all so important to me. God rest your sole. Rest in peace my wonderful Oma.

Oma you were the best. I know you're in a better place. My luv always with you.

Oma, it was a joy to know you for so many years. You were a special lady and will be greatly missed and always remembered. RIP.

It was a joy knowing you, Peggie.  My sympathy is extended to the family.  Please, let me know if I can help with anything.

Good Bye to a truly wonderful and gracious lady , we were  privileged to have known you and will always  remember you ...
                                Fondly , Frank and Uli Schmidt

My sweet Oma...I love you and miss you so much. RIP

Oma, you will always be in my heart.  We love you and miss you much.  Thanks for everything, you helped me become the person I am today and I am deeply greatful.  KISSES!

Rest in peace Mom. I know you're happy now & reuniting with family & friends. Thanks for the memories. I love you

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Margaret Hefler

January 5, 1920 – May 31, 2013

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