I find myself thinking about you. And how things could've been better for you. I think there was a plan in some twisted way for us to meet and even for us to part. Truly i believe that. But remembering you as a teenager. ..With your dreams and aspirations. You had so many goals and i just wish you could've reached them. I wish there was a way. Jack saw a motorcycle yesterday and it must've reminded him of you because he asked "mommy, how did daddy david get defeated?" 
I said you crashed on a motorcycle and that's how you were defeated. He accepted that answer then asked about lily. I told him you were with her. He seemed pleased by that. I know you know, and that you always knew, that i would take care of him. The most amazing way i can. He is the greatest gift anyone's ever given me. Just know that i always had good intentions. I always wanted things to be good, however they ended up. 

I miss you so much babe. Not a day goes by that I dont think about and cry. You were my best friend, my pikachu, my partner. I loved you with all my heart and I hate that you were taken. It wasn't fair, it wasn't fair that you didnt get to live a long life, we didnt get a chance to create more memories with laughs  Jackson, Emery and even maybe have our own kids, you didnt get the chance to grow old with me. You taught me to be more careless, love myself and value time. You were relentless, persistent, a misfit and never wanted to conform to society and to be honest those were the things I loved about you bit it drove me crazy! You would always joke about not making it to 30 and I'd tell you that its not funny and to stop joking bout it and look its wasn't funny! Babe I know you did not see it but so many people loved you dearly, your mom called you Peter Pan and now I know why, you never wanted settle you always wanted to fly you were always seeking for the next big thing. I miss you so much, you impacted my life in so many ways I just wish you that you stayed with me that night and stayed in bed with me, I should have begged you to stay in bed with me that night. Now that's all ever think bout, you coming through the door getting in bed with me and holding me tight. My heart aches every night knowing your not here with me. I will always love you and I will always have you in my heart. April 8th would have marked our 2 year anniversary and you were so excited I'm sorry you wont be here to celebrate it but I will honor it as our special day forever :) 
I love you babe so much 💕

My sincerest condolences to the entire family.
I planned to attend his memorial.
Got service times mixed up. 
David worked for me at Vitco Foods. He was a pretty funny guy if you were allowed to truly get to know him.
I will cherish the times we shared talking and laughing about life and the strange things that he saw as fun🤪 😄. 
David and I kept in touch after our days at  Vitco together were over.
He spoke dearly of his mom, siblings, and most of all, his children.  He may not have said it all of the time but, David loved you all!❤️
He worked hard and just wanted to be loved and accepted by those who were blessed to be around him.
I already miss his voice calling me "Boss Man" throughout the whole conversation while on the phone.
Rest on David much love my man!!
May God bless and heal every broken ❤️
Wendell Sanders



David, you were an awesome friend to have had, and an even better guitartist. I missed our band practices for years. Charles and I are the only 2 left from the band, but I PROMISE YOU, I will never ever let those memories die. You'll never die in our minds man. Once a Lunch Box Hero, forever family. Love you brother, hope you and Mike are having a blast jamming together now man. 

Missing you son the world Is not the same without you even though we sometimes didn't see eye to eye on everyday things you will always be my son love you my son

David. Thank you for our children. 
I told jack that you are taking care of Lily. 
Im sorry things went how they did. And with all of the hard times ive had with you in the 12 years ive known you, you have given me the best gift i could ever receive. Lily and Jack. 
I believe i met you when i was 15, so that i could have these kids. And i thank you for that. 

I miss you son! i wish i would of told you more how much i love you  even though we had our times. i wouldn't trade them for anything. you'll always be my son. we.ll see each other again someday. until then keep Lilly and your brothers close to you up in heaven.                                                            love Dad   

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David Ray Vance Adams

June 19, 1992 – January 21, 2020

Montecito Memorial Park and Mortuary

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