Lou- may your family be surrounded with overwhelming love and peace - I am so sorry to hear the news. God bless you, friend

Hi MaryLou, I'm so sorry for your loss of Jun. I hope you and the kids are doing ok this fall. I know Jun will always remain in your hearts.

Frank was so much to all of us.  For me he was a neighbor I grew up with, a fellow schoolmate at Our Lady of Loretto in Los Angeles, the leader & musician par excellence of the band I jammed with him in, and a dear friend I could always relate with.  Those memories together are always close to my heart that time or circumstances can never take away.  God Blessings to the Family and to all who knew Frank.  We'll miss him all the days of our lives!

Mary Lou, Mom and I are so sad to hear of Jun's passing. Our prayers are with you and your family and we know that you will see your beloved, again. May the sweet peace of our Jesus envelop you and the kids. If you have any needs, don't hesitate to call.

Mary Lou I am so sorry for your loss. He will live on through people like you, for the gifts he has left are surely not few.  My loving thoughts hold you near, and the loving memories that hold you so dear, see you through this time time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless

The service today was moving. You have a beautiful voice and your song was so touching. I pray that you find peace in your time of mourning. I feel blessed that I was able to jam with Jun again earlier this year. We were in a band called "Pacifica" way back in the early 80's and I played Bass guitar. I hadn't seen Jun since the 80's but as fate would have it, all the musicians from Pacifica plus a sax player got together to start a smooth jazz project this year. It was like a dream come true to me to be able to play a song from that time period called"It Doesn't Matter" by Spyro Gyra. I'll miss you, bro, and thanks for the one last jam...

My thoughts are with you and your family. May you find peace in your memories and happiness in the music ❤

May God comfort the whole family!  Our hearts are heavy at this time.  We love you all so much.  Hugs, kisses and prayers!

Lou, i just now heard about Jun. Oh my dear old friend, i am soooo sorry for your loss.  My heart is broken and i just don't even know what i can say to ease your pain but will instead pray for continued peace and strength for you always. Know that i am here if you need anything. All my love and deepest condolences to you, Shannon, Cole, and Maya.

May the Lord bless you  and your family Frank. YOu will be missed.

Dearest Marylou and Family:  There are no words that seem even remotely adequate.  Just know that so many of us love you and hold you all up in prayer.  God Bless you and your family now and always.  Love, Gina, Alfred, and Isabella Tenazas

Jun, You always made a uniquely melodic imprint on everyone you met.  Your smile warmed a room or comforted a friend in need.  You shared so freely your passion for music, piano, creativity and inspiration.  Thank you for being a part of my life...you, my friend, will be missed.  Sending prayers of comfort for your beautiful wife, and your 3 lovely children.  Mahalo.  xo

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."  Still, the heartbreak is so deep.  Our condolences, hugs and prayers xxoo

Dear Shannon,

Be strong for Cole, Maya and your Tita Mary Lou. May you find comfort from all the happy memories you've shared with your Dad and your family. Jun is  watching over you and your siblings. Much love.........

Jun,

Thank you for the laughter and your music. May the grace and love of God take you to eternal life....

a true friend with a big heart. i'm missing you my brother

My fellow pianist, Jun, tears are being shed for you across the world. No words can ever express the profound loss of a friend. You were truly an authentic man and musician. I thank you again for lending me your keyboard for a few months when mine got stolenI will never forget that. :) Not only your generosity will be remembered and admired, but also your cleverness to see the absurd in all things. You were so full of humor and energy; the room always lit up when you walked in. Your memory will forever light up what is now the dark space in our hearts.
Dearest Marylou, my heart is broken for you and the kids. I want to hug you a thousand times in consolation but I know that doesn't take away the pain nor bring Jun back. But day by day, find solace in all the beauty he left behind--the memories you created together, your loving family, and how together you have shaped the kids thus far for their bright future. I'm sorry I'm not there, but know that you are in my thoughts and I am grieving with you. May you be blessed with all the courage and perseverance it takes to keep going

I hear the notes that you plucked in the hearts of your love ones. It resonates with yearning and sadness, only to breathe with the distant drumming of your fading presence. You are too young to die, however, your music now plays to a different tune. A tune that hears not the wind but feels the rain in the earth, it feels not the heat of the sun, but flies to the stars of eternity. You play the light spectrum of waves and energy and we see you in a different light- your music is one with the heavens, the seas, and the faraway beating of the waves. Wait not for we march to the same tune of your journey.....play on, sing in the light of oneness. When the rain drops, we will remember you- like the tears of love that surrounds you on you wake. There is a Maori Karanga that calls from the soul of pain, welcoming the new comer to the meeting place. May it be loud and spiritual for you....until we hear our karanga to meet you someday.  Haere ra Jun.

I will miss your smile behind the keyboards.  I will miss the music that you made with Lou.  I will miss the hugs from my "bruddah".  I will miss you.

Lou...although we will not be there on Saturday our thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids.  My heartfelt condolences.

Our condolences to the Rabena Family. I was happy to play music with you when I saw you last.  May God hold all of you in the palm of His hand.

We LOVE YOU and your family and I am shocked. Our thoughts and prayers are in a very high move groove. Please let us know anything you need, anything we can do. Again, our Love and prayers are for you with blessings and concerns for Shannon, Cole and Maya. GOD is Awesome. PopO has June in the Glorified Ensemble for GOD. Roscoe & Jeannette Owens

Uncle Juni!!!  I'm still in shock!  Many of my childhood memories includes you, the Rabena family and of course your Mom.  You always were there for family support, to bring family together, to make us laugh & to bring us music.  May the angels enjoy your beautiful piano playing and your sarcastic sense of humor.  Thank you for being you... Say hi to your Mom,  Lola Benie, Lolo Jimmy, my gradparents & Uncle Pedring... you all are missed but never forgotten. My love and condolences to Marylou, Shannon, Cole & Maya....

My heart has been so heavy since I have heard.  I want to send you as much love as possible to all of you from our family.  We all prayed for you last night, and will continue to do so.  Hope to see you soon.

Our heartfelt condolences goes out to your family. Jun will be very missed... especially his great smile that we see in all his children. We will also miss his beautiful music.

Oh Mary Lou our hearts are broken for you and your family. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Our deepest condolences to you and the rest of the family.  We will include you and him in our prayers.  May God guide and bless you in these most trying times and that you'll remain strong for your family.

William and Agnes Chua and children
Tia Didang Marquez and family
      Ibaan, Batangas, Philippines

Junie, you gave Rob and me an abundance of joy, laughter, music. Oh, music and your love of it -  Rob loved going to the Jazz concert with you b/c you  truly appreciated each singer, each note, each melody.  Michael Franks songs always remind  me of you.  And you with  Mary Lou, gave true meaning to friendship. It does not matter how far, you and your family showed up just to say hello and spent quality time with us. It is unbelievable and inconceivable that you have moved on. Our loss, my good cousin. You have left too soon. We miss you.

Dear friend Marylou, kids: Cole, Maya and Shannon;
"The passing of Jun brings pain that time can only heal, no words could ease what we truly feel; But with GOD, his joy is eternally sealed, and cherish his memories that death can't even steal. I wish you all strength, peace, and comfort at this difficult time. Our prayers are with you all..."

Lisa Day/Angel Care Community Services, Inc.- Upland, CA

Dear Jun, MaryLou, Cole, Maya, Shannon...Our sincere condolences on the loss of a great man. We all wish you strength and courage at this time. We are all here for you. Jun, husband & Father, and an all around fun guy was gifted with talent and used it smart. He entertained everyone. I loved all his bands. He and his wonderful wife shared their love and sang at my parents mass. Ave Maria my friend. Thank you for that and much more. 

We were planning our next Mahjong game challenge. "Your on Bro"! 

We will all miss you Jun! "Bro, you the man"!

Loving you and the Rebena Family. 

Charlie D, Kathy D. & Jimmy "D" Dichirico

Dearest Marylou, we are at a loss of words, and Juliet and I don't know what to say to help you feel better. Please accept our  condolences anyway. We'll be praying for you and the kids.    If you need anything), please know that you can reach out to us...

I got word of Jun's passing today. I send my deepest heartfelt condolences to the family. My husband Gene "Butchie" grew up with the Rabena family and were very good friends. I will pray for God to heal your broken hearts. Jun, please give Gene a kiss for me when you see him.

Sending prayers to you and your family in this time of need. I'm sure Frank will forever be in your hearts. Condolences to your family

Jun, May your light continue to shine as you watch over those who love you.

Lou, I am at a loss for words. I never had the honor of meeting your amazing husband, but I have learned to admire him through your stories and pictures. My prayer for you and the children is that the intense pain and loneliness is soon overpowered by your memories and faith in a forever reunion.

Mary Lou, I remember meeting Jun when you and he were performing one evening in Temecula, I think it was.  I had heard you speak of him so lovingly, and it was such a pleasure to meet him. He had a beautiful smile, and you both glowed together. I can't imagine the sorrow you are all enduring, and my prayers are for your happiest memories to surround all of you for years to come.

We feel your sorrow, your pain and loneliness. But just remember, your family and friends are here to love, pray,support and comfort you on this difficult time. His music was his great legacy to all of us especially your family. Truly, Jun is a nice guy! We will miss him.

Dear Jun... We are so deeply saddened that you are no longer here.  We wish you peace in knowing that you were a wonderful husband, father, and friend.  Aroon and I will miss hearing you and MaryLou play and sing together.  So magical!  Thank you for the beautiful memories at our wedding.

Dear MaryLou, Cole, Maya, Shannon... We wish you strength and courage at this time.  We will pray for you.  Our sincere condolences.

I am sorry for your loss. I am at a loss for words and have no idea what to say right now. I want you to know that I am available for you to talk to anytime.
Warmly,

Shannon, Maya, Cole,
Angels are watching over you
Wings wrapped gently around you,
Whispering you are loved and blessed by all the great memories you have with your father.

Marylou,
May your heart soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived - my sincere condolences.
love you my friend .

Lou, Shannon, Cole and Maya - I am sorry for the biggest loss in your and all of our lives. Know that your dad meant a lot to me and was one of my best friends. I will miss him so much and I know you will miss him more. Jun- I hope you know how much I am going to miss you and our talks. Our jokes and laughter we use to share when you knew I needed a pick me up. You were there for me when I needed a friend to make me laugh.  Thank you and I will never forget you and will miss you forever. Mikey told me that you are in a better place and not to be sad, in his words - "Uncle Jun is in a better place, think about the good times and you will feel better". 
With love and respect...Vera and Mikey Wheeler

Eventhough I haven't see Juney since high school, I'm so very sad to hear he's passed. He was always such a sweet, kind and fun person to be around.  I'm happy and fortunate to have known you Jun Rabena.  May God bless your soul and may your family and friends find comfort in knowing you're now in heaven.

Jun was a talented musician and good friend. We had great jam sessions and laughed through our mistakes. We shared our love of basketball by criticizing every move our Laker team made. I will miss your comments and arm-chair coaching my friend. May you rest in peace. Our condolences to Marylou, the children and the family. We feel for you and offer you all our prayers through this difficult time. May God bless you always.

My sincerest condolences to the entire Rabena Family for the passing of a bright and vibrant individual.
I spent many nights in that alley behind Rockwood Apts and some nights were the Juni show. Fast cars and funny jokes expressions and a million dollar smile. 
Music creation was a product in that alley. Beautiful music top 40 came out of Rockwood for sure.

We will meet again in Heaven. Amen

MaryLou, Shannon, Cole and Maya...
Your partner and father Junie had such a big heart and filled it with much love and humor. Although I hadn't seen him recently, I always remember the warmth of his greetings and that sense of humor. Keep him in your hearts and he will always be a part of you.  With love, grace

My heartfelt condolences and prayers go out to you Marylou, your children and family. May God give you all peace and comfort in your time of sadness

Jun,words can't express how sad we are. Your presence, your music, your jokes and your smiles will be missed. We will pray for you, MaryLou, Cole, Maya, Shannon & Tim. Thanks for all the musical memories you gave our family. Rest in peace dear friend.
MaryLou, our hearts are hurting for you and your children. Jun brought so much joy to your lives, and together you made music magical. Hold onto those loving memories. And may God grant you strength to get through each day.

Ma Lou, we never had the honor of knowing Jun, but what we do know is that he must have been a very special person for you to have been so happy with him & to have created a life & children with him. We are so sorry for your loss. We are so sorry for the loss your children are experiencing. It isn't fair. We know that you all will carry the lessons he taught you into the world and bless others.

My deepest condolences on the unexpected loss of jun, he was a kind soul, may you take comfort in that he is now watching over your family from the heavens above, I pray that God grants your family peace, and know that we are all here for you, Cole and Maya. Much love from my family to yours

Frank- You were such a wonderful coworker, father and husband. My heart aches for your wife and kids. Thank you for being such a kind person to work with, you knew how to keep us laughing and smiling. I will miss you, Rest In Peace Frank.

Dear Marylou, Shannon, Cole and Maya:  My heart is breaking for you.  MaryLou, you are such a beautiful person and friend, a wonderful spouse and mother.  I am sending you all love and light and continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.  Jun was a great person and I'm sure he is playing the piano in heaven and will be there to greet you all.

I remember Frank and knew him when we were kids. I recall we played basketball at Our Lady of Loretto. He was a hot dog.  I guess he was good at everything he put his mind to. Later on in our later years our paths crossed and I called him Frank. He corrected me saying no one calls me Frank anymore, it's Junie. So Junie it is.  You will be missed.

It is clear that Jun has touched many lives and has left lasting, beautiful impressions.  I only met Jun for a moment, but the love that MaryLou had for him was very evident. There is little to compare, when you find someone that fills your days with laughter, happiness, and warmth. MaryLou, Cole, Shannon, and MayaJun will continue to fill any gaps that you may have in life. You will continue to hear his voice in songs; dance to his music; see his smile in each other; and live loving lives the way he has taught you. Peace and strength to you ALL.

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Frank is a good man.. if there's anything I can do for you or the kids please let me know. My prayers are with You, Shannon, Cole and Maya

My dear Marylou, 

My heart hurts for you and your family. Every picture I have seen with you and your family has you looking radiant and happy. Your love for your husband was always seen in your beautiful smile. I have known you for many years and wish you love and support and an inner peace that may come in time. You are loved by many and have given love to many. I know your husband will be missed so very much. I am so sorry you have to endure such pain. Love you friend xoxox

Marylou, My deepest condolences and heartfelt hug to you and your family.  May the beautiful memories of your husband bring you and your family comfort during this difficult time. Keeping you all in prayer.

Dad, thank you for all you have done for me during our whole life together.  I've been crying every day for you to come back in our family's life.  I have been struggling without you in the picture.  Thank you for always inspiring me in school, in sports, and teaching me a lot. I will continue making you happy and proud in all the things we've talked about.  I will take care of Mama and my little sister, Maya, for you.  Mama reminded Maya & me that we are so lucky to have created so many great memories in our lives through travel and different experiences. We are all sad we won't have you to share all the things we were planning for in our future. I don't know what else to say but that I love you and can't stand being without you.  I LOVE YOU, DAD :)

MaryLou, Shannon, Cole and Maya. My heart feels your pain for your loss. Jun was such a funny and extremely talented person. Our families grew up together (Rabena/Dichirico) and I have many memories. I believe he's in heaven with my family members and friends who have gone before him and they're singing together. May God comfort all of you and his siblings during this difficult time. Sending hugs to all with love.

Papa, I love you and I miss you.  Thank you for being a great Father.  I'm going to miss you telling me what to do, heping with all of my school stuff, you driving Cole and me to school, cooking the best steaks, and always driving us to hotels and caring all of our bags. I will miss giving you your massages, giving you the best #1 DAD ICE CREAM, getting all of your things for you if you were too lazy, and giving you hugs and kisses. I will miss playing football with you, baskeball, baseball, golf, and every sport except for softball. I will miss you teaching me how to play golf, science, ukulele, piano, how to cook, and how to  clean the house for mommy to be happy. Thank you for everything you did for my wonderful life. You are the dad that everyone should have because you just work your butt off. I will see you up in heaven. I LOVE YOU! :)#1 Dad

Mrs.Rabena, my heart is heavy today for you and your kids. I'm sorry for your lost, Frank was a great person to me and I considered him my family to and will miss him dearly.

Collis Montgomery Jr
Phoenix, AZ

To my one and only love...you have left a void undescribable to me in my heart & soul.  Our 16 years of life together was too short and I am now dealing with the aftermath of your early departure to live in God's home.  I feel your spirit with Tim and Shannon, Cole and Maya in our home we've built together with so much love, laughter, craziness, and joy and our lives will never be the same.  Sweet rest to you...the music behind my voice. I love you so and miss your kiss, your touch, your voice, your spirit....Your Baby...Lou

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Frank R. Rabena Jr.

April 29, 1957 – August 24, 2015

Montecito Memorial Park and Mortuary

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