Here I am, over a year later.  Sitting in my car listening to music, looking up at the stars wondering if im looking at you. Or maybe you're in the passenger seat right next to me just hangin out, idk. Week in and week out I always think of you bro, my memory of you and my love for you will always be the exact same as the day you left this place. Saying I miss you is just an understatement now.  It bugs me so much that you didn't get the chance to truly show the world how great of a damn person you are , you showed me tho.  You were going to do really big things here but I know youre still doing them where you are now. Like always, I love you Marv, see ya when I see ya.

I really miss you. Thanks for everything.

Hey man, it's one of those nights again. Life's being difficult right now, probably cuz school wants to be hard af this semester, but thats okay, it'll all work out. I still always miss those bump ins with you at school, and a conversation with you in a time like this would've been great. We're all past the denial phase but damn bro it'll always be crazy to me, I really miss you dude and I just wish we had more time together but of course we all wish we had more time. Idk man just thought I'd write to say I love you again and I miss you even though I dont have to write on here for you to know that. See you  again some day brotha

Hey knuckle head, it's you're 20th birthday today and man was I ready to spoil you beyond anything today. Marvin I miss you so much and it's hurts more as time goes by that I realize more and more that waiting for a phone call or you at my front door isn't going to happen anymore. I didn't accept your death for a while... I felt ignored and it's stupid right I'm so dramatic. My heart still beats crazy fast when I think of you like it wants to explode and my stomach still fills with butterflies I love you goose. I want to run up to you and slap you and then just hug you and kiss your face all over and talk about all your stories and ideas and music and our future Marvin I miss you. I don't know what to do anymore I'm so lost. There's good days where I could stand my ground and be decent, but there's days where I get flash backs/memories of that night and I break wherever I am and I want to show you that I am strong enough to take care of myself and be with your family to help them out as much as I can. I want you to be happy of me as I keep growing. I miss you and I love you and I hate you haha. I'm trying Marvin I pinky promise okay to push forward and keep our "traditions" alive and future ideas a possibility. There's so much I want to tell you, so much I want to hear your voice. Man did we balance each other out and you balance so many others as well. So many people miss you and they have all these crazy beautiful memories of you and it's great talking to them about you it feels so euphoric. I'm planning on getting the puppy you've always wanted to have, Riley, hopefully by the ends of March or April when I'll have her and I'll be taking her with me to go visit and talk to you 
P.S sorry if this letter was all over the place haha I love you so ****** much !!! Till next time knuckle head.

It's been over a month now bro and your birthday is coming up in about a week. I still miss you every day and some days are better than others, there's certain nights where it just hits me hard and I feel like it'll be like that for the rest of my life. We both know time doesn't stop but I wish for once it would because I don't want to get farther and farther away from the time you were here with us. I want these memories of you to always be fresh in my mind. I'm so grateful you were one of my best friends bro, we should've never had to go through this type of stuff for another 50 years or so. We all were supposed to make so many more memories together as a group, and all grow old together. I saw you being here with me for the rest of my life. Death is so crazy to believe that we carried you to your grave brother, watched them lower you, and I still don't really believe you're actually gone. Anyways, I hope you're doing well bro, talk to ya later Marvin. I love you man

My deepest condolences to the family. I'm truly sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you. When I met Marvin, I sensed his kindhearted spirit right from the start. He was easy to talk with and he had a beautiful smile & warm heart. Rest in heavenly peace.

Siempre te recordare como un hijo ejemplar, vas a estar todo el tiempo en mi corazon.Me dejas un gran vacio en mi corazon, nadie podra llenarlo te amo mi hijo por siempre. Tu padre que tanto te ama siempre vas a estar conmigo.

My sincere condolences to all those who loved this wonderful young man. A beautiful life left us.
May the peace of GOD be with you and help you. John5:29,29

Marvin - 

It breaks my heart to learn that this happened to you. I just can't even comprehend it. Even though we hardly talked, I can't stop thinking about you and how your kindness just lit up a room. You were everyone's friend. You did not deserve this. I remember in high school how we would always call you "Starvin Marvin" like the South Park episode and you would always laugh even when we were all teasing.. You were such a good sport. I hope you know how many lives you've touched, including mine. You were one of Daniel's closest friends and you two had so many good laughs together which I am so thankful for. You guys had each other's backs no matter what. I will always be grateful that Daniel had the chance to really get to know you and experienced all of your amazing personality. You mean so much to soooo many people and I hope you know we all love you and that you will be in our hearts always. 

Rest In Peace, Marvin.

Hijo mio, tu partida me ha dejado un gran vacio en mi corazon esto que siento nose que es si es dolor, desesperacion solo se que me duele demasiado. Se que estas en un mejor lugar donde todo es felicidad, que te estas regosijando en la gloria del señor. Hijo te extraño tanto tus besos, tus abrazos,tus ilove you mama pero te prometo que boy asacar fuerza para soportar esta prueba tan dura que mi dios me a puesto y entender todo te amo ni niño te amo con todas las fuerzas del universo y mami siempre te tendra en sus pensamientos.

Para mi hijo:
nadie mas conocera la fuerza de mi amor por ti
despues de todo, eres el unico que conoce como suena mi corazon desde adentro 
   Mama. 

Yo soy la resurrección y la vida,
el que cree en mi, aun que muera vivira,
Y todo el que vive y cree en mi
No morirá  Jamás.

Juan 11:25,26

Los queremos mucho mucho muchoooo tios and cousin!!!

Los tengo en mis pensamientos y oraciones, pidiendo que la paz de Dios que sobre pasa todo todo esta con ustedes, Amén!!!
Filipenses 4:7(NVI)
7 Y la paz de Dios, que sobrepasa todo entendimiento, cuidará sus corazones y sus pensamientos en Cristo Jesús.

Los Amo!!!

Calechi

Viviras por siempre en nuestros corazones sobrino

Mi niño bello viviras en mi mente y mi corazon por siempre se k stan en un mejor lugar en los brasos de papito Jesus k descanses en paz mi niño bello

Hoy es un dia muy triste mi  jitoo..xq tu cuerpo sera enterrado ,duele haceptar la partida de un ser querido Pero sabemos qtu alma esta en los cielos gosandote con el rey de reyes y qhay fiesta en los cielos x un angel qse llevo nuestro señor JESUS ! Basta y sobra ver como hablaba mi tio de ti jito, para saber que eras un niño bueno y un orgullo para el  hoy duele tu partida y talvez nunk tuvimos la oportunidad de estar aki todos en juntos en familia! pero lo estaremos aya arriba en los cielos tkmm jitoo siempre estaras en mi corazon y tu recuerdo vivira siempre en nosotrosPidele a diosito qnos guarde y cuida de nosotros desde aya arriba junto con el hoy brillara una estrella masarriba ,tu tiempo en esta tierra termino! pero tu vida eterna el paraiso comenzo de todo corazon te quiero mucho mucho y viviras siempre en cada uno de nosotroste quiere mucho tu prima la trompis

You had plans. You had dreams and aspirations. You had that voice. We had that power. 
I, honestly, still cant seem to wrap my head around this, man. I'm blocked. Whenever it comes to the subject of you, I'm blocked. I cant think of words to say and when I am able to finally rummage for some words, i can never seem to muster up the perfect sentence even though you're the type of guy a girl could write stories about and the type of friend that guys could write books about. Now, i could go on and on about how this just isn't fair and how any of us would give up the opportunity in a second to switch places with you, but this is something that we all already know. 
You and I had always agreed that somehow, passing on just seemed like a cruel sick joke that life plays on people, but never did we ever think it would be one of us this early. This just isn't how things are supposed to be. This still doesn't feel right. Waking up feeling like something is missing is a feeling i would have never thought to have had encountered in my life this early. I always knew i was able to count on you, and you on i. We shared that bond on a different conscious plane. A plane where mentality overrun physicality. A plane where it were almost as if we could speak without saying words. You always knew when something was up and are one of the only few people to call me out on it and actually help me through it. You always put everyone before yourself and i picked that up from you. I loved everything about that. I loved everything about you. 
That night, we promised to take over the world. We always knew we would. But, now, I'm stuck here where the concept of being left to rule alone doesn't even  fully register. And, as for you, you're on your own too. The only difference is, you're on Planet Paradise and, man, have i heard how beautiful it is. Open lands as far as the eye can see, and oceans incomprehensible in size. This isn't over, this is just the intermission.

I love you and I'll see you on the Aquarius soon enough, man.
Mario.

I am very blessed to have known you these past five years. I am very glad I had the previledge to be friends with an amamzing young man like you. I could never help but smile when I seen that big cheesy smile of yours. I wish we could of made more memories together, but I will cherish the ones we did make forever. We will meet again someday Marvin, but until then you will always be in my thoughts. I love you and I am praying for strength for your family and friends.

Vivirás por siempre en nuestros corazones Jito ahora eres un Ángel que cuidara de nosotros asta el día del reencontró en la vida eterna donde no hay mas llanto ni dolor, nos dejas un enorme vació en nuestros corazones te amamos por siempre sobrino

Hey brother just came to say I love you. So much. We grew up together & I really expected for us to grow old together as well. This all still feels incredibly surreal but I am happy for the memories we made & that I got to spend time with you & your sister. Seeing you take care of her & love her the way you did was something I admired about you. I hope that her & your parents will have the strength to overcome losing someone as amazing as you. I'll miss you man & I'll always keep you in my thoughts.

Descansa en paz primo; ya estás en los brazos de nuestro padre celestial vivirás en nuestros corazones por siempre

El tiempo avanza y cada días es más difícil entender y aceptar tu ausencia jito primo date un chance y baja del cielo un rato y has sentir que estas aquí Dios te pido fuerzas aliento paz fortaleza. Ayúdanos Dios jitoooo te extrañamos demasiado

Descanse en paz mi sobrino bello siempre te llebaremos en nuestros corazones TE AMAREMOS POR SIEMPRE duele dejarte ir es impotente todo esto sobrino es duro es muy duro pero TE AMAMOS asta siempre mi bello sobrino

Recordemos q él solo senos adelanto, hoy él esta en un mejor lugar lleno de luz,  todos nacemos para morir, pero luego viviremos en un cielo maravilloso, hagamos q él se sienta orgulloso desde él cielo de ustedes y no estén tristes xq a él no le gustaría ver su familia así, recuerdenlo siempre con alegría... Yo los acompaño en su dolor,  
Descanse en paz Marvin Alberto Aleman

Los acompaño en el dolor que les embarga,
mi mas centido pesame para toda la familia Aleman Escobar.
Descanse es paz Marvin Alberto Aleman

Love you marv, always was a great time with you, You made a impact on my life as well as our friends with your smart ideas and conversations. Was a pleasure to grow up with you playing xbox every night during summer, love you man.

Marvin , you've made such an impact on so many people's lives and you had such an amazing soul. I remember the first time we met and your radiant personality and jokes made everyone laugh and you just made everyone around you so happy. Then I remember how we both used to push each other in XC and tell each other how much we hated it , yet we still cheered on / boosted each other like no other. And I remember when you joined wrestling and again we pushed each other and you were always that person to bring me back up even at my lowest and that honest voice of reason that everyone needed . You'd help those around you to ensure their success , because you were that type of person to want to see nothing but happiness from their friends , such a selfless and kind person. Love you so much Marvin.

mi mas centido pésame para la familia alemán k Dios les de fortaleza y sabiduría para aprendan ha vivir con este dolor descansa en paz jito k Dios te tenga en su santa gloria fuiste un excelente hijo un ser maravilloso siempre te tendremos en nuestros corazones

Marvin, it was just like yesterday we were in Brockman's class launching our Bottle Rockets. We were so young and having fun without any worries. Even though we didn't talk as much in High School, you were still one of my good friends throughout my life. I am glad I got to share so many laughs with you. I will see you on the other side. Rest Easy Marvin...

No hay Consuelo ni palabras, que aliente la pérdida de su hijo, quiza  haya sobre Uds una nube gris que no les permite ver la luz del sol, pero Dios sigue estando ahí,  Y hoy solo queda esperar que el tiempo haga lo suyo y les de paz y tranquilidad porque mientras permanezca en sus corazones, su marcha solo habrá sido en cuerpo, pues estará siempre en casa rosa del jardin en cada gota de lluvia. Recordemolo con amor y mantengamos viva la esperanza de volverlo a ver algún día Dios les de mucha fuerza y resignación Yuni Alemán ahora que su hijo Marvin Jr. Está en presencia del Señor en un lugar donde no hay lágrimas ni dolor.

Marvin te conoci muy poco, pero ese tiempo me basto para saver que eras un gran muchacho, respetoso y de buen corazon. Tu partida a dejado un gran dolor para todos los que te conocimos y te apreciabamos en especial a tu familia y a mi Jenny hermosa , pero savemos que ya no sufres, que estas en un mejor lugar.  Que Dios y sus propositos son incuestionables, que todo pasa por algo. Y Dios tiene planes mucho mejores para ti.  Te vamos a extrañar mucho Marvin. Mi corazon esta con tu familia. Mis mas sentido pesame a la familia Aleman Escobar

Yudy mi madre las quiere como hijas a ti y a tania veo su dolor con tu perdida. Es algo muy dificil que ningun padre debe pasar. Se que el fue una gran persona un gran hijo un gran sobrino. Pero Dios sabe por que hace sus actos. El ahora es un angel mas que cuidad de ustedes y siempre estara con ustedes. Fuerzas familia..

Que Dios sea dando paz,resignación y fuerza a los padres y seres queridos que sufren la partida de un ser amado. No existen palabras para consolar el dolor que deja una perdida así, solo pedimos a Dios que el sea dando fortaleza a sus corazones. Que en paz descanse Marvin.

ugh jito I miss you so much :( I still feel like this is a dream ! our family is not gonna be the same without you  ur always gonna be in my heart for ever ! you're never gonna be replace ! never forgotten  i miss that smile of yours ! u don't know how much we miss you :/ I love you so much jito ❤ I know your in a better place but come back :(  Rip jito

Yuny sabes el gran amor que nos a unido siempre por eso en estos momentos no encuentro  palabras para calmar tu gran dolor se que solo Dios puede darte la fortaleza para darle el ultimo adiós a tu hijo  solo le pido a Dios que les de la fortaleza.

Jito,
 Words can't describe how much you will be missed. We first met about 2 years ago. In these 2 years, I was able to see the amazing young man you had become. Always with a smile on your face. Always very welcoming with arms wide open for those huge hugs you would always give me.  God decided that he needed a new angel. Although none of us are not ready to let go, we know he called for the best. I know that you are in much better place. So peaceful. So happy. And I can still see that smile on your face as you walked in. 

Te queremos y te vamos extrañar Marvin Aleman. 

"The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.    Job 1:21

Sobrino !!     te fuiste dejando un vacío en nuestros corazones, fue un gran placer Ser tu tía vivirás por siempre en mi corazón ❤                                           Que Dios te tenga en su santa Gloria,

Hermana no encuentro una palabra para decirte cuánto lo ciento sabes que tu dolor es mi dolor ,le pediré mucho a Dios para que les de fortaleza en tu corazón y el del compadre.      

Descanse en paz JITO

Hey Marvin. Even though I saw you occasionally during these years I still had a close bond with you, we all did. Having to hear this about you is a fact I don't want to believe, but I have to learn to tolerate it. I going to miss calling you Abraham because I mistakingly thought that was your name when we met and those bike rides we planned, but never done because we always had an occasional tire pop. I love you Marvin. I will always keep you in my memories.

I love you Marvin, you knew that. It hurts so much because this accident hit home, you were one of us...one of the group, and you always will be. The only thing helping me right now, besides hanging with the group, is that the last time we chilled, I messaged you after and told you how happy I was that you were there that night and how great it was that we were all together again, how it was like the old times. You messaged me back saying the same thing and you were sooo happy too bro, things were just getting back to how they were supposed to be, everybody was back in town, and we were all together once again. Then this tragedy hits us. We lost you, a part of our little family of friends that we'll never get back and it sucks man, we all miss you so much. I know you're still with us though bro, I'll see you again some day. Until next time though man, take care and I know you're eating all the toast you're heart desires right now haha. We love you.

Solo Dios sabe porque te llevo tan pronto, pero el dolor de tu partida es inmenso, es que aún eras muy joven i tenías una vida por delante, solo le pido a Dios el consuelo para  tus padres y tu hermanita, que descanses en paz, Marvin Alberto.

Jito.
Tu muerte fue una gran perdida para nosotros, fuistes una persona excepcional, te extrañaremos y recordaremos siempre ! Que descanses en la paz del Señor ! son los sinceros deseos de Carlos Ramirez y Familia

Hey Jito gonna miss you man.. some of the best buds since 3rd grade back to swimming for hours until dad told us come in & eat fresh tortillas from mom men its so unreal i love you men you'll always be my happiest friend , the best sonic hedgehog gamer super smash bro player Shine bright on us Jito. Heads above the clouds now forever will be missed and loved, love you - your fav black brother :')

Oseas 6:2
"Nos dará vida después de dos días; en el tercer día nos resucitará, y viviremos delante de él."

Sobrino presioso te fuiste dejando un  gran recuerdo entre nosotros  Dios consuela la familia en especial a tus padres que él les de consolación y fuerza en su corazón para aseptar q tu micion en este mundo termino  q nos toca seguir viviendo con el dolor de q yaa no estaras mas con nosotros Q Dios te tenga en

 su gloria  quien te amo por simpre te tenemos q desir    ADIOS MARVIN ALBERTO ALEMAN ESCOBAR viviras siempre en nuestro corazón

Jito, ahijado, te llevaremos en nuestros pensamientos. Siempre vivares en nuestros corazones. Que Dios te lleve en su santa gloria.

Salmos 141-8
Por tanto, a ti, oh Jehová, Señor, miran mis ojos;
En ti he confiado; no desampares mi alma.

-Tu Padrino

Negrito bello!!!
Eras una hermosura de muchacho!
Sabemos que nada pasa si no es la voluntad de nuestro Padre,... te amaremos y recordaremos siempre Marvincito.

Me viste antes de que naciera. Cada día de mi vida estaba registrado en tu libro. Cada momento fue diseñado antes de que un solo día pasara.
Salmos 139:16 NTV

Psalm 139:16NLT
16 You saw me before I was born.
    Every day of my life was recorded in your book.
Every moment was laid out
    before a single day had passed.
 
One of my favorite Psalms, want to know why? Because everything we face or go through during the day/days have been written in his book, even if we don't understand it, or doesn't make sense,...
May you Rest In Peace Cousin, I will always love you and remember you!

Descansa en paz primito❤

God gave us 20yrs here with you. Precious memories that will forever hold close to ours hearts. Thanks for being a great cousin, friend, brother and son to everyone that crossed your path. An angel gone to soon but it's ok because your with God now Jito and he has better plans for you up in heaven. La familia Aleman, Escobar, Cervantes, Gutierrez, Ramirez, y Castineyra tenemos un hermoso angel que nos va estar cuidando y abrazandonos cada dia de nuestra vida.   I love you always & forever

marvin you were an amazing person even though we only got to know each other for such little time you made a big impact on my life you are now in a better place watching over your beautiful family and friends that loved you. We all wish you were still here with us. Love you Marvin❤

Jito, i will always love you. you were an amazing big brother. you were my best friend you were my home. i miss you so much. you should've seen how many people came to see you. i know you would've loved it. i know your in a better place and your watching over us. i cherish every moment with you even the times you would get mad at me. i remember the times we would make fun of each other and play fight. Jito,  you were loved , you were cared for i love you so much i will never forget you. its impossible to forget you, you were the best you made an impact on everyone's life's.

Your wings were ready but many hearts were not fly high with your wings and bless ur family and dearest friends forever missed but never forgotten

OBITUARY

Marvin Alberto Aleman

February 28, 1997 – January 16, 2017

Montecito Memorial Park and Mortuary

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