I love you so much lil sis, I can’t imagine living life without you it hurts so bad i don’t want feel this pain I keep wish that this was a nightmare and I’d wake up and you would still be here but your not, And it’s starting to hit me real hard I’m trying to be strong but it’s so hard we done everything together your my person my first best friend all I needed was you I feel so broken nothing will ever feel or be the same ever I miss you I miss your  laughing and messing around and now I’ll never have that no more man Vanessa why why why did it have to be you I can’t do this, this is really messing me up.

To my beloved sister Vanessa I Love You for eternity since we were kids we would look out for each other from that time dad was teaching us how to do boxing to the last time I saw you. You helped me grow as well as I helped you I miss you but you know that I will look over your babies you know I will my kids and your kids will grow up and be best friends just like you and my wife talked about they will have our bond I will make sure everything you did they remember your kids were always your priority and that made me proud as your brother to see that you always put your babies first thank you sister thank you for opening up my eyes in so many things even now that you're gone I will carry your legacy and dreams for your kids as they get older I will remind them that even though mom may not be here now Tio Martin gots them through thick and thin I love you sister I'll see you later vanessa I love you but for now go shine like you always have be the brightest star in the sky because when your kids miss you I will remind them you're with them every time you're up above I love you sister.

Nothing in this world is better than having big sisters to look up to in life to teach the little sisters how to become a woman in life and be there always by their side even when they know you're in the wrong or right and to my sister Vanessa Lopez  you were always the sister that I can always cry to when something would bother me or how I felt inside and you would give me the best advice on life that any sister can ever ask for I Love You So Much Sister and Thank You For Always being my crying shoulder and now I sit here thinking and crying wondering if you're ever going to answer my calls like you use to be but nothing because now your just in my thoughts and in my head of what you would tell me and may you be the most Beautiful Angel that God has taken and may your beautiful soul R.I.P now & forever sister until we meet again 🕊💜

Your heart was so forgiving and generous- you never turned away someone that needed help even at your own expense, you were like a sister to me. Celeste & I will miss you dearly.  You were a good Mom, sister,Auntie,GodMother,daughter, mostly a great Woman this world will miss your presence. 

Vanessa was such a sweet and caring soul. She was always so loving and joyful whenever she was around her family. She loved to help people and she loved her family even more. She was such a great mom, always making sure her kids were fed and happy. nothing made her more happy then seeing other people happy. Rest in paradise auntie, me and  everyone will take care of the kids, Ill make sure King becomes a strong gentleman. We all love you auntie ❤️. Rest in gods mansion.❤️

Vanessa........My heart is broken and I miss u so much Mija. It will never be the same without you. I remember when I first met u when we all lived on King St. I smile as I think of that day because u were wanting to know if I was Santos mom. I fell in love with your beautiful face, your beautiful smile, innocence and your wonderful personality. You were always smiling and laughing, so full of joy and curiosity. I loved when u called me mom...We had a special bond that was so beautiful. You became my daughter and I loved u more than life itself. My family became your family. U had that affect on everyone. You were the sister that they came to love and adore. Everyone knew u were my baby and I will forever be greatful u came into my life mija. I have so many beautiful memories of u growing up, becoming a young woman, becoming a mother, and the beautiful person that u became. U were always so kind and considerate and had a big heart....Dont worry mija because u know we all got u n will help out each other with all the kids. U are my Angel mija n  will forever  be my baby. I love u😥

The Memories Of Your Words Touched Our Past With Reality---

                         ~Vanessa Lopez

In your fire, I find reality again
From the days of old where I
Built things, caused things to
Be with life as well as of life!

Words---of spirit reflect magic
Choices coming forth saying
Revealing things---about acts

Of life, soul awakening dance,
Realizing Trans-choices of our
Higher self ---that harmonize
Our oneness interconnected!
---/the Poet/2.14.22

The Gifted Dream Of The Resurrection Is Love---

                                           ~Vanessa Lopez

I see in the corner of your eyes,
The breaths of eternal life like
Adam's dreams ---of humanity
For ---they promise transitional

Means of awakening from the
Great sleep of consciousness,
Even---knowing our very selves
In the resurrection ---for God's

New design is the living reality
Of love, our new existence will
Allow us to experience his love
As once as Adam, even Christ

When rose from from his grave
To reveal his oneness with life,
Unfolding his dream of dreams
Store of humanity tomorrow's!
---/the Poet/3.4.22

To Know The Higher Consequences Of Life---

                                      ~Vanessa Lopez

Bud, I am very sorry, I want to see
Justice, for Justice will bringing
About some meaning for these
Little ones ---who now lack your
Touches, your direct words, and
Your ever presence, nevertheless

You do leave an ever connection
Of dream memories to always be
Cherish ---ever moment of their
Lives that they had with you, for
Your life will ever come forth to

Be born in their individual souls
Hearing you say, "I am your mom"
I have bought you into existence
To be somebody beautiful in life!
My love will always be ---in your
Beautiful blessed life of being u!
---/the Poet/2.20.22

Just Being A Loving Human Being---

                        ~Vanessa Lopez

Bud, you settled to be a humble
Soul, I saw the meek ---in your 
Heart, ---when you said these
Kids would always be apart of
Mine lives, for I was there when

They---even came into this life,
Even also, ---as they looked up
To me, ---as I protected them---
And provided for them at times
My unconditional love was there

Revealing that I could just be
A friend, a caring human being
That gave and shared my life's
Moments for a better tomorrow,
Yes, ---I saw love in their eyes,

Bud, it was your love that you
Always gave to them, your very
Last, ---just to try to daily to be
That great mother in their lives!
---/the Poet/2.20.22

The best mommy to your kids your number one priority they love And miss you, we will keep you in their memories and we will take care of them no worries now you can rest our forever Angel 

You always helped and asked if I needed anything and always willing to help I keep thinking of you but I know you’re in a better place… the last  time I saw you I told you don’t worry the kids are fine and they are fine don’t worry we will take care of them I miss you and love you …  MoeMoe 

She was a real one and helped out so many she was there for me n my kids when I had nowhere to go...she was so loud n funny I'm sure gonna miss her laugh 

She was the sister and aunt that we all came too when we needed advice , she was the most independent women I met that can manage 7 kids let alone kept a roof over their the entire time never have she begged someone for help , she did it on her own because she was a hustler especially for her kids.

You are missed  mija  you are a kind giving person  you are truly  loved by so many 
You will be forever  in mine and dad's heart  
Rest in paradise  


The Light Dance Of Heavenly Body---          01.26.22

                                              ~vml

I saw in a heavenly place in a circle
Dance of light, happy, singing, and
Free, with a white dress of light

A scene precedes this event, she
Was in amidst ---of a lot of souls
Setting at tables, it a great cloud

Of witness, praising and realizing
That only Christ Jesus has given
Us love, the reality of eternal life

Transcendental One Of Love---           01.26.22

                                           ~vml

Bud, I know God allowed you to
Send a message---cause you said
That you did not like color red, at
First, later you fell in love with it

Bless your evolving soul for more
Transitions into the spirit of your
Essence, you are life, ---an always
Bud of high grace and love being

I recalled raising her, for she
Had asked her mother and
Her father could she live with
Us, —her Tía Anna and I—
For two years from 14 to 16,
Anna and I always were there
For her as we bought things
For her, her very first pair of
New shoes, —for we believe
In given her the best, —for—
We had taught her so many
Beautiful necessities to live
By as well as to protect and
Provide for herself to be strong
And a beautiful person that she
Finally had become, —all in all,
She loved life, —her family—
Her Bud, friends, —and God!

She had always been there
For her children as well as 
Always helping others whether
It was some stranger that she
Had bought them food, and
Taken them home, she would
Unconditional give them her
Own food, or had cooked them
Some food, she had always
Sharing her blessings —with 

Others, I recalled she was an
Out going person, she had gone
To amusement parks, concerts,
Theaters, and restaurants, for
All these things she had done in
Her early 20s, —even revealing
Her love for life, and her beautiful
Words —will always be apart—
Of her family's life, and will echo
A truth —and a unconditional—
Love, —for humanity and ever 
Blessings of her loving dreams!
God bless your soul, dear Bud
—/the Poet/ 01.22.22

My Bud, My Best Friend Forever And My Beautiful Niece "Ves"

                                ~vml

When I first met this cute
Little pretty girl full of life
She was only 12, looking
Up at her, I knew I sensed
I would adopt her forever,
She played with her brothers
On King street, I recalled
They said, —or called her
"Chip", which I did not know
At first, —a little later they
Called her that 'cause her
Older brother referred to it
Of her teeth that had been,
Being chipped, I said "hi"

And she replyed with an
Innocent smile, that I will
Never forget, for in that moment
I had found a friend, later
Our relationship would be
More, a best friend forever,
She put it into her distinct
Word, —"uncle", my dear

Child —was an outwardly
Soul, extremely friendly and
I could sense the given of
Her heart to others, a silent
Saint of intuition as I got to
Know Vanessa, I recalled 

That I had taught her how
To drive when she was only
14, around and around within
Those apartments —by the
University, —she learnt fast,
Then to the freeways —and
Finally, she could drive a stick,
Perhaps, better than I thought,

As we got to know each other
More, she start to tell things
Personal —about herself----
She told me about her many
Wishes and dreams of truly
Wanting to do —so, so many
Wonderful things in life as she
Had exhibited a true maturity 
As she babysat for neighbors'
Children —being responsible
And —a trustworthy person—

For in school, she always
Wanted to know things as
Well as to play her school
Musical instruments, and
She —would sell gold after
School, —her bigger dream
Was that she wanted to join
The Marine like her Father
As he taught her many things
About them, —other dreams
Were, she wanted to go to
College, —she wanted to be
A lawyer, because she had 
Good —argumentative skills,
And her further dreams she
Wanted to travel —to Europe
And learn their cultures—and
Traditions of these countries

It was an honor calling you my sister you would always give me a hug and kiss followed by a Hi rosi what you up to sister whenever I went to visit you and the kids, my kids love your kids and I will always keep our plans a part of them we always laughed when we saw the babies kick it because we knew they would grow up to be best friends and they will be watch. I'm going to keep your memory alive forever! I love you Vanessa I'll watch over your babies now & always for eternity -Love Rosario 💜 

You always had a smile on your face you are the best mom daughter sister you always  were their to help any one in need you never said no 
I miss your beautiful  smile I'll keep you in my heart and that's were you will stay until we meet again  in God's mansion  in the sky
Don't worry about the kids me and dad and Franky  and MO 
Gots them 💯
Rest in  paradise mija 
Love mom


You were so loving and caring you treated my kids with love and compassion they will love and miss you always we all will….

OBITUARY

Vanessa Martina Lopez

June 19, 1985 – January 20, 2022

Montecito Memorial Park and Mortuary

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