Leilani D Sasser

June 2, 1935February 27, 2013

I walk by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7)

Leilani Dale Fleming Sasser was born on Sunday, June 2, 1935 in Luray, Virginia. She was the only child of George Engram Fleming and Rita Elizabeth Jenkins Fleming. She attended grade school in Luray, Virginia and Arlington, Virginia, and attended high school in Oberlin, Ohio. While in Oberlin, she took voice lessons from teachers at Oberlin Conservatory and was frequently a soloist with college ensembles. She attended Ashland College (now University) in Ashland, Ohio for one year and was the soloist for their traveling choir. She met her husband, Earl L. Sasser, Jr., in 1957 in Rochester, New York. They met at a young adult group in his church, Mt. Olive Baptist Church. At the time, she was a soloist in her uncle’s ensemble, Cecil & Jenks. Leilani was a regular singer on the Bill Gordon television show in Cleveland, Ohio. While performing, she met and conversed with other performers such as Elvis and Bobby Darin. She shared with family that Elvis advised her against pursuing a show business career because the odds were that the trials of show business would cost her more than she would wish to give up. Leilani and Earl were married on Monday, December 28, 1959 at her parent’s home in Oberlin, Ohio. Earl returned to his graduate study at Cornell University and Leilani remained with her parents. She was offered a performing contract, but turned it down in order to raise a family. Earl went to work in Washington, D.C. and Leilani’s father brought her to him in D.C where they established their home. Leilani was “Miss Clairol” for Washington, D.C. for a period of time. While in Washington, D.C., Leilani had three children and attended the D.C. Teachers College between births; earning her Bachelors of Science degree in Elementary Education in1969 and was certified to teach both elementary and middle school grades. The family moved to Oakland Mills Village in Columbia, Maryland in 1971 with all three children; becoming one of the early families to reside in Columbia. She and Earl are Charter Members of Columbia Baptist Fellowship (CBF). She was the first choir director at CBF; a Deacon; the Treasurer of Ladies Organized for Volunteering and Encouragement (L.O.V.E); drove the church van to transport seniors to church; and the team leader for the ministry at Kahler Hall. Leilani coordinated both athletics and first aid for vacation bible school and for church campouts. She made the “CBF Family Tree” banner used for many years. She continued to be quite active at CBF, in addition to parenting and teaching; while earning a Masters Equivalency at the University of Maryland. Her priorities were taking care of family, helping others, oil painting and fixing up her home. Leilani taught 1st grade at Stevens Forest Elementary; and she was later a teacher and team leader at Hammond Elementary and Middle School. She loved to teach, and she was the first teacher in many ways for her grandchildren even after her formal retirement. In the early 1970‘s, Leilani was informed that she had diabetes; however, she was able to maintain a full schedule of work, church and family activities for some years. However, by 1986, the diabetes and its ensuing complications forced her to retire from teaching. After retirement, she continued singing in the choir and participating in other church activities to the extent that she was able. To say that Leilani loved music is an understatement. She collected bells and statues of horses. She loved the outdoors and all kinds of animals. She was quite athletic and fearless; riding her horse barefoot and bareback as a young girl and white water rafting as an adult. Her sense of humor and her engaging smile was contagious. On February 27, 2013, she passed from this life and went to be with our Lord. She leaves to mourn her passing, her husband of fifty-three years, Earl Leslie Sasser, Jr., two sons, Corporal Earnest L. Sasser and Nicholas M. Sasser; one daughter, Elizabeth Ann Haase; one son-in-law, Phillip J. Haase Sr.; two daughters-in-law, Brooke A. Sasser and B. Michele Sasser; one sister-in-law, Minnie A. Sasser; one nephew-in-law, Lieutenant Commander David C. Sasser and his wife, Nanette D. Sasser; six grandchildren, Phillip J. Haase Jr., Nathanael D. Haase, Anna V. Haase, Brea N. Sasser, Kyle E. Sasser, Claire H. Sasser; one grand nephew, Logan D. Sasser; and one grand niece, Octavia H. Sasser.

Because of Leilani’s great love of animals and her concern for their welfare, the family requests that in lieu of flowers, contributions be made to the Humane Society of the United States (HSUS), 2100 L Street, NW, Washington, D.C. 20037, in memory of her.

Memorial Services will be held Friday, March 8, 2013, at Oakland Mills Interfaith Center, The Meeting House, 5885 Robert Oliver Place, Columbia, MD 21045. Visitation and receiving of friends begins at 12:30 p.m.; Worship Services begins at 1:30 p.m.



  • Memorial Service Friday, March 8, 2013
  • Receiving of Friends Friday, March 8, 2013


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joseph allibone

February 2, 2014

i could tell stories from brigantine to columbia. and philadelphia, lambertvill nj/new hope PA. but I had the most amazing friend. she would sing for me, and acually that is how it all started. Atlantic city NJ 2005. could go on on. however, I could never pay homage to a great lady. but her french was getting really good. AU REVOIR.( it's a b. thing)

Mae Robinson

April 4, 2013

So sorry for your loss. I we loved dear Leilani. Sure will keep all of you in our prayers as always. With Love, Gary and Mae Robinson and family from Wisconsin right now but lived in Columbia also but from Binghamton, New York.

Barbara Fleming

March 6, 2013

To Earl, Earnest, Ann, and Nicholas:
I remember Leilani as a beautiful, gracious, and loving relative who loved her husband, children, and grandchildren to the fullest. She also loved her extended family and made a point of sharing in their happiness and losses by attending all the special occasions she could as long as her health permitted. She had a magnanimous heart and spirit and was a kind and loving relative to her entire family. She was also blessed with a beautiful voice and loved to share her gift with others. I will miss visiting Leilani in Columbia but I will never forget her generous spirit and her contagious love of life. She embraced life to the fullest and lived it to the fullest as well. You were blessed to have her in your lives as a devoted wife and loving mother and grandmother.

Barbara (John) Fleming

Brenda McDaniels

March 6, 2013

To the Sasser Family,
My family and I wish to extend my heartfelt sympathy to you at this time for your loss. May the memories of Mom Sasser forever live in your heart and May she rest in Heavenly peace. If there is anything I can do please don't hesitate to ask. Thank you Mrs. Sasser for everything that you have ever done for me. Your memory will live on through your beautiful granddaughter (Brea Sasser) and everyone you have touched along life's journey.

Gloria Burnett

March 4, 2013

To The Sasser Family:

I was very sorry to hear of the passing of Leilani.I will keep the family in prayer during this sad time. May God comfort you.