Judith Gail Alspaw

Judith (“Judy” or “Mema”) Alspaw embarked on her final adventure, leaving behind a legacy of laughter and boundless kindness.

She was born in Austin, TX on December 10, 1940 before moving to Missouri as a young girl, but Texas always held a special place in her heart. She then graduated from Hickman High School in 1959 in Columbia, MO. “Forever a Kewpie”. Judy went on to marry Philip L. Alspaw on June 20, 1959.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, and survived by her sons; Mark Alspaw and spouse Amanda; Michael Alspaw and spouse David Politte; honorary children, Steven and Karen Grieshaber; grandchildren, Jon Alspaw and his spouse Ashley; Jacob Alspaw and his spouse Aemilee; James Alspaw; Josephine Alspaw; Bailey Foley and her spouse Austin, Matthew Grieshaber; great-grandchildren, Brooklyn and Jillian; sister, Delon (Pookie) Wilson; brothers, Kenny Anderson and his spouse Sigrid; Keith Anderson; and many dear cousins, nieces and nephews.

Judy and Phil, co-owned and successfully operated first the House of Carpet and later Carpet for Less, both in Columbia, MO. She loved gardening, baking, and hosting family gatherings that often lasted well into the evening. She created a warm, welcoming home that became the family gathering place, “The Alspaw Ranch.”

Judy adored being outdoors with nature. She enjoyed the family property with all its flowers, water features, statuettes, and pets, which mostly adopted her. Her home was her haven and there was always a bed and pillow for another head.

Judy will be fondly remembered by family and friends as a loving wife, mother, companion with a caring soul and big heart. Her life was a blessing, her memory a treasure. She is loved beyond words and will be missed beyond measure. We love you “Mema”!

Visitation will be held at Memorial Funeral Home in Columbia, MO from 11:00 am – 1:00 pm, Saturday, October 10, 2026. Funeral services will be held onsite immediately following the visitation from 1:00 pm – 2:00 pm. Committal prayers and burial will be in Memorial Park Cemetery.

Floral memorials are welcome or contributions may be made to St, Jude Children’s Hospital in Judy’s honor.

Condolences and fond memories can be shared at www.memorialfuneralhomeandcemetery.com