We are here for you. 
Sending you both so much love,
Debbie and Martin & the boys 
XOX

Ryan was a light in everyone’s lives & a kind soul, he always made every Wednesday for me whenever he would deliver pizza to the classrooms and whenever I would see him in the hallways, this is a devastating and heartbreaking loss, may Ryan rest in peace, he will be greatly missed & he was so loved & always will be.

My sincere condolences.

It is funny how we walk into someone's life believing we will be the ones to make a difference  or create change, only to discover that we are the ones that are truly impacted.

When I first started working with Ryan, it was meant to be a brief moment in time.  That brief moment grew into something much more. He was a missing piece of the puzzle that I am still putting together.  Watching his growth and progress has challenged me to grow as well. 

Ryan will forever be my Jellybean.  I am grateful for the time we shared and the lasting impact he has made.

Though his time was far to short, the joy, love and lessons will remain with those who were blessed to have known him.

A light shines bright even in the darkest of times. Ryan was a bright light, his love of music and the joy he brought to his family. It breaks my heart for for anyone to have to suffer, but knowing the kind and spiritual family he has makes it even harder. Remember the joy, remember the excitement, remember the good times. Keep his spirit with you and feel the warmth of his light. Much love.

There is truly no words for a loss like this. Ryan brought so much joy to his classroom and the whole school. His beautiful light will never be forgotten. He will always be known as our famous pizza delivery student delivering with a smile. I am keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Michelle Reser-Kalb

We are completely heartbroken by the loss of your beautiful son Ryan. There are no words for a loss this devastating. Having known your family for so long, we know how deeply Ryan was loved and what a bright light he was in your lives. As his soul transitions to its next beautiful journey, we pray he finds ultimate peace and harmony with the universe. Sending you all our love and strength during this difficult time. Ryan will never be forgotten. 
Love, 
Shamine, Lori and Dillon

My Dearest Glenn and Bee,

It has been an honor and privilege to have been given the opportunity to teach Ryan piano and music these past few years.   

Ryan was my "rainbow" at the end of a long work week at the university, and I always looked forward to working with him.   I will deeply miss his smile, his laugh, those beautiful eyes and all of the moments he made me laugh.   

Thank you for trusting me all of these years to give your son the gift of music.  And thank you both for gifting me a chance to teach your son, those moments I will treasure forever. 

Sending much love and light to you both at this difficult time.  If you ever need me, please don't hesitate to reach out.

With love, gratitude and my deepest condolences,
Stephanie

To the Havens family:Words can't express the tragedy you have experienced.I wish to offer as much compassion and sympathy as possible.Please accept this with an open heart.Fondly,Larry Finkelstein

I will always remember Ryan for the young man he had become.  I still remember his first day at DDI walking into the school.  I loved seeing him grow up over the years and I am so honored to have had the pleasure of working with him in all the various positions I have been in at DDI.  These last 2 years of having him be my right hand man while doing the pizza cart on Wednesdays has been so much fun. He will forever be missed, but never forgotten

OBITUARY

Ryan Masao Havens

January 15, 2005 – June 21, 2026

D'Andrea Bros. Funeral Home

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