Matilda Sylvia Guay

November 22, 1958October 10, 2021

At home on Sunday, October 10, 2021 at the age of 62 years. Beloved wife of the late Wayne Cairns. Loving mother of Sara Guay (Kevin) and Mathieu Guay (Nona) and step-mother of Shelley Cairns-Levy (Paul) and Barry Cairns (Vanessa). Cherished grandmother to many. Dear sister of Maria (Ivan), Barb (Cliff), Frank (Terri) Alex and John. Predeceased by her parents Julius Toltesi and Madeline (née Nagy) Toltesi and by her brother Julius Toltesi.

Cremation Arrangements entrusted to LAHAIE AND SULLIVAN, CORNWALL FUNERAL HOME, WEST BRANCH, (613-932-8482).

As expressions of sympathy, Memorial Donations to the Heart & Stoke Foundation would be greatly appreciated by the family.


No public services are scheduled at this time. Receive a notification when services are updated.


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Kevin Cooper

October 17, 2021

My condolences to the family.
Toad was a good friend and she will be missed.
Kevin Cooper

G.B. Muddy Clark

October 15, 2021

So sad to learn about Toad, my condolences to the families

Kim Brownlee Sauve

October 15, 2021

My heart hurts for Toads family. Growing up she stayed at our house. Much like a big sister to me. I only remember her glowing smiles. Lots of great memories. Rest in peace Toad.

Rick Shaver

October 14, 2021

Of all the people too see in the obituaries......Matilda was a great person ,good humour ....she had to work with me poor her but overall a great person my condolences to her family and friends she will be missed I know for sure !

Kristin Hebert

October 13, 2021

My deepest condolences. I worked with Matilda, and saw her daily for 18 years. She will be missed.

Barbara & Clayton Disotell

October 13, 2021

We met Matilda when she was a seamstress working for Sonya Latour back a few years ago. Always smiling . Her daughter Sara & my granddaughter Crystal went to school & became close friends so we were friends & enjoyed get togethers. Matilda will always be remembered for her smile & laughter. Sara,Kevin & Leanna you have a special Angel to watch over you all. Sympathies to all her family at this sad time. RIP (Toad)

Kevin Gallinger

October 13, 2021

Dear Barb & Cliff

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear sister Toad. We remember you speaking of her over the years and the few times we shared time with her and your family Barb. Cherish the good memories and know that our thoughts, love and prayers are with you and the entire Toltesi family.

Deepest condolences to all
With love and sympathy,
Kevin, Sheila, MacLean, Shannon, Meredith and Mitch


Judy Murphy (Parenteau)

October 12, 2021

Barb, Maria, and to Toads whole family. Deepest sympathy on the loss of such a wonderful person. We had some good times in the seventies. RIP

Christine Kitts

October 12, 2021

Barb and family
Sincere sympathies for the passing of Matilda.
I remember her from many years ago.
I hope you will always remember her with a smile.

Wendy Shelp

October 12, 2021

I worked with Matilda at Walmart Logistics. She had a great sense of humour. Always great smile and welling to help. Was looking forward to her return. She is going to be greatly missed. Deepest sympathies to all her family and friends.