

John was born at Grace Hospital in Welch, West Virginia, and was a lifelong resident of Gilbert. He was the son of Billy Gene May and Melanie Lee Chapman (Hess).
John was a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. He is survived by his wife of 43 years, Connie Sue May (Hatfield); his two sons, Robert May (fiancée Sara) and Nicholas May; his sister, Angela May Pope (Steven); his niece, Kayla May and her son Cameron; and his four grandchildren, Logan, Blake, Beckett, and Wynnie.
John spent much of his working life in the coal industry, working for Mingo Logan Coal and at Ragland as a coal house operator and sample technician. He enjoyed racing, was a lifelong Dale Earnhardt fan, loved spending time with his family, and was happiest just being at home. He didn't need much to be happy as long as he was surrounded by the people he loved.
More than anything, John loved his wife, Connie. She was the center of his world, and anyone who knew them knew how much he loved her. After 43 years of marriage, the love they shared was a huge part of who he was. He was proud of his sons and loved watching his family grow. Being Paw Paw to Logan, Blake, Beckett, and Wynnie meant so much to him. He loved his family and treasured the time he got to spend with them.
John was a member of Horsepen Baptist Church.
He was preceded in death by his mother, Melanie Lee Chapman (Hess); his stepfather, Ron Hess; his brother, Michael May; his grandparents, Marie Chapman and Racy Chapman; his aunt, Racina Chapman; and his uncle, Nicky Ray Chapman.
In keeping with John's wishes, he did not want a traditional visitation or funeral service and chose cremation. His family will honor those wishes. A celebration of life may be held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, the family appreciates any contributions toward the expenses associated with John's passing. Your kindness, prayers, and support during this difficult time mean more than words can express.
After a year-long battle with cancer, John is finally at peace and no longer suffering. While his family will miss him more than words can say, they find comfort in knowing that he is no longer in pain. He will always be loved, missed, and remembered by the family he loved so much.
*Forever loved. Forever missed.*
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