
Mary Wilkinson Jividen, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and sister, passed away peacefully in her sleep on November 7, 2026, at the age of 80. Born on September 23, 1946, in Plymouth, West Virginia, Mary was the cherished daughter of Wilford and Amy Deal Wilkinson. Throughout her life, she exemplified love, kindness, and an unwavering dedication to her family and community. Mary grew up in a lively household as one of the youngest of ten siblings. She was predeceased by her parents, Wilford David Wilkinson and Amy Virginia Deal Wilkinson, as well as her sisters Avanel Wolf, Ruth King, and Joan Dixon, and brothers Tom, Gerald, John, Frank, and David Wilkinson. She is survived by her dear brother, Larry (Ethel) Wilkinson, who, like Mary, carries forward the cherished memories of their shared childhood. In March of 1964, Mary married the love of her life, Darrell Ray Jividen. Together, they built a beautiful life and shared 42 years of marriage, filled with love and laughter, until Darrell's passing. Their union was blessed with a daughter, Teresa, who, along with her husband Nick Carney, brought immense joy to Mary's life. Her pride and joy extended to her cherished grandson, Luke Carney, who was often the recipient of her generous spirit and endless affection. Mary attended Poca High School, where she was a talented clarinet player in the school's marching band. Her love for music and creativity continued throughout her life, manifesting in her love for cooking and decorating, especially during the holidays. As a homemaker, Mary created a warm and welcoming home, filled with delicious aromas and festive decorations that reflected her joyful spirit. A devoted member of her community, Mary and Darrell were active participants in the Nitro Moose, where they formed lasting friendships and contributed to the social fabric of their community. Mary also had a profound love for cats and spent many evenings tending to them, a testament to her compassionate nature. Mary's life was one of simple pleasures and profound love. Her shopping trips often resulted in delightful surprises for her grandson, Luke, reflecting her generous heart and desire to bring happiness to those she loved. Friends and family are invited to honor Mary's life at a service on November 14, 2026, at 1:00 PM at Tyler Mountain Funeral Home, located at 5233 Rocky Fork Rd, Cross Lanes, WV 25313. Gathering of family and friends will be from noon until time of service at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Mary's memory to a charity of your choice, reflecting her spirit of giving and care for others. Mary will be deeply missed by all who knew her, but her legacy of love and kindness will forever remain in the hearts of those she touched.
Online condolences can be sent to the family at www.tylermountainfuneralhome.com
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