I am so very sorry for the worlds loss of Pat. I knew her from grade school when she lived on Gordon street. We would walk to school together & always had fun at her house. I didn't get to speak with her in later years but, she was a beautiful special person that will never be forgotten. Rest in peace and love my friend.

Friend,s Forever 43 Year,s.     Pat You Were Allway,s An Awesome Mom Wife Friend   You Allway,s Took Care of Every One Before Your Self you are one of Gods Liveing Angles And Know  you are one Of His Heavenly  Angles  love You My Friend  Forever. Patty.  And Ray 

You have always been such a special person to so many people. You are loved and will be greatly missed by us all. 
 
Love you Aunt Pat. 


My fondest memories of Patty were my sleepovers, when she lived on Gordon st in Philly, and the "beatings" we got because instead of sleeping we were goofing off.  Her mom would come up with switch in hand (or whatever the hell that thing was) and swing it just as gently as she could at anything that 
moved under those tattered old blankets.  Patty and I would laugh til we cried as mom yelled as she was leaving, "you girls better not make me come back up here!"  I'm pretty sure we did.
Who knew that a "beating" could make an outsider feel so welcomed.
I met Patty in the first grade where most of our classmates refered to me as Bucky beaver, she just called me friend and she made sure they all knew it.
Patty and I didn't see one another alot in our later years, but I would try to stop by Kmart to see her occasionally.  She would take a smoke break and we 
would talk for a few minutes to catch-up.  She always talked lovingly about her her family.
Although I didn't see her often, I loved her and I will miss her.

I love you so much Aunt pat, and I am still in shock and at a loss for words. I hope you know how much it meant to me for you to be there for my mom when she needed you most. To be there when she took her last breathe and to make sure that her kids knew how much she loved them. For being there for us kids when she could not.  I will never forget the day that you showed up at my door when we lost our son.  You have always answered, never judged, given love and advice, your words soothed, your hugs were full of love, and I will miss you everyday. Please give my mom and baby boy a hug for me and tell them how much I ache and love them everyday.  I love you Aunt Pat!

How do I put into words how much I'm gonna miss my mom with only 6weeks to mourn my father it seems impossible as I sit alone in an empty house memories flood my mind some good some bad but the one thing I remember most is all the laughs we had all the times we sat and talked about different things a boy needs his dad but most of all he needs his mom I'm glad I was  here when my parents needed me the most but to not have them here to not hear thier voice's or hear them walk around messing with the dogs or seeing them sitting at the kitchen table smoking a cigarette I'd come out of my room and joke on my days off about not wanting to go back to work and they'd always say call out mom I'm sorry for fighting and sorry for yelling I love you always have and I'll never forget you and the things you've done for me I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for you I'll be the man you always wanted me to be I'm just sad your not around to see it love always your honeybun Danny your baby boy 

I honestly don’t know what to say Mommom. I just can’t believe it. I refuse to believe it I think it.  Like I know your not here and I understand that but at the same time I don’t. I absolutely loved being around you growing up and having you visit when we moved away from everyone. You were there for every important event in my life no matter how far you had to travel. From my baptism to my wedding day and from the death of my first baby to practically every appt. with my 2nd baby because you knew how scared I was of losing another baby. You were always there. You told me on thanksgiving after we had just lost Poppop how you love all your grandchildren but there is something  special about your first, but you are the one who was always special to me. I know it was really hard for you after losing Poppop and I know you wanted to have your space, I completely relate to that, I just wish I had come around anyway since you left so soon. I know your happy being reunited with Poppop, those 6 weeks probably felt like a lifetime to you, I just know so many are broken without you here and need you to look down on us all and send signs of guidance especially for mom and her siblings. For my siblings and I, you were our last grandparent, you were so amazing to us and we are so thankful for everything you have done for us. You have showered us with so much love our whole lives and that won’t ever be forgotten. We love and miss you so much! Give Poppop a hug from me and hold Emberly tight and give her a kiss from me because I know you were ready to finally meet her ♥️♥️♥️♥️

I love you Pat and will miss you so much.

Mom, 
How do I write to you knowing your not going to read it. How do I heal knowing I’m not going to see you anymore. I’m left with a whole bunch of why’s, and how’s.  Why didn’t we get more time? So many unanswered questions and no more hugs. Who is going to help plan parties, and do the crafts. I hope you can see how strong I’m trying to be. I hope you know how sorry I am for not calling you back, so sorry for not making the time for you. Sorry I didn’t say I love you as much as I should have. Sorry I didn’t open up if I was having a problem even though I should have. You always said I was a little harsh when ever us siblings fought, but knew it was because I cared so much, you taught me to care that hard. You taught me to love unconditionally and I’ll forever be grateful for that. Thank you for everything and always forgiving and understanding. I love and miss you so much. Look over us always and help guide me through this life without you because I don’t think I have the strength to do it alone.  Love always Your Joy. 

Pat was a kind and loving person and always saw the good in people.  I will always cherish our times that we spent together as a child and was truly happy when we reconnected as adults.  She was one of my favorite cousins (I have a few) and we talked on the phone at least once a month about our families and anything else we wanted to share with each other.  I was so happy to finally move to TN so we could start having bbq's with the family that could meet in AL that Patty and I had just recently talked about putting together (I uploaded one from my home in NJ of Patty, Dan, Ashley and Patrick without doing this part, sorry about that).   This pic is at Ashley's wedding.  I am truly going to miss her. R.I.P. Pat

Mom,
I’m not one to publicly say anything. I’m usually the one behind the scenes like you. Just doing what needs to be done. I’m not one who feels that the world needs to know my feelings about you. As I sit here and try to even put it down. There are no words, the lost feeling I have I can’t describe. To say how thankful I am to have you and daddy down here with us finally after many years of pestering you 2 stubborn people I can’t even put into words. The  plans we made, I will still do them for you. The lunches and breakfasts, the shopping trips we’ve been on. I do hope you always knew how much we  appreciated everything and how much you meant to us.   I love you! 

Pat, I don't have enough words that can express how much i love you and i am going to miss your hugs and your voice. We have been the sisters who did everything together. My heart is broken once again of losing another sister. My best friend i wish we would have had more time since you moved here . The time we did have was wonderful and i will never forget out trips together.  Our thoughts and prayers are for your children and grandchildren  and greats.  My sister  you were a beautiful soul always giving and doing for other people. We all will miss you so much. Thank you for being there for my children and grandchildren as well.  I love  you Sis and i always will. Until we all  are together again i will miss you every second of the day. Give everyone hugs and kisses for us. I love you

Fun ,loving ,hard worker great friend ,a wonderful mother and grandmother for 20 years I was blessed to have her as a friend and was more like a sister ,I will always be grateful for her ,

Words cannot express what I am feeling with this shocking news.
I am soooooooo sorry for your loss.  Pat was not only my 
sister-in-law she was my friend. We are all still hurting from the 
loss of our brother Dan and now we lose someone else so dear 
to our hearts. Rest in peace gone to soon I will miss you dearly.
Love Your sister-in-law
Cyndi

I've been waiting to write a memory because there are so many but the one that sticks out most is the day before I found out I was pregnant with melody you kept on saying your pregnant Ashley and I said no mom I'm not you went and got a pregnancy  test and told me to take it and I said ok I'll prove to you I'm not and then the pink lines showed up and you gave me your I told you so look and you always knew when I was upset either by looking at me or over the phone or even when I was trying to tell you something  you just seemed to know and told me to just tell you I never will know how you did it but will always remember  that you loved us like there was no tomorrow you would do anything that you could do for us I love you so much mommy and  always will and I will always miss you keep an eye on me and the kids we love you

Oh there's so many running through my head her being in the room when I had two of my girls her and my dad yelling at me for bringing a 2 day old infant to see them my mom crying when we went dress shopping to her always being there for anyone who needed her to her being a Gypsy and predicting everything I love you Mom more than anything in the world thank you for being my best friend and mother hopefully I'm a great mom grandmother and GiGi like you were if that's even possible 


I cant believe this is happening again. Girls and Danny your mom was a wonderful addition to our family.  We had great times when we all were young and had you little kiddos around. I will never forget all the parties your mom took care of. I'm sure she spent hours upon hours getting all her decorations together. That
was what she truly loved doing of course besides raising her children and loving over her grandchildren.  You will have many happy memories of your mom and dad that will bring smiles to your heart and face.  


To pat I am so glad to be your brother and you were my sister we had a lot of good times together we never fought or fussed we all got along together and you always asked me if everything is ok or do you need anything and if we need anything you would see if you had it but you always said let me talk to Dan first and you was good to me and my wife your sister in law Janice and she loved you to and is glad she got to know you we love you and gonna miss you and Danny love you sis until we meet again

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Patricia Ann Thomas

June 8, 1956 – January 5, 2021

Moss Service Funeral Home

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