Dee and Zoe - thinking of you both at this time - stay strong with each other and keep making your Mom proud Zoe - she’s watching and smiling.

Denise. I just can't believe you are gone. My goodness.  This photo was taken at one of our favorite places AL Biernats just a few months before you passing. Jesus. Help your Baby and Sister to manage the pain.

Though we never met in person, we spoke weekly, about many things...not just work. I grew very fond of Denise, in the brief two years of working together.

Zoe, I feel I know you, through your Mom. 

Stay true to yourself and to Mom's wishes for you and your success.

My heart and sincerest condolences go to the family - Son, Daughter-in-law, Grand-daughter and extended family.

In God's Love

Warren

Prayers for her daughter,  sister Dorothy and family members.  Beautiful person who shared her beautiful vacations with us on facebook.  I know she lived her life to the fullest.  I met her in High School and 45  years later she was still that same beautiful soul who treated me with so much kindness.

Edwina Grant

I worked with Denise all too briefly and will miss her. She was a great person and was willing to help you with anything that work could send your way.

We will miss you, Denise!  No doubt you're organizing the angels in heaven to go out and make the world a better place.  Your loving and caring heart will not be forgotten.  With love, the Silver Star chapter of the National Charity League

My deepest sincere condolences to my Kirkman family for the loss of my Cousin Denise. I remember the first time I met her at a family reunion here in NC. I had not been long had Zoe and I had a baby after her. She shared with me the joys of her being a mother to Zoe. We both shared how grateful we were for God entrusting us with our bundles of joy. She was one of the sweetest people ever. Always know Zoe, cuz loved being your mom. She would say you were the best thing that ever happened to her and I'm sure she showed you everyday. May God give you a comfort that surpasses all understanding. Love you all my Kirkman family .

To Zoe and Dorothy

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Our hearts are broken with yours.  God will see us through!

Much love,

Aunt Denise, Taylor and Chase

Dear Dorothy, Zoe and family,
My deepest condolences go out to you in the profound loss of Denise.  She was always so sweet and cheerful and we will all miss her.

Remember:
You’re never, ever alone (Joshua 1:9)
When you’re weak, He’s strong (Jeremiah 29:11)
His love never gives up on us (Romans 5:5)
He will strengthen you. (Isaiah 40:31)
He will comfort you (Matthew 5:4)

Love you,
Donna

BBS you will always be with me.
LBS Keli Drew

Dorothy and Zoe - sending you love and prayers of comfort. Niecy was one of the sweetest women I've had the pleasure of calling friend. Brilliant, caring, and understanding a true earth angel. I pray you fond memories to hold in your hearts and carry you pass the sadness. I love you guys! Renata

Denise I met while we were both pregnant. She was my patient, I was her nurse and we formed an instant connection and became friends. We had our babies and experienced play dates  and birthday parties together, we made plans for Zoe and Kaden to one day marry one another. We enjoyed Bible studies and nice dinners together over the years. We supported each through many life experiences, we both had our babies in March 2008, we both lost our moms in March 2020, and now I've lost Denise is March 2024. March will never be the same but I find comfort in knowing that we studied God's word together and knew Him to be our Lord and Savior. Well done, Denise.

Denise, Niecy known to her family and friends with that endless smile and a heart of gold. Denise and Dorothy came into my life as little kids. I became their uncle when I married their aunt. Niecy would always meet me with that smile and a "hi Uncle Fran". When was a little girl she was the oldest sister and mother to all her younger cousins always keeping them under her wings and safe, this continued her whole life. 
There's too many fond memories I have Niecy, all of them putting a smile on my face, Dorothy do you remember the water (out the window)incident.  I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes writing this, but I know this kind heart is in heaven with the people she truly loved and missed, leaving some comfort to her unexpected passing.
Niecy you will forever stay on my mind and in heart. Love you always Uncle Fran

My deepest condolences for Zoe, Dorothy and the rest of the family. It’s taken over a week to process this and yet, I’m still at a loss for words. I keep replaying our last conversation in my head and repeatedly reading our last text messages wondering if it’s real.  Your infectious smile and your sweet laughter will forever play in my head. You are smart, you are beautiful and you will forever live in my heart. I love and miss you dear sweet friend!

My deepest sympathies on losing this amazing sweet soul.  Denise was an inspiring woman who was so very dedicated to Zoe, the light of her life.  Denise  had so many great qualities.  I will miss her amazing spirit, sweet smile and twinkle in her eyes.  I feel blessed our paths crossed.

I was blessed to know Denise through my dear friend Dorothy, and so I know she was truly loved. 

As someone else said earlier -  Rest in peace Denise. Heaven has gained an angel. 🙏🏾

I'm blessed with wonderful childhood memories of growing up together in Plainfield, NJ attending the same schools and church.  Thankful for those memories.  My family is saddened to hear the news of your passing.  Because of our faith we take comfort in believing you are with family and friends who have gone on before.  Praying for Zoe, Dorothy, and all those who knew and loved you.  Your impact on others was great. I pray you knew that while you were here.  Until we meet again...I hope you and Tim aren't cutting up too much.

We hung out in December and I was looking forward to us seeing your new place. I miss my friend and praying 🙏 for Zoey to have the strength needed as you are celebrated for being an amazing mom, sister and friend.  It was truly an honor knowing such a loving person.

My deepest sympathy, Dorothy, on the loss of your sister and partner-in-crime. I know you shared many an adventure with her, and I am so sorry to hear of her passing. Please extend my heartfelt condolences to your niece and to the rest of the family.  You're all in my prayers and my heart.

I've known Denise since we were freshmen as undergraduates at the University of Detroit. Yes, that was a good while ago. 

Denise was one of my besties. We had so much crazy fun back in the 'D'. She was one of the sharpest, wittiest, most fun and special people to be around. We had a small, but loyal group of friends..a real mix of midwesterners, like myself from Michigan and a very New York/New Jersey contingent who brought a very strong east coast flavour. 

Over the years of getting to know her it was her big heart and solid nature that stood out most.  I always knew I could confide in her when things got tough with classes, friendships and life. 

Man, I have so many fond and funny memories...like when she introduced me to 'brass monkey' as we were hanging out with some friends in one of our dorm rooms (in the 'Quad') ..I think I'm still hungover from that evening :)

I only just got this news this morning via a mutual friend, Moira, who lives in South Africa. 

Moi got to know Denise when Denise had a short consulting stint in San Francisco. I just spoke with her and she reminded me that the 3 of our birthdays were within a week of each other. And, she went on to remind me of the time we celebrated our birthdays together at a belly dancing restaurant in San Francisco..and somehow they convinced the 3 of us to go up front and join the belly dancers for a bit of improptu belly dancing. What a riot that was...

So many great experiences, laughs and tears. I wish I'd kept in touch, this is such sad news. I really miss her. 

Love, love, loved Denise..

Sending my love from 'across the pond' (London) to Zoe and her family and friends. 

Anthony 'Tony' Ferguson

I am sending my thoughts and prayers to the family. May God guide you and provide the family strength during this time and continue to provide his blessings and strength.

I was heart broken.  She was wonderful to work with and work for!

Al Small

To Debra and family;
 We're deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your niece.  Please know that we offer our deepest sympathy and prayers of peace and comfort.  May the dear and precious  memories of Denise offer a measure of joy to help brighten the days ahead.  
Yours in Christ,
 Mississippi Blvd Christian Church, Memphis, TN 
Usher Ministry

I met Denise in Graduate school. 
Soft spoken and wicked smart, she caught my attention as someone I could learn from.
And oh what a beautiful smile.

One fun fact - she introduced me to first class travel on Amtrak! Train travel for me has never been quite the same since.

I loved how she shared her stories and pix of Zoe with us over all these years. Best mum ever I reckon.

Rest in peace Denise.  Heaven has gained an angel.

Denise was a wonderful woman on so many levels - a devoted mother to Zoe, a loving daughter to her mother, a supportive sister, and a cherished friend. My heart and my prayers are with Zoe and the whole family!!

With love, respect and admiration,
Marsha Clark

I met Denise in grad school and am so glad I did. We became informal confidantes and supported each other in small ways over the course of that program, which led to our friendship. She was so loved and a deeply caring person.  My heart to her daughter, Zoe, whom she beamed over in every shared detail, and her family. 

I will carry her memory in my heart. Condolences to all.

Our sincere condolences to Zoe and the rest of the family.  In the days ahead we pray you find comfort in the many beautiful memories you made with Denise when she was here on earth with us.
Sincerely,
Roosevelt &Erschelle Newsome

OBITUARY

Ms. Denise Adrienne Kirkman

February 18, 1966 – March 10, 2024

Laurel Land Funeral Home & Laurel Land Memorial Park

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