From his earliest days, Refugio carried a spirited streak—mischievous as a child, yet anchored by the steady discipline that would come to define his life. Over time, that energy matured into a work ethic that never sought attention, only results; a patience that made room for others; and a generosity expressed not in grand speeches, but in consistent, tangible care. In his community and among those who knew him, he also carried the unmistakable presence of a “big-shot”—not as a boast, but as a reflection of the respect he earned through years of effort and quiet leadership.
Refugio married Concepcion Villarreal in 1973. Together they raised five children: Veronica, Maritza, Marcos, Rocio, and Virginia. He was also the proud grandfather of seven grandchildren: Maritza Jr., Noel, Yulika, Diego, Valentina, Victoria, and Mikayla. After the passing of his wife Concha, he remarried in 1995 to Marina Soliz.
A recognized baseball player in his hometown, Refugio was widely known for his love of the sport and the honors he received. Baseball was not simply a pastime to him—it was a lifelong passion, shared and passed forward. Year after year, he donated baseball gloves, baseballs, and hats to local baseball players, giving others the simple tools that can spark confidence, belonging, and joy. He also found deep satisfaction in gardening, tending to plants and flowers with the same steady attention he gave to the people he loved.
His faith was a central part of his life. In the Catholic Church, Refugio’s devotion took lasting form when he founded the Chapel of San Geronimo in the community of Los Zapotes, Jalpa, Zacatecas—an enduring place of prayer and gathering that reflects the strength of his belief and the sincerity of his service.
In retirement, Refugio traveled with his wife, Marina, and devoted himself to visiting his children and grandchildren across the world. Those miles were not merely distance covered, but love put into motion—time given, presence offered, and family held close.
Refugio lived a life of quiet strength and profound purpose. As an immigrant, he crossed borders not just to find a new home, but to build a foundation where his children could soar. His legacy is written in the degrees on our walls, the prayers said in our church, and the cheers echoed across the baseball fields he loved. He showed us that love isn’t just felt—it is built through sacrifice, faith, and presence.
“Cuelga el teléfono, apaga la luz, ya es hora de dormir!”
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made directly to Iglesia San Geronimo de Los Zapotes, which he proudly helped establish in 1996 . Donations can be sent via Venmo to @sangeronimo or Zelle using 214-226-4446 (Memo: Memorial Fund). All funds will be collected by Veronica (his daughter) and delivered to the church.
