Norbert James "Jim" Jutton

Norbert James “Jim” Jutton, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away peacefully at his home in Bethel on Tuesday, October 13, 2026, surrounded by the love of the family he cherished above all else.

Jim was born in Syracuse, New York, on February 18, 1953, to Dorothy “Dot” McCarthy (Adams) and Norbert J. Jutton. He was also lovingly raised by his stepfather, Bill McCarthy, who was a father to him and held a special place in his heart. Jim lived his life in Danbury, Connecticut, where he graduated from Danbury High School and later met and married Joyce Jutton (Pancotti), the love of his life. Jim and Joyce shared 50 years of marriage, building a life in Bethel filled with love, laughter, friendship, and family.

Jim spent most of his career as a machinist at Amphenol, where his co-workers became lifelong friends. He played softball for the company team, combining his love of the game with the camaraderie he valued so deeply. Jim later worked at Putnam Precision, where he ended his career and continued to form lasting friendships as a dear co-worker and respected manager.

A lifelong sports enthusiast and talented athlete, Jim was an avid bowler who proudly achieved a perfect 300 game. He also spent many years playing in a men’s football league, earning numerous awards as his team’s quarterback. He enjoyed golfing with friends and family, especially his sons-in-law. Nothing brought Jim greater happiness than being able to coach and later play softball alongside his two daughters, Erin and Kristi. Whether on the softball field, football field, at the bowling alley, on the golf course, or simply gathered with those he loved, Jim brought warmth, humor, an unmistakable love of life and a little friendly competition.

Jim also had a talent for bringing people together through food. For many years, he put his BBQ skills to work cooking for thousands of people at the Danbury Fair. He later brought those talents to countless family picnics and gatherings, proudly taking on the role of head chef behind the grill, when he wasn’t busy playing cornhole with his favorite partner, Joyce. For Jim, cooking was about more than good food — it was another way to bring family and friends together to make lasting memories.

Jim had a smile that seemed to never leave his face. He loved to laugh, share stories, and enjoy the company of others. It often seemed that no matter where Jim went, he knew someone — and if he didn’t, he would by the time he left. He had a special way of making people feel welcome, turning strangers into friends and friends into family. His warmth, humor, and genuine love of people left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him.

As the years went on, Jim found a new kind of joy in being called Poppy. He could often be found on the sidelines or in the audience, proudly watching and cheering on his five grandchildren in their many activities. He loved nothing more than spending time with them, whether it was attending their games and performances, teaching them something new, or sharing his love of chess, card games, and sweets (especially chocolate). For Jim, it was never about what they were doing, but simply being together and creating long lasting memories.

Jim is survived by his beloved wife, Joyce; his daughters, Erin (Rick) Capozza and Kristi (Tim) Frawley; and his adored grandchildren, Avery, Michael, Camryn, Luke, and Owen. He is also survived by his loving siblings, Sharon Gyllensten, Doug Jutton (Rebecca), Karen Cantatore (Ray predeceased), Mary Jimenez (Nick), Allison Shetz (Mike predeceased), and Pam Baker (Matt); and in-laws Bob & Debbie Henry and Gina Pancotti. Jim was also a cherished and special uncle to many nieces and nephews, whom he loved beyond words.

He was predeceased by his brother, Billy McCarthy (Kathi), brother-in-laws: Nils Gyllensten, Larry Pancotti; and two nephews: Erik Gyllensten and Matthew Isabelle.

Jim will be remembered as the best father, Poppy, and husband — a man who embraced life with a smile, found joy in the simplest moments, and made the world a little brighter for everyone around him.

Private services will be held at a future time.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s memory would be greatly appreciated to: RVNA Health, Attn: Development Office, 27 Governor Street Ridgefield, CT 06877.