

On July 6, Lucas was crushed by a car over the head and passed away.
Throughout his brief life, he was surrounded by love and joy, except for the tragic events of July 6. Lucas was constantly filled with happiness and was always immersed in the love of Mom and Dad. His laughter and smile had the power to dispel any troubles. He loved to talk and ask questions. He made it a habit to kiss Mom and Dad and his unborn sibling every day. Whenever he saw pictures of himself, he would smile and recognize his mom and dad.
Lucas was known for his favorite words: "What's this?", "Hello", "Thank you", "Goodbye", and "I love you". Whether at the mall or out on the street, he loved to greet people, often giving high fives to strangers, who couldn't help but laugh at his adorable nature.
He was very loving and enjoyed being around small animals. His favorite animal was a small cat, and he tried to meow like them. He couldn't resist the urge to touch and kiss the stray cats he encountered on the road. He also liked to chase squirrels, birds, and small flying insects. He was curious about everything in the world, and every day he pointed to many things and asked, "What is this?"
He enjoyed imitating his parents, learning how to cook from Mom, and how to clean from Dad. Instead of toys, he preferred real objects such as the spoon used for cooking, the broom used for sweeping the floor, the vacuum cleaner, the tools for installing furniture, and even the computer mouse on Dad's desk – everything in the house became his toy.
Every day, he would point to the birthday decorations on the wall and ask us to sing "Happy Birthday" to him. If he saw a little star, he would ask us to sing "Twinkle Twinkle" and then join in by dancing along to the song.
He was very sensitive and perceptive, always quick to pick up on the emotional changes of Mom and Dad. He would then come to hug and kiss us. Even when he was wronged, he readily forgave us, often just needing a hug or a kiss to make things right. Sometimes, even when feeling sad, he would try to hold back his tears and force a smile to cheer up us. His sensitivity led us to wonder if he could sense the challenges we faced in caring for his little brother and decided to be more independent. When the accident occurred, Mom prayed for his survival and was willing to do anything to keep him alive. We believed that his departure may have been a selfless act to spare us a life of caring for a possibly paralyzed or disabled child.
He disliked going to sleep because it meant being separated from Mom and Dad. Now, he sleeps eternally, with the pain of injury.
He left us without meaning and without the courage to live, but we knew we had to face it bravely because we had an unborn little brother to take care of.
He's our Superman. We wished that on the day of the accident, he had Superman's armor and cape so that he wouldn't get hurt and leave us.
He's so young. There's so much he hasn't done yet. He hasn't had the chance to attend our wedding, meet his grandparents abroad, or even see his soon-to-be-born brother, whom he kisses every day. He also hasn't had the time to say goodbye to his small friends.
We are grateful for the care and help we have received from so many people during this difficult time. Thanks to them, we have the courage and confidence to move forward from grief. We are especially grateful to Olivia Bauer for taking good care of Lucas at Tobias Funeral Home and for allowing us to visit him often.
Our son, Lucas, spent his life loving others and being loved, and he was the greatest gift of our lives. We will continue to live well for him, explore the world, and love life until we see him again.
We miss him ------- Mom & Dad
The family requests the donations to be sent at GoFundMe https://gofund.me/789a8bb4
7月6号,李诗远的头被车轮压过去,永远离开了我们。
他短暂的一生都在爱中度过,除了7月6号的痛苦。 他的生命里充满了欢乐和幸福,每天都被爸爸妈妈的爱所包围。他特别爱笑,他的笑容可以治愈一切的烦恼。他非常喜欢说话和问问题。他会每天亲亲妈妈和爸爸,亲亲妈妈肚子里还未出生的弟弟。他看到自己的照片会笑,还会认出照片里的爸爸,妈妈。
他最喜欢说的话是: 这啥?你好,谢谢,再见,爱你。不论是在商场里还是大马路上,他总喜欢跟别人打招呼和High Five, 陌生人经常被他的可爱逗的哈哈大笑。
他很有爱心,喜欢小动物。 他最喜欢的小动物是小猫咪,还会学猫咪喵喵叫,路上看到流浪猫总是忍不住想摸一摸,亲一亲。他还喜欢追松鼠,小鸟和小飞虫。他对世界上所有的一切都感到好奇,每天都会指着无数个东西问:这是什么。
他喜欢模仿爸爸妈妈,喜欢学妈妈炒菜,喜欢学爸爸打扫卫生。所以,比起玩具,他更喜欢真实的物品:妈妈做菜的勺子,爸爸扫地的扫帚,吸地的吸尘器,安装家具的工具箱,办公桌上的鼠标,家里所有的一切都是他的玩具。
他每天都会指着墙上的生日装饰让我们给他唱生日歌。看到小星星也会给我们指出来,让我们给他唱Twinkle Twinkle, 然后随着歌声扭动身体。
他非常喜欢爸爸的汽车,也喜欢听救护车和火警的声音。他会去模仿汽笛的声音。在他的生命结束前,他也坐上了最喜欢的车。
他很敏感,细腻,总是能第一时间观察到爸爸妈妈的情绪变化,然后过来抱抱,亲亲。每一次我们对他发脾气,他也总能很快原谅我们,只需要一个拥抱,一个亲吻就好了。 他有时候难过的时候,会努力忍住自己的眼泪,然后挤出一个假笑让我们开心。他是那么懂事,以至于我们在想,是不是他能感觉到爸爸妈妈为了迎接弟弟那么辛苦,所以他主动选择离开,让我们专心照顾弟弟。出车祸的时候妈妈向上帝祷告,只求他能活着,我们愿意用所有的一切来换他活着。他是不是不愿意让妈妈失去所有,所以自己走了;是不是也不愿意让我们用一辈子去照顾可能瘫痪或残疾的他,所以他走了。
他每天最不喜欢睡觉。因为和爸爸妈妈在一起玩总是玩不够,睡觉也意味着看不到爸爸妈妈了。可是现在,他永远的睡着了,带着全身的伤痛。
他的离去让我们失去了活下去的意义和勇气,但我们知道,我们必须勇敢面对,因为我们还要照顾即将出生的弟弟。
他是我们的superman。我们多么希望发生事故的那一天,他真的有superman的铠甲和披风,这样他就不会受伤,不会离开我们了。
他还那么小,他还有好多事情没来得及做。 他还没来得及参加爸爸妈妈的婚礼,还没有见过远在国外的爷爷奶奶,姥爷姥姥等, 也没有机会再看到即将出生的弟弟,没来得及和他的小伙伴说再见。。。。
我们非常感谢这段时间以来有那么多认识,不认识的人给我们的关心和帮助,因为有他们,我们才有勇气和信心从悲伤中前进。我们也特别感谢Oliva Bauer一直在Tobias Funeral Home 细心的照顾李诗远,让我们经常去看望他。
李诗远,他的一生都在爱着别人,也在被爱,他是我们生命中最好的礼物。我们会替他继续好好活着,去探索世界,去热爱生活,直到我们再次见到他。
我们真的很想他。
--------爸爸,妈妈
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