Beloved husband of the late Mary. Loving father of Joseph (Debra), Robert (Virginia), Jean (Ronald), James (Lori) and Chris (Debra). Cherished grandfather of 11. Perhaps you sent a lovely card, or sat quietly in a chair. Perhaps you sent a funeral spray, if so we saw it there. Perhaps you spoke the kindest words, as any friend could say; perhaps you were not there at all, just thought of us that day, whatever you did to console our hearts, we thank you so much whatever the part.