Ferne was one of the first people to welcome us to the neighborhood when we moved to Solon. I can still hear her laugh. My family was devastated to hear of her illness and death. 

Ferne was one of the first people who called and welcomed our family to Temple Emanuel El when we moved to Solon in 1990. She was so outgoing and fun to be with. She will be missed.

Dearest Norm and Family,
     It was a great day when we met you and your lovely wife, Ferne through
Your sister, Roz. Our trips to Solon  and your visits to Chicago were always
A party event.When Ferne would pinch Dave 's cheeks, he loved it and they will
Never be the same.  Ferne is in heaven, but she will never be forgotten.
Ferne is very special to us.

Love,

Dave and Rosemary Carlson and Family

Dear Family,

We will remember the times together at holiday meals and New Year’s Eves. Ferne always kept us laughing. We always talked during the movies. Find comfort with family and friends.
Love,
Shelli and Larry ❤️

To Norman and Family,  
Jules and I were saddened to hear of Ferne's passing.  We wish you and your beloved family the strength and comfort of  knowing how loved you and Ferne were by  the HP community.  May the love of those around you help you through the difficult times ahead.        Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Wendy & Jules Garron

Dear Norm and Family, 

We are saddened to hear about your loss of your beloved Fern.
Although we only recently met Fern we could tell she was quite an inspiration to you and your family.  Reading through the numerous beautiful heartfelt notes and memories your friends and family posted you could see that she was truly adored and will be missed.

We are truly sorry for your loss.

Rick and Renee



Dear Norm, 
      I have no words to express my sadness at hearing the news about Ferne. I know how much you adored and loved her and what an incredible marriage you had. Out hearts truly go out to you and your family . I watched the entire funeral virtually and loved hearing the eulogies and getting to “ be there with you and your family”. Please know how much we are thinking of you and know how much everyone who knows you LOVES you! Love, Rhea and Mike 

Dear Norm and family,
We are so saddened with Ferne's passing and offer our sincere condolences.  You both introduced us to HP and welcomed us by introducing us to your friends and including us in activities.  I enjoyed our weekly canasta games because she always had a smile and she was so much fun.  We admired Ferne's honesty and sense of humor.   She will be missed by so many.  May her memory bring comfort to you.

Sending  love, thoughts and prayers to you and your family during this difficult time. Wishing you loving memories to forever hold in your heart. We shall always cherish the many fun times together. Ferne was an amazing inspiration to all of us. She never beat around the bush and was straight up. It's what we loved about her. Being in her company was always an emotional experience. 

Dear Norman,
Chanan and I are so sad to learn of your sweet Ferne's passing.  She was certainly a bright star, endearing to all and someone who enjoyed life to its fullest.  She was the ever smiling and joyful partner of the Barr team, calling out, "say goodbye, Norman" when it was time to leave.  She will be so missed by all who were lucky to know her and be part of your life.  Sending our condolences to you, Ross, Jodi, the grandkids and entire family.  Love, 
Laurel and Chanan 

Dear Norm,

It's hard to believe Ferne is gone; she was such a life force, and the life of the party. Howard and I enjoyed the fun times we shared -good food, great conversations and lots of laughs.
Ferne will be sorely missed. May she rest in peace.

Love, Hillary & Howard Yagerman



Paula and I share your sadness for a person who was life herself. Our times together were precious and her humor made us smile wide. May Fern rest in peace and to Norman and your family we weep with you and may your strength  through this sadness endure 

Dear Norm and Family
I have so many fond memories of our times together, the simchas, the struggles.  May Ferne's memory be a blessing that will sustain you through this time.  Norm, how blessed you were to have had each other
Carol Kushkin



Dear Norm & Family,
We want to extend our Deepest condolences to you & your Dear Family 
We have  Wonderful memories of our time together, as neighbors, on Lansdowne in Solon 
Hold on to  the Special moments of your
Beautiful life together with FERNE
May her Memory be a Forever Blessing 
Love, Susan & Jeffrey Peiper 

Dear Norman,

We are deeply sorry about Ferne’s passing.  Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, Ross and his family, the Mishkind family, Joni, Bill, Lyndsay, and our daughter-in-law Allison.

Love,
Bob & Andrea

Dear Norman and Family,
Our hearts go out to you on the loss of your beloved Ferne. She was a lovely person who always had a smile on her face and a gleam in her eyes.
May she rest in peace and may you all be comforted with the memories you hold in your hearts.
Love
Arlene and Howie Isserles

As we listened to the family speak of their own memories of Ferne, we both reflected on our own memories and stories of Ferne. As Ross noted, some of our enduring stories involve funny circumstances and inappropriate behavior.
God bless you, darling Ferne. The symbol of the butterfly that you so loved will flutter above you for eternity.

Much love,
Pam and Lee

We are so saddened by the loss of Ferne.  We always had so much fun with our Scout Dinner group.  We will miss her forever.  She was one of a kind with so many stories and laughter.  💔💗

Dearest Norman and families,

We are truly saddened that our friend is gone. 
We will miss her stories , laughter, friendship and positive attitude. 
Our deepest condolences and prayers are with you all at this sad time. 

Lynne & Ron Marshek

Norm:

Linda and I want to express our condolences to you on the passing of Ferne. She will be missed by all lives she has touched. May she Rest In Peace.

Linda and Len Gold

Dear Norm and Ross, 

Growing up, my family would drive ten hours to visit our relatives in Cleveland for every major holiday, and the best part would be visiting the Barrs! I'm so saddened by your loss, as Ferne made everyone feel like family. My deepest condolences to you both and to your entire family; may you be comforted by your memories. Ferne will certainly be missed.

In sympathy,
Stephen

Dear Norm and Family,
We share your grief at the passing of your dear Ferne. She will always be remembered as a fun loving caring person.
Hugs,
Lillian and Roy

Dear Norm and family,
Jeff and I are so heartbroken with the passing of Ferne
We will always remember and cherish all the memories from the past 45 years including the several cruises we had taken together.
We will miss Ferne and she will be in our hearts forever.
                                                         Love,
                                                  Lori and Jeff






Dear Norm and family, 
Roger and I wish to offer our deepest condolences on the loss of Ferne.  We considered her a close friend.  Words cannot describe our sorrow.  May her memory be a blessing.  Natalie & Roger Zetter

Ferne and Norm made us feel so welcome when we moved to the Cleveland area. We shared many good times at the JCC and elsewhere. Ferne’s sense of humor was like no other‼️💕We shared many many laughs🙏Will miss you

Dear Norm and family,

Please accept our condolences on Ferne's passing.  She was a wonderful person and a great friend. We'll miss her fun and caring nature.  We hope you find some comfort in her memory.

Best wishes,

Sue and Howard Maier

It seems impossible that is was 40 years ago when we became neighbors on Lansdowne, partied together, raised our children together and even drove Sunday school carpool together. Our hearts go out to you as you say goodbye to your beloved Ferne.

Ruth and Mark Elliott

Norm, Joni, Howard & Family,

Ferne was a wonderful person and a joy to know!  Her smile and zest for life instantly made us smile at the mention of her name.  Being with her was always fun!

Our hearts are broken and we are crying with you. 

Love and deepest sympathies,
Karen & Denny Linden

Ferne,

I'll miss hearing from you and being regaled by your latest adventure, be it a cruise or some other anecdote, you always made me feel like we just spoke the other day.  May you rest peacefully and know that Norm and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers. 

Rosemary Elmond

Dear Norman. I was so shocked and sadden to hear of Ferne’s passing. Ferne and I knew each other since we were 17 years old. Over the years we lost touch but saw each other in Cleveland before your final move to Florida. Remember Norman you loved my parents Adele and Irv Gold and we went to Flour for brunch with my Mom 
You liked my sweet dear husband Alvin who passed away January 29th from Covid and pneumonia after a 7 week fight. I know what you are feeling as I am devastated losing Alvin my love of my life. Ferne was always fun to be with and Alvin and I always had a good time with you both. 
Take care Norman. You have wonderful family support and like me take one day at a time. 
With love Shelley Gilmore

Norm and family,
My heart breaks for all of you. May her memory always be close in your heart. I remember all our good times, our laughs and our hugs.
With love, Mindy 

My deepest condolences to Norm, Ross, Jodi, and the entire Barr family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Ferne was a wonderful friend &  I was lucky to have her touch my life. My love to the Barr family. My dear friend Ferne, Rest In Peace.

Norm,  Ross, Jodi and Family:

We are so saddened by the loss of Ferne.  We have always felt a part of the Barr/Stern extended family and know that Ferne and Anita are looking down together at the family that you have created. 

Scott, Sarah, Toby and Gabe

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Ferne and I were friends starting in the summer of 6th grade.  We both thought our Jewish education was important.  How special that upon her passing, the donation can be made to her son's fund that her family set up. May her life be for a blessing. 

Joy (Burnley) Pocasangre

Our condolence on your loss.  May Ferne rest in peace and knowing her will always be with us.
Paul & Susan

Dear Norm and family,

We are so saddened to learn of Ferne's passing.

You two were the first people to welcome us to Huntington Pointe at our first visit to the cafe.

We hope that you find strength from your memories of all of the good times that you and Ferne shared.

We look forward to seeing you when you return to Delray Beach.

Love from Bob and Florie Marvy

Dear Norman and Family,

So sorry to learn of Fern’s passing.  When I think of her, she is either always smiling or laughing.
May your memories bring comfort ,
Phyllis Sandler

Dear Norm, 
There are no words that express my thoughts during this time; however, please know how much Ferne will be missed. Her joie de vie and her contagious smile lit up the room. May her memories remain in your hearts forever. 
Norm, we have shared special moments over the years; know that I am thinking about you and sending  strength. 
With heartfelt sympathies, 
Michele Kay 💜

Dearest Barr family,
We will miss Ferne so deeply. She was so much fun to be with. We loved our visits with her and Norm and will always remember our special visit with them in Cleveland, vacations, family get togethers. This is a tremendous loss and our hearts go out to you. May her memory be for a blessing. 
Love,
Karyn, Adam, Judah and Maxwell 

We send our sincere condolences to Norm, Joni, and the entire family. Ferne will always be remembered by her warm smile and friendliness. 
Carol and Stewart 

My deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your beloved Ferne.  Ferne had a beautiful smile, was friendly and welcoming.  May all of your memories together bring you comfort and may her memory be a blessing.

Dear Norm and Family,
Our heartfelt sympathies go out to all of you during this difficult time. We hope that the wonderful memories of Ferne will be with you always. Norman, we were so grateful to you and Ferne for welcoming us so warmly into the Huntington Pointe community when we first moved in. We will forever treasure the memories of all of the wonderful times we shared, whether going out to eat, attending shows, HP events or simply getting together and sharing  laughs and great conversations. Ferne was always fun to be with and we will certainly miss her. 
Love,
Arlene and Hal

Dear Norm and family,
So sorry for your loss. 
Bill and I send our deepest condolences 
We will cherish our memories
Love, Linda and Bill

Norman, I felt so sad for you and your family when I heard. I will miss y’all sitting across from me at the performances at Huntington Pointe. I’m happy you have wonderful memories.  Fern will be missed. 

Norm, I was so sorry to hear of Fern's passing. She was one SPECIAL lady. For me, you two were one of the best parts of Temple Emanu El. I knew I would get a warm hello and hug anytime I saw you at Temple. Please know how much Fern meant to me and so many people.  She will be greatly missed.

Beth and Howard send our condolences to the Barr family. We recall with fondness the many happy moments we shared with Fern and her warm and friendly smile.

Dear Norm and Family,
My heart is broken for all of you. Ferne was a wonderful person and a wonderful friend. My sincere condolences, thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love,
Shirley 

Dear Norm and Family,
There is so little we can say at a time like this but know
that our heart goes out to you and your family.
Our deepest sympathy,  Anne and Howard Adelman

Dear Norman, Ross, Jodi and the entire Barr and Mishkind Family:

It is so very difficult to say the correct thing at this time.   No one can soothe the grief you are feeling.   We will cherish our memories forever.  We hold you close in our thoughts and know we are here for you.

No more sorrows.

Shirley and Ira Kafka

To Norm and the Barr family,

So sorry to hear of your loss. Ferne was a beautiful person inside and out. Always fun to be with.  So enjoyed Wednesday Mahjong (pre COVID) and seeing both of you at HP shows.  She will be greatly missed.  You are in our hearts and prayers.

Eileen and Barry 

Norman, Ross, Jodi, and the entire family.  Norm and I send our deepest condolences on the passing of Ferne.  I met Ferne through Norman, who became a very close friend after many years of working out together. After twenty years of friendship, Norm and I do cherish our memories of all the fun things we did together with Ferne and Norman. Every time we were in Florida, Ferne would take me to the discount shoe store( where all the shoes were $7-10. My Norm and Norman would eat donuts and drink coffee at "the dunk" in the shopping center, while Ferne and I tried on cheap shoes and laughed!  Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time!

To Norm and family, my sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Ferne.  She was a joy with her infectious humor and sincere interest in everyone she met. I pray that your love and memories bring you comfort. 


Dearest Norm:
We share your loss. Ferne always was a sparkle in the crowd. Ferne always enjoyed the moment when she shared your company.
 Norm, we pray that all the many y ears you and Ferne enjoyed together will bring you comfort.
Much Love,
Ruth and Tony

Ferne was one of the first people I met at HP.  She was very warm and friendly.  She invited me to sub in her Maj Jongg  game when I first came to HP.  She will be greatly missed.

Dear Norm,

We are so sorry to hear of Ferne’s passing. 
We hope your memories of her will bring 
comfort to you.  

With Love and Sympathy,
Susan Levine & Richard Kreitzman

Dear Norman, Ross, Jodi and Family,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your Beloved Ferne and I send my heartfelt condolences to all of you. Ferne was an amazing person with love, laughter and personality to share with everyone.
Her love for Norman and her family was profound and her circle of friends was truly endless. Throughout our almost fifty years of friendship, the momentous occasions as well as our conversations were always more than special. We laughed, we cried and we always had compassion for one another when needed. Ferne was truly a bright light in our lives, as Norm and family, you were in hers and that will never change. She will be missed by so many.
With love,
Suzy

I am so very sorry to hear about Ferne. My heart goes out to Norm and Ross and the family. Ferne was such a beautiful woman and I loved her spirit. I met her more than 20 years ago and enjoyed every single encounter with her.  She was so genuine, kind and absolutely  hilarious. May she Rest In Peace always. ❤️

To Norm and Family,
We send our heartfelt condolences on the loss of your beloved Ferne.  She was a caring friend to us who will be greatly missed.
I will always remember our fun lunches and canasta games and 
all the Florida activities we shared.
May your wonderful memories ease the pain you are feeling
at this time and always.
Adell and Michael Rosenthal


Dear Norm, Ross and Family...
Jeff and I send our sincere condolences to all of you on the loss of Ferne.  I have many fond memories, of Ferne, that will be with me always.  Temple EmanuEl, bowling together, our kids being friends, etc. She always had a smile on her face and was so friendly everytime I saw her.  May the wonderful memories you have get you through this difficult time.  Our thoughts are with you!
Sheryl Greenberg

Dear Norm, Ross, Jodi and family, 
Please know that you are in our hearts and thoughts.  We feel so fortunate to have shared good times together with Ferne  as neighbors and friends.  May her memory be for a blessing.
Sending love,
Claire & Marvin

Dear norm and family. Harvey and I want to extend our sincere condolences on the loss of ferne. May your wonderful memories sustain you through these difficult times and keep you close to the love of your life. Hugs Marlene 

Dear Norm and Family,
Our very deepest condolences to you on the loss of your dear beloved Ferne.
Ferne was such a lovely lady with a beautiful smile.  She was so friendly and kind.
Dear Ferne will be so greatly missed.
You are in our prayers.
Shalom,
Linda and Mel Solomon

Norm, Ross, Jodi and family

We have such wonderful memories of Ferne.   She was one of the first people we met when we moved onto Lansdowne.  And was the master carpool organizer!         Sunday school, Hebrew school,Cub scouts, and Bar and Bat Mitzva parties... we schlepped the kids all over!   Ferne  never failed to make us all smile.   
She will be missed,  and we were lucky to have her in our lives. 

Sending love, Gail, Bobby, Marti, Adam, and Melanie 

Dear Norm 
Our sincere condolences to you and your family.  May Fern's memory be a source of comfort and a blessing for all of you.
With heartfelt prayers
Edie & Cal

Norman, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family

Dear Norm,
So sorry to hear of Ferne's passing. I send you my deepest condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you. 
Cookie Morris 

Dear Norman and family.  
Mel and I are so sorry for your tremendous loss.     We will cherish our memories of our fun times we shared together such as our cruises and  our art auction trip.  If there is anything we can do for you norm please do not hesitate to call.  Love you 
      Mel and fern deutsch.   

Dear Norm and Family
We are so sorry to hear of Ferne’s passing. She was a wonderful person. May her memory be a blessing to yo. Sending love.
Audrey and Linda

I will miss your morning wake up calls.
I began each day with a smile.
We were fortunate to live in the same community in Delray.
You were great neighbors and great friends.
We will miss you with all our heart.
Rest In Peace.
Harriet and Jeff Herbst 

My condolences to norm,ross ,jodie,the grandchildren and all of fernes family.I will miss my dear friend  but will always remember  the many good times we shared.Remember norman I'm here for you always. Mary

Dear Norm and family,
My sincerest condolences to all of you.  My heart is aching for you.
Fern was such a wonderful lady.  May your memories be a blessing.
Rochelle Gottlieb

I was so sorry to hear of Ferne’s passing.  Please accept my condolences and may the wonderful memories you have bring  you some comfort.  
Nancy Gage 

Dearest Norman and family,

We were so sorry to hear about the death of Fern. She was a wonderful lady and will be very missed. Please accept our deepest condolences, we are thinking of you and, you are in our prayers.
Fondly, Barbara and Moe Blatt

Norm, I am so sad to hear of Ferne's passing. The two of you were such a joy to work for and I have thought of you so often since your move to Florida. She will never be forgotten.

Thinking of my dear friend, Ferne,  for over 60 years.  We always stayed in contact,  even when we did not live in the same cities. Ferne loved her grandchildren and  would share many stories as they have gotten older.  Barry and I are  so sad to learn of Ferne's passing.  She was always upbeat, fun to be with, and had a strong sense of  the importance of family.  Our hearts go out to Norman, Ross, Jody and Ferne's grandchildren.  Thinking also of Joanie, Howard and their families  during  this difficult time.  She will be missed by many.  May she rest in peace.  

My dear Norm and Family
We go  back a very long way. We were so sorry to hear about Ferns passing. She was always so warm and sweet  always a smile and a hug whenever we saw both of you. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Love
Gail and Joel

Dear Norman and Family,  Neal and I send you are deepest condolences.  We are so sorry for your loss and are thinking of you. Norman , we had a great time with you and Fern the last time we were in Fla. You took us to a cute place for dinner called Ellie’s Diner. We had great laughs with you and Fern. She will be missed. May She Rest In Peace.

Norm and family,
Our sympathies to you. Great memories of our spiritual and social lives at Temple EmanuEl. 
Ruth and David Hurwitz

Dear Norm, and family,
We are so very sorry about Ferne. Our deepest sympathy, and you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. She will be missed by so many.

Our hearts go out to Norm, Ross, Jodi and Family.  Ferne was loved by so many people.  I have wonderful memories of sharing our families’ milestones with each other, as well as laughing over lunch together.  Always funny, always generous, always ready to listen, she was a really good friend.  She is already missed.
Our deepest love and condolences to this great family.

To the Barr family.  I am so sorry for your loss.  She was such a vibrant person and contributed so much to your lives.  May you keep the fond memories in your heart and bring them out and smile.  Toby Macknin

It is with great sadness hearing the passing of Ferne.
Fond memories of working the candy counter at the old Detroit Theater during busy film showings with her and her family make sixty years of knowing her seem like yesterday.
Sympathy to Norman and her family.

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Ferne G Barr

August 18, 1945 – February 14, 2021

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