

Brian's life ended suddenly on April 17, 2023. His family and friends are heart broken, but the countless memories and recent words from friends and family, encapsulating the remarkable man Brian was, have given us strength. Born on May 4, 1991, he was a bundle of joy. He was notably intelligent and creative at an early age. He learned to walk at nine months and was riding a bicycle at three. With his creative knack, Brian was designing and constructing since he was a toddler. His most notorious inventions included a burglar trap built at age six and a potato launcher that sent a potato clear across the Butler Reservoir. He built awe inspiring balsa wood airplanes and belonged to several local clubs. Although most individuals were retired and much older, Brian’s planes would capture the eye of everyone. He could spark a conversation and get along with everyone, no matter where he was.
On the forefront Brian was a sincere, caring, and kind soul. He showed strong understanding for others, regardless of any differences. He displayed compassionate feelings from a very early age. His expression of loss at his Pop-Pop's funeral when he was nine still reverberates in our minds. He told the family that he felt “hollow” inside. A lifelong friend of Brian’s told us that he would “call his friends out” if they were not being the utmost, compassionate human that he was. Brian would constantly be regarded as genuine and would be a warm, happy presence to all who were fortunate enough to meet him. His love of family, friends, and animals (especially his dogs) is everlasting.
Brian loved the great outdoors. While growing up in Butler, NJ, bicycle rides with his mom and brother, Matt, started at an early age. The bike rack was hoisted, and the adventure would begin. Hours of sleigh riding on the backyard hill with mom's hot chocolate for the neighborhood (and a day off from school) was cherished. Family hikes, fishing trips, camping, and scuba diving were always favorites. His love for the outdoors and nature continued in Colorado. A day off from work would always result in something fun. He would hop onto his motorcycle and head up to the Rocky Mountains.
Brian's intelligence never took anyone by surprise. He was an avid reader and thinker. He was a self-taught musician, and could play any instrument he picked up. However, Brian really excelled on the guitar. His ability to problem solve mechanically was admirable. He recently diagnosed an electrical issue on his mom's vintage 1978 VW Beetle that no one else could figure out. He loved to read about history and places in the world. He could have cleared the geography category on Jeopardy. Brian was able to travel to England, on his own, to visit his relatives as an eighth-grade graduation gift. This trip was another amazing adventure that only heightened his desire to explore. After college, he was able to travel cross country with a group of friends and explore the United States.
Food was another important part of Brian's life. Choosing a favorite for his birthday dinner was a family tradition. His usual choices were either mom's chili or spaghetti and meatballs. Dessert always included a themed, special birthday cake and chocolate chip cookies. As an adult, he loved to cook and learned to prepare Armenian stuffed grape leaves that rivaled Aunt Alice Melkonian's.
Most notable about this great soul was his generosity and ability to express his love. He never hesitated to share with anyone in need even if it meant he had none. He always told his family, “I love you”. His brother, Matt, was his best friend. The brotherly love that was shared their entire lives was evident. His impact on friends and families' lives will remain in our hearts forever. May you never run out of Peanut M&Ms in heaven, Brian. We LOVE YOU!
Services are private under the direction of Doane, Beal & Ames in Hyannis, MA. For online condolences or to share a memory of Brian, visit www.doanebealames.hyannis.com/.
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