It's unbelievable, that it has been a year since your beloved sister has passed.  I remember her giving heart in caring for others, especially, her assistance for my grandson Justin and the family.   And, the thoughtfulness of mass intentions and support towards my mom.  Cousin, Judy

To the Family of Mary Hartwick'
I am David Goldberg Mary's CPA for 25 Years.  I just called her phone number and found disconnected so it hit me she passed away after her long fight against her illness.  I looked up obit and it told me what I suspected.  She was not only my client but I considered her a friend that I met through my long time friend Albertina Busa who lived in Mary's building and passed many years ago.

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Condolences to Mary's extended family. I will always remember how kind and thoughtful she was to me and the rest of the Bielfeldt family, especially my sister Debbie . Love Mark 



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Celia, Donna A., Donna H., Camille, Mary, Ella, Rita

Mary, Dorothy, and Ella in Las Vegas (1962).

Aunt Mary would give my Mom a break and go to be with Paulie, he was the first nephew.  She now can re-unite with him. 

Aunt Mary was so thoughtful. She sent cards and called us for every Holiday! One of my fondest memories is when Aunt Mary would take us out to dinner for our Birthdays, and Aunt Dorothy joined us too. 

I remember she had so many boxes of shoes, I know this because I dusted the boxes! She loved to SHOP, her favorites were candied sweet potatoes and CHERRIES!  She painted Christmas ornaments, brought us gifts back from her trips and was special to all of us.  

Aunt Mary and Grandma came to Minnesota almost every year to visit for a couple of weeks and some times twice a year. My Mom would make her spaghetti sauce, pork roast and chop suey. My parents would play Pinnacle every night. Aunt Mary LOVED to shop, go to plays and the opera. 

Whenever someone passes away, I ask my parents to welcome that person to Heaven.
I will miss not getting another card in the mail or phone call. Life will never be the same. I am grateful that God brought her home and she can re-unite with all her cherished family and friends. Thank you Aunt Mary for all you have done for us, we all appreciate it. Everyone should have an Aunt Mary in their life, I am so grateful she was in mine. God Bless you Aunt Mary, you will remain in my heart for the rest of my life. May you have eternal peace. Love Always Julie 💚

Barbara, I just heard of Mary’s passing thru Chris Fash. I am so so sorry. Mary was a terrific person, kind and generous. Every holiday she would send me a card. Every single holiday. It was a privilege to know her 
I will miss her
Geri Becker
Retired from Fash Wealth Advisors 

Dear Auntie Mary,

I have been calling your friends  this week to let them know of your passing.  I have spoken to many and they have shared their memories of you (all wonderful and loving) and I shared my many memories of you with them.  It was wonderful to hear their stories and the deep love they have for you and their sorrow of you leaving to a better place.

One special memory was when you would babysit us on New Year’s Eve.  We would have shrimp cocktail, and pigs in a blanket and other snacks while watching old black and white movies like “Top Hat”.  And you would give us a little Champaign at midnight.  It was a night I looked forward to every year.  There were so many special moments and times you were there for all of us that it would be impossible to add them here … a book possibly.  

Every Angel near and far knows just how Beautiful you really are and heaven can go right to sleep it’s work complete.  Your lovely voice sang all the time and now you are singing with the angels.

My heart and soul has been with you always and will be with you forever.  Love you with all my heart.  I know you will be looking down and watching everyone who’s heart you touched.

I don’t want to sign off so I’ll say I so look forward to seeing you again.

Beth

Oh Mary, so sad to see you go. 
You were a friend of the Conley family and probably Veronica Conley's best friend. But most importantly (to me), you were my godmother.
I was a bit miffed during our recent conversation to find out that you were the godmother to many. I had thought I was special and the only one, but then I realized that you were the special one and I was one of the lucky few.
After my mother Veronica passed away, you asked me why I sent you flowers on Mother's Day.  I said I have to send you flowers because you are the only mother I've got.
Thanks Mary for being such a great friend to the family and thanks for being my other Mom.
We are all gonna miss you....
Love,
Barry

We are so sorry for your loss.  We enjoyed meeting Aunt Mary when she came to Minnesota to visit Julie, Jim and Leslie Kurtz.  We shared several meals with her. She was a spunky and classy lady. She was an inspiration on how to grow old gracefully.  I know she will be missed by  her Minnesota family. Even though she was not related to us, we called her Aunt Mary too!  Rest In Peace. Love, Mary and Rudy Vernaglia 

I remember my cousin Mary when we were growing up and lived in a two family housing building and would hear her singing come down through the hallways while doing the dinner dishes.

Our deepest condolences to you and yours.
Love, Jerry & Judy Bielfeldt

OBITUARY

Mary C. Hartwick

August 20, 1931 – November 6, 2022

Oehler Funeral Home

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