Ben was born in Sonoma County to Benjamin (USMC) and Lucille Fleming. The family relocated to Santa Cruz, California, during World War II and then to Coalinga, where he attended high school and junior college. He was president of his high school class, and married his high school sweetheart, Marilyn Sue Fair. Together they built their life, raising 5 sons in the communities of Coalinga and Dinuba. Ben made Dinuba his home from 1965 until his passing.
A devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend, Ben lived a life rooted in purpose. He was deeply involved in his community, serving for many years as a local leader with Boy Scouts, and could often be seen at Raisin Day festivals in a Smokey Bear costume. Alongside Marilyn, he led Christian Marriage Communication retreats, pouring into the lives of countless couples with wisdom and grace. He lost Marilyn to cancer in 1997, after 42 years of marriage. Ben was subsequently blessed with a second marriage to Karen May, with whom he shared 27 years of companionship, laughter, and faith. Their combined families brought great joy to Ben’s heart. Ben was a member of First Baptist Church of Dinuba, where he served faithfully as a deacon for many years.
Ben is survived by his wife Karen; her sons Brian May [USN Retired] (Barbara), and David May (Amy), as well as his sons Steve (Elana), David (Debbie), Don (Debra), and Bill (Nova), 19 grandchildren, and 16 great grandchildren.
Ben was preceded in death by his beloved wife Marilyn, his son James Anthony Fleming, and his sister, June.
A service celebrating Ben’s life and legacy will be held on Saturday, June 28, at 11:15 a.m. at First Baptist Church of Dinuba followed by a luncheon reception. Ben will be laid to rest at Smith Mountain Cemetery in Dinuba.
Flowers and Condolences:
May be sent to:
The Fleming Family
c/o First Baptist Church
600 E. Nebraska Ave
Dinuba, CA 93618
Memorial Donations:
In memory of Ben Fleming, donations may be made to:
Good News Global (Prison Ministry)
P.O. Box 6098
Albert Lea, MN 56007
Please reference J57.01 and note "In memory of Ben Fleming."
Or donate online at: https://tinyurl.com/benjfleming
