Patricia Louise Deason

Patricia (Pat) Louise (Bales) Deason passed away at home in Edmond, Oklahoma, on January 1, 2024, surrounded by the love of her family. Pat was born on February 1, 1930, in Dewey, Oklahoma. Left behind to cherish her memory are her beloved husband of 74 years, Milton Deason; her children, Mark Deason & wife Niki; & Sharyl (Deason) Nelson; her grandchildren, Kristin & husband, JR Hildebrand; Matthew Deason & wife, Leanne; Jared Deason & wife, Caitlyn; & Dalton DeGiacomo; six great grandchildren, Rylan, Michael “Whit”, Bryce, Graham, Adam, & Julietta; & many cherished extended family & countless forever friends. Pat was preceded in death by her father, Racine Bales; mother & stepfather, Ruby (Haymes-Bales) & Bill Bublitz; brother, James “Jim” Bales; son, Michael (Mike) Deason; and grandson, Jacob Paine.

Pat married the most important man in her life, Milton Deason, on January 28th, 1950, in Borger, TX. They shared a full and wonderful life together. Together, they set an extraordinary example for their family. Pat has resided and loved raising her family in Edmond, OK for the past 57 years. Family was always her first priority and she enjoyed taking a very active role in all of her children’s, grandchildren’s, and great grandchildren’s various activities. Pat and husband, Milton, took several of their grandchildren every year to Pagosa Springs, CO, to spend time together fishing, hiking, enjoying the snow, and making lifelong memories. There are no words that can express the tremendous love, gratitude, and admiration her family feels for her.

Those who were blessed to know Pat, remember her as a vibrant, active, giving, and generous woman. She spent her entire life being concerned about the well-being of others, always putting their needs first; including her family, friends, community members, and even strangers. Pat built relationships with the employees at the grocery store, post office, Walgreens, hardware store, restaurants, and anywhere she frequented. She was always compassionate, caring, and gracious to everyone, and believed all deserved respect and kindness. She always considered how her actions affected others, and strived to bring joy and comfort. Pat gave freely of her time volunteering and supporting various organizations and events, including her church and choir, Edmond YMCA, Pink Lady at Edmond Hospital, FFA, Oklahoma Cancer Hotline, Salvation Army, Hope Center, and many other community associations. Pat leaves a remarkable legacy behind in the positive difference she made in the lives of so many.

Pat was an active member of the Edmond First United Methodist Church and choir since 1966. She was known for her beautiful voice and her passion for music. She was also a member of the Pagosa Springs Methodist Church and spent the summers singing in their choir since 1980. Her love of music was passed on to her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, of which several are extremely gifted like Pat. She was a member of the Edmond YMCA board for many years and effectively led their fundraising drive for each year. Pat founded the Kickingbird Women’s Golf Association and was on the board of the Pagosa Springs Women’s Golf Association for many years. She was also an active member of the Landwives Association.

Pat had a great love for nature, beautiful scenery, and her home-away-from-home for 43 years, Pagosa Springs, CO. She was an exceptional photographer, loved antiquing with her lifelong friends, facilitating estate sales, organizing parties, and enjoyed golf, bowling, and interior decorating. Pat bowled often with her daughter, and had a score of 205 at 87yrs old. She loved participating in various activities with her family and friends.

Memorial donations may be considered in Pat’s name to First United Methodist Church Music Fund in Edmond, OK, and Edmond YMCA Scholarship Fund.

Memorial services will be held at 2:00 PM Monday, January 15, 2024 at Edmond First United Methodist Church, 305 E. Hurd Street Edmond, OK.

Visitation will be Sunday, January 14, 2024 from 4:00 - 8:00 PM at Baggerley Funeral Home.