Terry Flaugher

William Terry Flaugher, lovingly known as Terry, was born on February 1, 1943, in Breckenridge, Texas. He later made his home in Edmond, Oklahoma, with his beloved wife, Farah Kordian Flaugher, whom he married on January 21, 1989.

Terry lived a remarkable life defined by kindness, service, integrity, generosity, and devotion to family and community. His life included distinguished military service, a long career in law and public service, charitable involvement, and many personal accomplishments. Yet those who knew Terry best will remember him most for his caring heart and the profound difference he made in the lives of others.

Terry proudly served his country in the United States Army, first as an enlisted soldier and later as a commissioned officer. He attained the rank of Specialist Five before being honorably discharged in January 1968 and subsequently continued his military career as an officer in the United States Army Special Forces.

His military record reflects extensive specialized preparation, including the Special Forces Officers Course, Military Intelligence Orientation Course, and Jungle Operations Course. He served in Vietnam from April 5, 1969, through July 5, 1969, and completed his active-duty commitment with an Honorable characterization of service in July 1970 while serving as a Second Lieutenant. His military record also reflects airborne training and recognition, including the Parachutist Badge and Vietnam Service Medal.

Terry remained proud of his military service throughout his life. He carefully preserved his Green Beret, military helmet, photographs, newspaper articles, and other memorabilia, tangible reminders of an important chapter in his life and his service to his country.

Following his military service, Terry pursued a career in law. He was initiated into the Phi Alpha Delta Law Fraternity in 1972 and earned his Juris Doctor degree from Oklahoma City University in 1973. He was admitted to practice law in the State of Oklahoma in 1974.

Terry went on to serve as an Assistant District Attorney for Oklahoma County, receiving appointments in 1974 and again in 1976. He later continued his career as a trial attorney and was involved in significant cases throughout his years of practice.

Among the professional memorabilia he preserved was a 1979 Daily Oklahoman article documenting his work as a defense attorney in a criminal trial that resulted in an acquittal.

Throughout his career, Terry remained committed to the legal profession and the administration of justice. He was a member of the Oklahoma County Bar Association and the Metro Trial Lawyers Association. His commitment to public service extended beyond the courtroom. In 1985, the Oklahoma City Police Training Academy, in conjunction with the Oklahoma State University Technical Institute, recognized Terry for exceptional service to law-enforcement training and named him a Staff Instructor for the Central U.S. Police Institute.

Terry also believed strongly in giving back to his community. He was involved with charitable organizations, including Big Brothers Big Sisters, reflecting his genuine desire to encourage, support, and help others.

Outside of his professional and community service, Terry enjoyed life fully. He loved being on the water and was part of the Oklahoma City sailing community. Sailing and boating brought him great joy, particularly aboard his beloved boat, fittingly named Audacity. Many happy memories were created on the water with family and friends.

Terry was also a devoted University of Oklahoma football fan. OU football was one of his great passions, and he rarely, if ever, missed a Sooners game. His enthusiasm for OU football was one of those familiar and cherished parts of Terry that his family and friends will always remember.

Yet Terry’s military service, legal career, professional accomplishments, and community involvement tell only part of his story. His greatest legacy was the way he cared for people.

That kindness was especially evident in the love he showed Farah’s family. When Farah’s nephews Shaya, Shamim, and Kamran escaped the persecution of Bahá’ís in Iran and came to the United States to pursue their education and build new lives, Terry opened both his home and his heart to them.

He did far more than simply provide them with a place to stay. Terry supported them, encouraged them, and cared for them as a father would his own children. He patiently helped them understand American culture and customs, reviewed and corrected their English papers, supported their education, and helped them adjust to life in a new country.

For three young men beginning their lives far from the country they had known, Terry provided something that could never be measured by professional awards or certificates: a home, guidance, security, encouragement, and the love of family.

To them, he was much more than Uncle Terry. He was like a father.

Terry was preceded in death by his sister, Susie Ward, and her husband, Richard Ward. He leaves behind his beloved wife, Farah Kordian Flaugher; his nephews, Richard Ward and Scott Ward; and many extended family members and friends whose lives were touched by his kindness, generosity, friendship, and love.

Terry’s military service tells the story of a man who answered the call to serve his country. His legal career reflects his commitment to justice. His charitable and community involvement demonstrates his desire to help others. But those fortunate enough to know Terry personally will remember something even greater: the extraordinary kindness with which he lived his life.

He welcomed people without hesitation. He gave his time, knowledge, encouragement, and love freely and expected nothing in return. He was a kind and gentle man who made people feel welcomed, supported, and cared for.

His greatest legacy lives in the people whose lives were made better because he was part of them.

Terry was truly one of a kind. His memory will remain in our hearts, and his love will be remembered forever.

Terry will be honored at a Celebration of Life at Baggerley Funeral Home, 930 South Broadway, Edmond, OK 73034, on September 26, 2026, at 3:00 pm.