Raymond Terry Pafford, 73, passed away on Monday, April 4, 2026, in O’Fallon, Illinois. Born July 22, 1952, in East St. Louis, Illinois, Raymond was a beloved presence to those who knew him, and his life was marked by steady devotion to family, service, and community. Raymond resided in Collinsville, Illinois.
Raymond was born to Terry and Mary Frances Pafford. He held a deep sense of pride in his personal accomplishments, most especially mastering his GED at the age of 49—an achievement made all the more remarkable by how well he did, not having to take the test.
A veteran, Raymond served in the United States Army. He also built a long and dependable working life, including 29 years at Pfizer and 20 years with the State of Illinois in the field of Highway Maintenance.
On November 6, 1987, Raymond married Barbara, the love of his life. In the years that followed, he remained a steadfast and beloved husband, father, and grandfather, giving his time and care to those closest to him and to the communities he served.
Raymond was active in Ainad Shriners, the Masons, Fairview Heights Elks (as a volunteer for over 20 years), the Drum and Bugle Corp, the Caseyville Moose Lodge 4, and the Shiloh Eagles Aerie 545 (Belleville, Illinois). His commitment to these organizations reflected a life lived with quiet dedication and respect for fellowship and service.
Raymond is preceded in death by his parents, Terry and Mary Frances Pafford; brother, Gary Pafford; grandson, Nick Grab; and granddaughter, Nora Grab.
Raymond is survived by his loving wife of 38 years, Barbara Pafford; daughters, Terri Pafford, Michelle (Andy) Grab, Rae Jean Pafford-Vance, Jennifer (Nic) Hart, and Katie Glass; (12) grandchildren; and (2) great-grandchildren.
Memorial contributions may be made in Raymond’s honor to the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation or the Madison County Humane Society.
A visitation for Raymond will be held on Friday, May 15, 2026, from 4:00pm to 8:00pm at Lake View Funeral Home, 5000 N Illinois Street, Fairview Heights, Illinois 62208.
