

Robert was a man who carried his roots with quiet pride—Scott-Irish and Italian, with special affection for his mother’s heritage, as she was 100% Italian. He spoke often of growing up and of Sundays made memorable by the comfort of spaghetti and meatballs, a simple tradition that reflected the warmth he valued, and the heritage he was so proud of.
He served proudly in the Vietnam War, a chapter of his life that spoke to his courage and resolve. In the years that followed, Robert was known for the kind of strength that endures—hard-working, honest, and resilient, with a thoughtful wisdom that could be felt in both his words and his presence.
Robert adored his wife, Debby, and missed her dearly. He also missed his dog, Minnie, and held that companionship close in his heart. To those he loved, he could offer devotion that was faithful and generous, and a kindness that did not seek attention but was always felt.
He found joy in the everyday and in the things that made him unmistakably himself: he was a huge Cardinals fan, with a large collection of Cardinal memorabilia. He collected coins and enjoyed making model cars, pursuits that suited his patient hands and careful eye. And if there was one simple pleasure he never hid, it was breakfast—his favorite meal of the day—especially biscuits and gravy from Hardee's.
Robert’s sense of humor could brighten a room, and his love could be summed up in words that will remain with those who heard them: “You’re my best friend.”
He will be remembered as beloved—brave, compassionate, and kind-hearted—steady in faith, generous in spirit, and wise in the ways that matter most.
The family extends heartfelt gratitude to BJC hospice for their care and support.
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