Arthur "Brent" Brent Lilly

Born in New York City on January 22, 1947, Brent later made his way to Virginia, where he graduated from Mt. Vernon High School. His artistic interests led him to study art at Montgomery College before serving in the United States Army. What began as an early interest in art would become a lifelong passion and an important part of who he was.

Brent was a remarkably talented artist with a gift for seeing what others might overlook. He found inspiration in nature, people, places, and cultures, and translated what he saw into his work. His appreciation for art extended into his professional life as a master gilder and frame maker, where artistry, craftsmanship, and an eye for detail came together beautifully.

Music was another important part of Brent’s life. A talented musician, he played several instruments, including the guitar and ukulele. Whether creating with his hands or making music, Brent had a natural ability to bring a little more color, character, and joy into the lives of those around him.

Brent also had a lifelong love of cars, with a special appreciation for Porsches. Like so many of the things that captured his interest, he appreciated them for their beauty, craftsmanship, and character.

He cared deeply about the earth and believed in respecting and protecting the environment. Animals held an especially tender place in his heart. Throughout his life, Brent shared his home with many beloved cats and dogs, each of whom became part of his family. He was a passionate advocate for animals and their well-being, a reflection of his kindness and respect for all living things.

Brent was also curious about the larger world and had a particular appreciation for Japan and Asian culture. His time spent in Japan and his interest in its art, traditions, and culture were meaningful to him and became another influence on the way he viewed life and his work.

Above all, Brent loved deeply and was deeply loved. He was a devoted son, husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, great-uncle, and friend. Those fortunate enough to know him will remember his gentle nature, his individuality, his generous heart, and the warmth he brought into their lives.

Brent was preceded in death by his beloved family members, Caroline Robbins and Charles H. Robbins. He is survived by his loving wife, Nancy; his mother, Ellen Robbins; his brother, Charles B. Robbins Sr. (Rose); his sister, Leigh Robbins (Ken); his daughter, Carina Marsala (Joseph); his grandson, John Lepore, III; his nephew, Charles B. Robbins Jr. (Manuela); his niece, Jessica Powell (Frederick); and his cherished great-nieces and great-nephews. He also leaves behind dear friends who held a special place in his life.

Brent leaves behind more than the art he created and the music he played. He leaves behind the memory of a man who cared deeply, created freely, loved the natural world, and found meaning in the things that made life interesting and beautiful.

The world is a little quieter without his music and a little less colorful without him in it. But because Brent was here, those who knew him may forever see its beauty a little differently.

The family wishes to extend its sincere gratitude to the caring staff of Inova Fairfax Hospital, Dr. Scott Whittaker, and NP Chandler for the care and compassion shown to Brent.

A Celebration of Life for Arthur Brent Lilly will be held on Sunday, September 20, 2026, from 1:00 to 4:00 p.m. at National Funeral Home in Falls Church, Virginia. Family and friends are invited to gather, share memories, and celebrate a life that meant so much to so many.

The family requests that memoriams be made in Brent's honor to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

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