OBITUARY
Virginia Felicio
August 28, 1962 – April 2, 2021
Virginia “Bo” Felicio (née Hernandez), age 58, passed peacefully from this world on April 2, 2021 in Washington, DC. Bo was born on August 28th, 1962 in San Antonio, Texas.
She attended Saint Thomas More Catholic School and Theodore Roosevelt High School, graduating in 1980. While she was accepted to the Air Force Academy, she was unable to attend. She often said this was her one regret in life.
Her professional career began at the age of 17, as a Communication and Computers CO-OP at Kelly Air Force Base in 1981. Her success in this program set the stage to her rapid promotions through-out her civil service career. First, to a federal position as a Computer Specialist, where she successfully implemented cutting edge information technologies. Bo feared no task and embraced every challenge. She could break open a box of new IT equipment quickly and figure it out like a master technician. She then worked in Communication and Computer Requirements providing new technologies and budgeting to customers. She was also involved in the Air Force’s quality training efforts where she discovered a new set of natural skills.
Bo was quickly recognized and promoted: first supporting beneficiary education and Communications in the U.S. Army Medical Command, Fort Sam Houston, TX; then to the TRICARE Marketing and Communication office in the Department of Defense TRICARE Management team, Falls Church, VA; and then to Director of Marketing at the Veterans Administration Medical Center, Washington, DC.
Her final promotion was with the Defense Logistics Command (DLA), Department of Defense, in their Training and Recruiting office. There she was recognized for her success with a myriad of difficult recruiting efforts. Most notably was her achievement of recruiting significantly more college students to DLA in a month than DLA had achieved over the past three years. Bo was fondly admired by all her colleagues, customers and the senior leadership wherever she was employed. While in Washington, DC Bo fell in love with her soul mate John and they married on May 28, 2006. She retired early so she could return with her husband to San Antonio to care for her ailing father-in-law in his final days. Virginia, so full of positive energy, would light up a room. Whether it was a room full of students, co-workers, family or friends; she had their admiration and love. Bo, with that great smile, hearty laugh and genuine kindness for people, made everyone feel as though they were the most important person in the room. Bo loved and nurtured all living things… plants to people. A view of her garden, with blossoming flowers, fruits and veggies was like a view of Bo. Most important to Bo was her family and dearest friends. She loved “Big John” and adored her “miracle” baby John Tomas (as she often referred to him) more than life itself. She would and did do anything for family and friends who she “adopted” as family. She would often say, “I love my life.”
She is preceded in death by her parents Jesse and Esther Hernandez, brother Manuel Hernandez, and sister Theresa Hernandez. Virginia is survived by her beloved husband and son John Felicio and John Tomas, niece Melissa and husband Devan Renfro, niece Christina Lopez and nephew James Ybarra, as well as four beloved grand nieces and nephews.
Services
17 April |
Visitation10:00 am - 11:00 am National Funeral Home |
17 April |
Funeral Service11:00 am - 12:00 pm National Funeral Home |
17 April |
Dove Release12:00 pm National Funeral Home |
Memories
Virginia Felicio
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ADD A MEMORYKathy Younker
April 9, 2021
John and family. So sorry to hear about your loss. I will always remember Bo with a warm smile and a generous heart for all.
My sincere condolences.
Kathy (a former Adventure Club member).
Debbie Lindholm
April 9, 2021
I remember her from high school she was so beautiful, kind Always had a smile on her face. Bless all of you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Christine Krueger
April 9, 2021
John and John Tomas,
My deepest condolences to you both.
Christine
Derek De La Vega
April 9, 2021
Virginia (Bo) was a lovely person and friend! There are many memories of her I could share, but what comes to mind the most when I think of Bo are her infectious smile, kind and gentle spirit, and her zest for life. Bo, I will miss you dearly good friend. Until we meet again, much love!
Derek De La Vega
Sara Suttle
April 9, 2021
I have known Bo to be the sweetest mom, not only to her own child, but to her friends’s children, too. I will miss our chats and laughs.
Polly Rodriguez Harrell
April 9, 2021
Johh & Family
Praying for you and your family. I am so sad that her life on earth was cut short her bright light will be seen in the darkness of the night as a star that will shine brightly so her family and friends can see it each night. God has opened his arms and has welcomed Bodie.❤️
Sandy Lenz
April 9, 2021
Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of the loss of Bo. I will always have fond memories of the fun times we shared and remember her beautiful smile and spirit. She will live on in the hearts and minds of all whose life she touched. My sincere condolences to you, your family and her greatest gift, John Thomas.
Karolye and Fernando Cunha
April 9, 2021
There just are not adequate words to express our sadness for you and John Tomas. Bo was such a light of joy and will be deeply missed. We will cherish our times together and they are many. May she Rest in Peace. May God give you the strength, love and support you will need through the family and the many many friends you have made together.
Elder Granger
April 9, 2021
The Granger's family are praying for God to provide comfort to the John Felicio and the extended family for the tragic loss of Virginia Felicio. Prayers and blessings.
Elder Granger
Tina Stuart
April 9, 2021
John,
Just wanted you and your Family to know that I have been lifting you all up in prayer. I also wanted you to know how much I admired you and Bo's beautiful relationship. You both have this beautiful ability to make everyone in a room or party feel welcomed. Bo will be greatly missed. I pray God gives you the peace and understanding only HE can give.
Sincerely,
Tina Stuart
Del Lofton
April 9, 2021
John,
Kristy and I are keeping you and your son in our thoughts and prayers. May God’s peace and comfort be with you during this difficult time.
Del
Kathleen McCarthy
April 9, 2021
John, There are no words but memories . Bo and I met at the Hope High reunion 2005 and we clicked. I have had the pleasure of being her friend and staying in touch since then. She was always a light on a dark day and we shared many thoughts and feelings . I loved being around her with her zest and spunk . Her loss is immense and all your friends can do is be there for you and John Tomas. Know she was loved and you are loved by your friends in Rhode Island . May her spirit soar with the angels . Love , Kathy
Joyce Speaker
April 9, 2021
Our sincere condolences. Bo was full of life. Bo was a vibrant soul who shined with Love of her husband John and her Dear son John Tomas. She was a true friend to many and will be greatly missed. She was taken way to soon from this Earth. May God keep her in Eternal Rest.
With prayer and Love Joyce Speaker
Elizabeth Sturla
April 9, 2021
When I think of Bo I see a ray of sunshine- spreading warmth and light to everyone in her presence both young and old. Her departure from this world will not prevent that light from continuing to warm us all and inspiring us in our relationships with each other. Our family sends you so much love and prayers until we meet again. Elizabeth, Mario and kids
Stacy Gibson
April 8, 2021
I will never forget your smile and your love for life. So smart and kind and giving. So many people love you and John. Im so happy to know you both. Love and Blessings, Stacy 🌺
Amy Serda
April 8, 2021
John,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I continue to pray that strength and comfort surrounds you during this difficult time.
David Montplaisir
April 8, 2021
John,
I have been struggling with finding the right words to express my sorrow in Bo's passing. The two of you have had such a profound impact on my life for over 14 years and I will miss Bo's wisdom and guidance.
I will always remember Bo's smile, her laugh and her kind heart. I pray that you and John Thomas can find comfort in each other as time moves on. I know that Bo's kindred spirit will stay within you and will help to sustain you going forward. I wish you and your family peace and comfort.
Juanita Neil
April 8, 2021
Mr. Felicio,
I did not get to meet Mrs. Felicio but remember seeing your lovely family at work holiday gatherings. I’m terribly sorry to hear about Mrs. Felicio’s passing and am praying for you and your entire family.
Juanita Neil
Daniel Gladwish
April 8, 2021
So sorry to hear! She was so full of life!
Spencer Howell
April 8, 2021
Mr. Felicio,
I pray, treasured memories bring you comfort and ease the pain of your unimaginable loss. No words speak to the loss of a life partner. Please accept my sincerest prayers and condolences.
Sincerely,
Spencer Howell
Mark Stevenson
April 7, 2021
John,
Coral and I send our heartfelt condolences to you and your family for your loss. Please know we are thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. We wish you peace and comfort.
Odis Blueitt
April 7, 2021
John and Family:
Pauletta and I extend our deepest condolences in the loss of your beloved Bo. May God grant you never-ending comfort as you face this difficult and challenging time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. I pray that God will cover you with His love and give your weary hearts rest and hope, now and beyond. May you cherish the fond memories and take comfort in knowing that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted.
With deepest sympathy,
Odis and Pauletta Blueitt
Christina Lopez
April 7, 2021
To John and John Thomas:
Words really cannot express how sorry I am for your loss and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you both during this extremely difficult time. I am shocked and completely devastated to experience the loss of my Aunt Bodie, she has always been such a bright light in our family. She was always happy, smiling, and loved to joke around with us and her laugh alone could brighten any day. I will always remember her as that bright light. I will cherish all the memories I have of her and be forever grateful for how much she was there for me, and the rest of our family throughout our lives. We all loved her and will miss her so much. You both meant the world to her, we love y’all and will always be here for y’all if you ever need anything at all. Sending you both healing prayers and comforting hugs.
Love Christina
Terri Page
April 7, 2021
John,
I was so very saddened to hear of your loss. I know Bo will be forever in your heart - and I pray that you find comfort and strength in all of your wonderful, loving memories. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family...
Terri
AMY MILLS
April 7, 2021
Mr. Felicio,
Praying for you and your family during this difficult time. May God meet all of your needs today, tomorrow, and forever.
Sincerely,
Amy Mills
Lee Ann Anderson
April 7, 2021
John & Family,
Praying for peace and comfort. I am so sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences from myself and the Clinical Resources team.
Lee Ann
Mary Jamvold
April 7, 2021
John,
Sending my deepest condolences and completely at a loss finding the right words. Please know you are all in my prayers and in my heart. I pray that God wrap his arms around you all and give you strength during this very difficult time.
Elizabeth Gibson
April 7, 2021
John and family, my deepest condolences. My family and I hold you close in prayer. Elizabeth
Cristina Cadavid
April 7, 2021
John
I did not have the opportunity to meet Bo, but I know about the affection that David had for her, for you and your family , I feel very sad for your loss , now there is one more angel at your side, a big hug
DJ Lente-Watts
April 7, 2021
For the Felicio Family ~ May God wrap His loving arms around you all providing you His peace and comfort, and may He continue to renew your strength one day at a time. May His love, grace and mercy be with you. With deepest sympathy.
Jeannie Padgett (DHA THP employee)
April 7, 2021
I am at loss for words during this sorrowful time. Please know I am thinking of you and praying for peach and comfort. Please accept my most sincerest sympathies for the loss of your wife. I am praying for your strength and comfort for you during at this time.
Laura D'Antin
April 7, 2021
For the Felicio family. Words just can't express how heartbroken I am for your family. Sending prayer and love to you all. With profound sympathy. Laura D'Antin
Laura D'Antin
April 7, 2021
For the Felicio family. Words just can't express how heartbroken I am for your family. Sending prayer and love to you all. With profound sympathy. Laura D'Antin
Duane Craig
April 6, 2021
John,
I sent the following email to your work email. I just wanted to repost it here:
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Brenda and I want to express our deepest sympathy at the loss of Bo. We have had her in our morning and evening prayers. We were so encouraged by the reports we were getting from Dave M and we were devastated when we read the email of her passing.
Your family will be in our daily prayers. Our prayer is that the Lord will comfort you during this extremely difficult time. If there is anything we can do PLEASE let us know. We did not know Bo really well outside of social circles, but because of our fervent prayer for her the Lord gave us a love for her beyond friendship.
The good news is she is at peace and not in pain and singing with the Angels and you will meet again.
God Bless
Duane and Brenda
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Kathy McGuire
April 6, 2021
John, I am so sorry. Please know that you and your family are in my heart. May happy memories of your beautiful wife give you strength to move through each day.
Wendy Funk
April 6, 2021
John, I am so sorry for the terrible loss you and your family have suffered. My thoughts are with you.... Wendy
Cris Becerra
April 6, 2021
Our deepest condolences to you and the family. May She Rest In Peace. Prayers for strength and healing for the entire family during this difficult time 🙏🏻
Alisa Jones
April 6, 2021
John
Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family at the loss of your beautiful wife. No words can take away the pain, but know I am here if you need to talk.
Alisa
Ron Peoples
April 6, 2021
John,
You have our deepest sympathy along with our prayers and offering of support.