If someone were to ask me who is one woman from your life, that you had the honor of knowing and was the epitome of a lady, I would have to say Sondra Cogan. She had an amazing style, a class act, and gifted me my favorite outfit from childhood; a red and navy tam with a matching sweater. Sounds strange but probably one of my favorite memories from childhood that brings a smile to my face, remembering her and Barney. I know she is with Barney now. I was lucky enough to have known them both.  My love to you Aunt Randy, Uncle Jim, and Alyssa.

Aunt Sondra was a constant presence in my life….from our early days in New Jersey, to hosting Laura and me all through our Georgetown years.  Unfailingly loving, giving and…..funny too.  She and Barney always had an open door for me, and then Laura too.  She was a bright light and a gift to all her knew her.  I will always be grateful for the place in my heart she built.

Dearest Lisa - Please accept our sincerest condolences for the loss of your dear mother.   Just know that she is smiling down on you, and is so proud of the daughter, mother, and wife that you are.  She will always be in your heart.  We are sending you, Adam, and Anthony, love and prayers during this difficult time.  May your mom rest in heavenly peace.  With Love - Jackie, Mike, and Maria

I thought I'd also share my fb post here ♡
This week we said goodbye to a dear friend, my sis-in-law's Mom, Sondra.  CJ and I have a pretty small circle of close friends & family , not because we chose it this way but because we are BOTH the oldest sibling,  and because we raised our children as all career military families do - far from family as we served our country. It was often a lonely life, with no help, no support, and doing our best as mid-20 year olds.  

 There's is no special name  to call  a sister-in-law's Mom In the US.  But we spent many of the last 30 year's special occasions with Sondra & her late husband Barney - and for us, we called them family.

Sondra Cogan was one special lady. Always dressed to a tee, hair perfect, matching accessories and a role model that could grace the cover of Voyage even at age 90. Sondra could always make me left. She was no wall flower ! I'm so happy my last memory was helping her enjoy chocolate ice cream in the hospital last week. It was such a sweet intimate moment between friends who shared many sweet moments in our decades long visits. I got to show her videos of her Great Granddaughter Shoshana as she sweetly blew kisses back to the video of Shoshana doing the same. Sondra will really be missed. I hope when I'm 90 I can be as well put together, funny & a woman of grace that she was. My condolences to daughter Randy, son-in-law Jim, Granddaughter Alyssa & little Shoshana. What a blessing to have videos Great Grandma Sondra & her Granddaughter !! The world has lost one of the last few grand old ladies. A wonderful educator,  wife,and Grandma.  We have lost a family member. RIP Sondra - I'll see you soon.

Sondra Cogan was one special lady.  Always dressed to a tee, hair perfect, matching accessories  and a role model that could grace the cover of Voyage   even at age 90.  Sondra could always make me left.  She was no wall flower ! I'm so happy my last memory was helping her enjoy chocolate ice cream in the hospital last week. It was such a sweet intimate moment between friends who shared many sweet moments in our decades long  visits. I got to show her videos of her Great Granddaughter Shoshana as she sweetly blew kisses back to the video of Shoshana doing the same.   Sondra will really be missed.  I hope when I'm 90 I can be as well put together, funny & a woman of grace that she was.  My condolences to daughter Randy, son-in-law Jim, Granddaughter Alyssa  & little Shoshana. What a blessing to have videos  Great Grandma Sondra & her Granddaughter !! The world has lost one of the last few grand old ladies. RIP Sondra - I'll see you soon.

One of my favorite things about aunt Sondra was that she always sent me a birthday card and a check! She did this until I was probably more than 50 years old. It was amazing and I knew that she was always thinking of me. I have the fondest memories of her And how she always treated me so well. I’m glad she lived along life and had a beautiful family.

One of my favorite ❤️ memories of spending time in the Cogan household was when Mrs. Cogan (a.k.a. Sondra) caught Randy and I eating the Chocolate Pepperidge Farm Cake 🍰 with White Icing that was in the refrigerator. Apparently we were really hungry, for some reason, and ate 3/4’s of the cake. 🍰 Mrs. Cogan was definitely 💯 not happy with us….Randy and I got a big laugh 😂 out of that one. 
I’m so sorry 😢 for your loss. She was a great lady and often made me laugh 🤭. 
My deepest thoughts 💭 and condolences 💐 go out to you and your family. 
All my love 💕
Jodi

I first met Mrs  Cogan in Paramus when Randy brought me to her home over the winter break from college. I was struck by her welcoming smile and the sparkle in her eyes. Those features went unchanged over the past 40 years. It was an honor knowing you Mrs Cogan. You will be missed. Love, Tracy Deschler

World traveler, smart, fashionable, loved to laugh. Will always think of you when I buy a handbag from TJMaxx or pick the pinkest lipstick that they sell. I’m so lucky that I asked the good questions and that you always answered so honestly. Love you Grandma Sondra.

To Sondra Cogan

You will be missed. You leave behind a legacy of 3 strong independent woman, as you were yourself. 
Your joyfull laughter will be missed

James

I am so sorry to hear of Sondra's passing.  I know that she is with Barney and they are reunited once again. I wish you all the strength of the beautiful memories you have of your mother and know that they will sustain you during this difficult time.  We are here for you now and for always.
All our love,
Linda, Michael, and Jonathan

OBITUARY

Sondra Cogan

April 20, 1933 – April 3, 2024

Craig Flagler Palms Funeral Home

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