Roberta A. Kirkwood

Roberta A. Kirkwood, 91, entered eternal rest on September 28, 2026. Born January 13, 1935, Roberta lived a life marked by steadfast devotion to family, faithful generosity, and a quiet grace that left a lasting impression on all who knew her. She will be remembered with deep respect and enduring affection.

For nearly 40 years, Roberta dedicated herself to Astoria Federal Bank, beginning her career as a teller and, through diligence and steady excellence, rising to become the head of the Retirement department. Her long service reflected a dependable spirit and a commitment to doing her work well—qualities that defined so much of her life.

Roberta shared a joyful marriage with her late husband, Noel Kirkwood. Together, they were known as the life of the party—often the first to step onto the dance floor, bringing warmth and lightness wherever they went. She was also preceded in death by her son-in-law, Kyle Hogan, and her late brother, Robert Phillips.

She is survived by her daughter, Maryanne Hogan; her son, Robert, and his wife, Regina; and her beloved grand cats, who brought her much comfort and companionship.

In her younger years, Roberta found beauty in creativity. She loved to paint, and her talent with embroidery was a gift she shared generously—most memorably in the Christmas stockings she lovingly made for new babies in the family. She also treasured travel and camping during her family’s younger years, embracing those seasons with a spirit of togetherness and appreciation for simple joys.

Roberta’s faith was expressed not only in worship, but in action. She gave generously, especially to her parish of St. Kevin’s, and supported various Catholic charities and animal organizations. Her kindness was steady and sincere, and those who knew her best will remember that she carried herself with a rare gentleness—never having an unkind word to say about anyone, and being truly adored by those fortunate enough to know her.

Visitation will be held at Frederick Funeral Home, 192-15 Northern Boulevard, Flushing, NY 11358, on October 1, 2026, from 3:00 pm to 5:00 pm, and again from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm.

A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Kevin's RC Church, 45-21 194th St, Flushing, NY 11358, on October 2, 2026, from 9:45 am to 10:30 am.

Roberta’s life was a testament to constancy, generosity, and love—given freely, received gratefully, and remembered always.