Aunt Viv, 

Frank & I will miss our weekend visits from you. You always arrived with a smile, looking beautiful in something new or vintage you had on. We talked fashion, movies, the actors you liked, the shows you watched, the shopping we each did, the food we were cooking, and life in general, and lots of Chewie!  And now you’re reunited with him, I’m sure you’re very happy about that. He was your little baby doll! 
You always offered to look after him whether we were going to just be out for the day or away on a trip.

It’s really weird not hearing you say “here she comes, the lady of the house” when I walk downstairs because, of course, I am always late to the party, even when it’s my own!  We had so much to tell you about the trips we just took, and the ones we are planning to take. You were always as excited to hear about them as we were to take them.  And since we are still settling into our home, and you enjoyed seeing and talking about the little changes we either made or were planning to make, it sucks that we can no longer share them with you whenever you come by to spend time with us. I will always remember your old school perfume, Odyssey by Avon! I would smell it on you immediately! And for the rest of my life anytime I smell it I will think of you! 

You are gone from our lives, but never absent from our hearts. We’ll all get together one day again, and we can catch you up on the craziness you missed, but in the meantime maybe you can look after Chew for us. We know you will take good care of him and he’ll be more than happy to keep you company.  

We Love You Aunt Viv! 🖤

From beautiful childhood memories, and wonderful, fun memorable times at the ranch, Villa Rona, family gatherings, holidays, events, you will truly be missed by us all tremendously  I hope you and all of our loved ones that have passed are together again in paradise.  Give hogs and kisses to them all.  We love you Aunt Viv.  Love Grace, George, Georgie and Meagan ❤️

If Roses grow in heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me,
Place them in my Mother's arms 
and tell her they're from me.

Tell her I love her and miss her,
and when she turns to smile,
place a kiss upon her cheek
and hold her for awhile.

Because remembering Mom is easy,
I do it every day,
but there's an ache within my heart 
that will never go away.

Gianna & Martin’s graduation party. This was one of the last parties that Aunt Vivian attended at my house. We always had a lot of good times and laughs with Aunt Vivian. She was truly the best. A really good heart and alot of fun and never judgmental. She got along with everyone and we always enjoyed having her over. She will truly be missed and always loved. 

In this time of great sadness, looking back on beautiful memories made can provide peace and comfort and while the grief will last forever, so will your mother Vivian in all our hearts.
 As the breath of sweet flowers wafts near and then leaves, so will the pain you are feeling right now. Hold tight, keep your head up, and know that happy days lie ahead once more.  Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us every day. You have our deepest sympathies and heartfelt condolences.  

Love, Eileen and Len



Viv, You we’re my sister-in-law and friend.  I am heartbroken, as well as my children and grandchildren.  You were very much a part of our lives. From the many vacations we spent together over the years and all the family weddings, dinners  and functions at my house and Gail’s.  Many laughs.  Also our fun days with the girls for Friday night coffee, (known as the coffee clotch).  Also the days of shopping from morning til night.  Those were such fun times and memories I will cherish forever. And the days  just having coffee with me and Joe S.
Give him a big hug and kiss from me as well as my Mom and Dad and all my siblings.  I miss you forever in my heart.  Sincerest condolences to my nieces Vivian and Lee.  Please pray for all of us. May you Rest in Eternal Peace. Forever in my heart.
Joanie❤️❤️


Aunt Viv with her nieces and nephews, (like her grandchildren). Ceili, Connor, Molly, Emma, Katelyn and Matthew will miss you terribly💔🙏🥰xo

Connor and Aunt Viv always goofing around❤️

Aunt Vivian, thank you for being a part of my life and my children’s lives. We will all miss you very much! You were my Mothers side kick always. I will miss making you a Malibu Rum or any other cocktail during our family gatherings. You were always outgoing and fun. You made me laugh always. Please watch over all of us and pray for us. I know you are in a much better place now. Say hello to all our family that are with you.  I will see you again someday. Love you!❤️🥰😘xo

Aunt Viv has always been a second grand mother to me 🤍 Will miss and love you always. So many laughs with you that I will cherish forever.  Thank you for being the sweetest soul and loving me so much. I am grateful that you got to watch me grow up. I wouldn’t be me without you. Love you always Aunt Viv. I love you so much and think about you every day. 🤍 I can hear your little sayings in my head and you were always the go to for a piece of gum. Nothing like a nice diner date with you. Can’t wait to see you! 

Dear Vivian❤️
I am heartbroken by your passing!
I have so many memories growing up..
You are Lisas's Godmother and we had so many fun days with Jackie and Lisa..
We spent summers upstate and in Seaside and Wildwood.. I wish we could go back to those days!
You will always be my Big cousin Viv💜
I will surely miss you🥲
To  Vivian and Lee I am so heartbroken for you..God Bless and may she Rest in Peace..

Vivi, I will miss you so much. I will miss coming over your house and eating cupcakes with you. Thank you for loving me the way you did. You will forever be in my heart. Love you forever, Vivi.

Viv, I am heartbroken by your sudden passing. I will miss seeing your smile every time Jackson and I came over the house. You were always there to help with Jackson anytime I needed you. They say it takes a village to raise a child, and you definitely were a part of that village. I will miss our dinner outings and our Taco Tuesday’s at the house. You will forever be in our hearts and will truly be missed.

I have many memories of Vivian from my childhood. She and my Mom were friends. They would sit in the kitchen for hours talking and laughing while drinking coffee and always an Entenmann's cake on the table.  Whenever I'd see her see now we would reminisce about the tiny coffee pot that held  more coffee than it should have.  Now there will be one less friendly face for me to run into when running errands in the neighborhood.  My heart is broken 💔

I was your bridesmaid, and we were sisters-in-law & friends. As we got older we had many great times together while watching our kids grow up. And later on in life we were lucky to be able to share those happy times, filled with love and laughter, alongside our adult children. In recent years we were fortunate to be able to do that more weekends than not. We never expected you to leave so soon. Peter and I will greatly miss you, Vivian. We Love you, until we meet again. 💔😭 

Sending my deepest sympathies to Lee and Vivian. Your Mom was a beautiful and strong woman with a big heart and a great sense of humor. She was so caring and so much fun to be around. I will always remember the many good times and milestones we shared through the years. She will be greatly missed. 
My thoughts are with you both at this heartbreaking time.  May my dear cousin Vivian rest in eternal peace.
Love, Susan 

Big Viv, I will always treasure the memories &good times I shared with you, especially our time  at the Jersey shore., Christmas time in Manhattan  & going to Macys.   Going to the Zigfield to see Tommy. & so much more. We shared many laughs .  I will always keep those memories in my heart.❤️ May you Rest in Peace my dear  Friend  🥰. My heart is broken   Love you, 

Sending my deepest condolences to Lee & Vivian your mother was a beautiful person and friend who spent her life taking care and wanting the best for you two. She enjoyed her retirement years spending time with you girls, family and friends. I worked many years with mom and became friends. She will be missed by all. May she rest in sleep with our Heavenly Father in paradise.
Fondly Natalie Parmitier.

OBITUARY

Vivian Aspromonte Alessi

May 7, 1937 – August 2, 2023

Frederick Funeral Home

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