Paul was a kind and caring neighbor. I will miss seeing you on the block and talking about your Saturn peach tree, herb pots, shoveling snow together, etc. I will never forget you inviting my family over for an impromptu barbecue when we were renovating our kitchen and you introducing me to AllClad cookware. Till we meet again. Godspeed Mensch!!

Learned Paul's recipe years ago and have made it countless times including last night in his memory.  I even found an old text on my phone to Paul dated March 31, 2018 when I sent him a photo of the batch I made then.  He approved of my adding guac and cheese and commented, "Mucho style points!" Well, my friend, mucho points to you for doing such an amazing job of sharing things that delighted you.  I will forever think of you when I make your famous turkey chili.

The main thing about Paulie was that he was incapable of being disingenuous. He would tell you the truth. And he would do it in a kind, curious, and gentle way. I'm sorry for myself that I wasn't a better friend over the years. I truly loved him as a brother.

My deepest condolences to Paul's brother John, his daughters, and the rest of his  family.
I knew Paul  from Jr. High and High School and 
he was always such a sweet guy.
But in watching the service I saw that he became a great man, one who's memory will be cherished by all who knew him.
May he rest in peace.
-Penni Auster-

I like to remember you this way... happy in greece with me

I have not been able to stop thinking about Paul since I heard of his passing.  What a truly, deeply, profoundly good man.  Seeing pictures of Paul with his beautiful Alessia and Nini fills my heart knowing how much he loved his girls and how much they adored their Papa.  And John, having lost my sister recently, I have an understanding of your great loss.  You and Paul were both brothers and best friends.  What a gift you were to each other.  And dear Karine, I know you and Paul were always there for each other and that you loved him. I am so sorry for the pain you feel now.  I regret not having stayed in contact with Paul but am so grateful to have met this incredible man over 35 years ago and been able to experience his warmth and humor.  I'll be making Paul's turkey chilli for dinner tonight in his memory complete with the secret ingredient.  I know you will be looking down at the many, many people who you loved and who loved you, Paul, and smiling watching Alessia and Nicola continue to do wonderful things.  Love you forever, brother!

My heartfelt sympathy to all who knew and loved  Paul. I have many fond memories of him from high school. May he rest in peace. 💔

Paul it is with such a heavy heart I write this . 
I was one of you & John's first friends when you moved here and we remained friends throughout our lives . I was so happy when I bumped into you at Target on Austin Street we could've talked for hours . I Pray you are at Peace now . Deepest Condolences to John and the family . I'll see you again in Heaven . Rest in Peace my dear friend . Your friend 
Steven Grimando 🙏

To Paul’s family. We are so sorry for your loss. Paul was always such a wonderful neighbor. Every time we Paul, he always had a smile on his face. He was a wonderful dad. We saw his daughters become respectful young ladies. We will miss his smile and his kindness. Rest in peace Paul.  
Dean, Sandra, Dean, Jr. and Anthony Dobbins

So very sad to hear of the passing of my old Junior High School and High School friend. I had not seen him for many years but so many great memories of my teenage friend. Always such a good guy. My condolences to his family

Paul joyfully entertaining the kids at my son Paul’s first birthday.

Sweet Paul at my Big Fat Greek Wedding 36 years ago.

Pauly May the 4 winds blow you safely home again.Your sweet smile your beach life  wont be undone...

I was so sad to hear of Paul's passing. My deepest sympathies go out to his family. May he rest in peace and his memory be a blessing. 💔

My deepest sympathies to your family. I have known and worked with Paul for many years at LiRo. Very sad to hear of his passing.

Paul will be missed by all. I met him in February of 2023 and he had a peaceful energy.

One of the best and most honest men I've ever known. Paul was never afraid to confront injustice and speak his mind. He indirectly taught me to more freely use the word brother when speaking to a friend, with a funny anecdote about his father using it. I'm deeply sorry that I dropped the ball over the years in maintaining our friendship. Love you Paulie.

This was a very Vitale Sunday 💕💔💕💔

Paul was one of the sweetest and kindest people I’ve met.  He had an open smile and was a joyous presence in the waves. 🤙🏼

Your passing is felt by all of us, and we offer our deepest condolences to your family.

Your TDX/MTA SBMP Family

Your passing is felt by all of us, and we offer our deepest condolences to your family.
MTA/TDX SBMP Colleagues

Paul as director of the SBMP at the MTA was a great person to work for and with.  In addition, as he enjoyed going surfing in Puerto Rico's Rincon region, we spoke more of the same town that I loved to vacation there.
He will be missed.
Pedro Rosario

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Paul J. Vitale

August 3, 1961 – June 19, 2024

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