Dr. Lavinio and his family were a very special part of my life from as far back as I can recall. My sister and I enjoyed many gatherings  and dinners at the Lavinio family home.  Dr. Joseph Lavinio was a welcomed partner in my father’s practice and I will always remember him as a true gentleman and professional. I know he will be missed. 

Dr. Lavinio was a large part of my life. My parents were friends with his parents and Joe and my father were partners in their dental practice. 
Joe was a funny and loving man. I’m sorry to hear of his passing. My sincere condolences to John and Richard. 

Hello Richard.  Although we have never met, I just wanted to offer my deepest condolences to you on the passing of your life partner, Dr. Joseph S. Lavinio, Jr.  Whenever I would speak on the phone with 'Dr. Joe,' he always spoke so highly of you, and I was very happy that you shared your life with him.  Be well and safe and I know you will miss him so much as everyone who knew him will.  God Bless always.  Dr. Paul A. Racioppi, Jr., Brooklyn, New York, Monday, May 3, 2021.

    I only learned by instinctual destiny today of the passing of my longtime and dear friend and colleague, Dr. Joseph S. Lavinio, Jr.  I first met 'Dr. Joe' back on the day after Christmas in 1980, when I went in to have a wisdom tooth removed by his professional partner, Dr. Anthony L. Di Mango.  I was a junior in college and at home for Christmas vacation.  The following May when I returned home for the summer, I had spoken to Dr. DiMango (he and his wife, Mafalda - may they rest in peace with my mother, Grace - were close to lifelong friends of my family in Brooklyn) and decided, since I was applying to dental school, to volunteer at their practice on Saturdays.  Becoming close friends to now both of the doctors, they both helped me immensely in my career.  When I started my own practice, we would meet for lunch a few times each week.  As Dr. Joe never forgot my birthday and always called me, I would do the same on March 20th each year.  I had called him this year but never reached him.  Since my own father has not been too well, I let it go thinking maybe Dr. Joe was perhaps traveling to celebrate his 80th somewhere.   Sensing something today that we are now in May,  by instinct or the path of God, I googled 'Dr. Joseph S. Lavinio, Jr.' and was so sad to see his obituary.  I will miss him as much as I miss Dr. Tony and Mafalda Di Mango, who arguably (all three) helped me in my lifetime with my career development and as much as if they were other parents to me.  God Bless Dr. Joseph S. Lavinio, Jr., in Heaven.  I witnessed his volunteer work at Catholic Charities and he was one fine man and doctor, beloved by all the patients who knew him.  My deepest condolences to his brother, John, and all other members of his family.  Dr. Paul A. Racioppi, Jr., Brooklyn, New York, Saturday, May 1st, 2021. 

We never met, but you were a cousin of my mother, Piera Lavinio. It strikes me so much that three members of the same family have left us in just over a month. I want to imagine the family finally reunited without limits and distances, in a serene harmony. To all its loved ones, I express my heartfelt condolences. Loredana Napolitano from Italy

We are saddened to hear the passing of my cousin Joe. I remember the chats that we had after Sunday dinners at our house in Brooklyn. Joe always encouraged us to work hard at our academic endeavors. Joe served as an inspiration to be successful. His kindness will be missed.

Frank & Arianna Lavinio

The staff of the American Cancer Fund at www.AmericanCancerFund.org is sorry to hear of Joseph’s passing. We have received a memorial donation in his name and our sincere condolences go out to his family.

I am saddened to hear of the loss of cousin Joseph.  I am also sad that I didn't get to know him as well as others who have shared their memories here.   My dad (Uncle Raymond) had so many wonderful things to say about him.  
My sincere condolences to cousin John and to Richard.  
Love,
Cousin Susan

Rich and John

I am so sorry about Joe's passing. I will treasure the many warm memories that Beth and I shared with Joe , Richard and John. He will forever be missed .

Love ,
Dad (Ken )

Rich and John,

We are so saddened by the passing of Joe. We will always treasure  the memories of barbeques at your house and the delicious meals that he would prepare for us . No one made a better cheese and cracker platter than Joe. 
We are thankful for all the years that you were part of our family and with my brother Rich. 

John, we are thinking of you and the loss of your dear brother and pray for peace.

Rich , we are praying for strength and peace in the coming months as you are grieving the loss of your partner.  We are here for you .

All our love, 
Your little sister Kathy ,
Pat and Shane 

I am so saddened to hear of Joe’s passing. I think of Joe and see that beautiful smile — I honestly can’t picture him without a smile. And that infectious laugh — the best laugh! 

Joe is someone who’s time in this world made this world better. He truly lived and found the joy in the world around him. 

Richard, I am so sorry for your loss.  To all those impacted by his passing my thoughts are with you. 

Darcy Beeman

Mike and I will treasure all of the special memories  and  great times  we had with Joe and Richard since we moved  to Florida almost 3 years ago! 
We literally wanted  to spend every weekend with them because we always had such a fun  time! The two operas we saw....we didn't even know we loved opera so much!... the elaborate meals that Joe prepared while his opera music played in the background....and just sitting around the coffee table talking for hours! Shopping in Cocoa Village, visiting the Art museums and the saga of the iguana in your swimming pool while the exotic orange bird kept stealing the cat food this past Thanksgiving-are just great memories we will always cherish!
Joe, you truly made this world a better place and  will be greatly missed by everyone who knew you!  Our hearts are saddened.....

Joe was one of our closest and dearest friends. We referred to him as our cultural advisor. His knowledge of all the arts was only exceeded by his culinary skills. Our times spent with him were always memorable. We will always love him and miss him. 

So sorry to hear of Joe’ s passing.  Our sincere condolences are with his family and friends.  We have lovely memories of great get-togethers at Joe’s house. 

With sympathy
Sofiya and Michael Johnson
United Kingdom 

Dear Johnny,
Please know we are thinking of you during this time. Even though, we met Joe only a few times, it was quite apparent he was a wonderful man. He will be truly missed.
Love,
Ania & Amir Alishahi


I met Joe when David Ratcliffe and Michael introduced us way back in 1996 
We had many shared memories of opera and concerts.  - and Dining at each other houses. 
He will be missed. 
Our thoughts are with Richard and Joe’s family 
Shabnam 

Sincere condolences to Rich snd the LAVINIO family on the passing of Joe. We all need to cherish our memories of our time with Joe. It was always good when my husband (Tom Young) and  I got to visit with Joe and Rich over a good meal of Née Orleans food. Again, sincere condolences to Rich and The LAVINIO family on the passing of Joe-he was a very special and outstanding friend.

Joe was a most remarkable man who will remain in our hearts and minds for our remaining years. His love for his family, people, music and food made him a most wonderful person.  He left us too soon, but he now shares in the light of God with the family which has awaited him with open arms.  Rest in peace my Good Man.  Prayers for peace and comfort for Richard and  family members.  (With regrets, we will be unable to attend the memorial service.)

Stephen  Plescia & Keith Muller

Joe was one of my dearest friends for many years and the fond memories are endless. Although we always lived far apart we remained friends for over 40 years.  Joe was one of the nicest, kindest and  most intelligent people I ever had the pleasure to know.  We had an agreement that wherever we were we would contact the other on the other one’s  birthday. Jack, my husband, and I have some great memories of when Joe and Rich would visit New Orleans for the opera.  Both Joe and Rich love the opera and love New Orleans and especially New Orleans food.  Joe and Rich will always be in our thoughts and prayers. 

Joe will be incredibly missed. He was the absolute best neighbor. He would never be annoyed by and in fact seemed to like the noise our 3 boys would make throughout the day. He was always looking out for us and made sure we felt welcome into the neighborhood. He was a great man and neighbor. Our deepest condolences go out to Richard and all who knew and loved Joe. May he Rest In Peace. 

I certainly concur with his well-written obituary. He was a host-with-the-mostest and a fabulous cook. Joe, in addition to being #1 in a long-time of cousins. He was my #1 visit to South Florida(pre-pandemic travel). My long memories are intertwined with Joe and most always include him.  I loved him. I will miss him. A difficult loss amongst these times of isolation. 

Joe will be dearly missed. He brought such joy to our family. I will always remember the laughter shared between him and Richard. He lived a life full of love, laughter and passion for the care of others. We will miss you Joe.
With love,  Jennifer and Edward 

Our sincerest condolences in the passing of your beloved Joseph. He was a wonderful man and we are sure you will have many wonderful memories to think back on and smile about. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all..
Sincerely
Tony Cotroneo  &. Vincent Shola


We knew Joe was a fabulous chef and we were privileged to be invited several times to his lovely home.  There with his dear partner Richard and several close friends we would indulge in hearty libations and feast like kings on an assortment of delicious food.
Thank you Joe for the wonderful memories of sharing your home and culinary expertise with us.  You will be dearly missed.
George and Ray

May you always Rest In Peace, my dear cousin, Joseph.
My Deepest condolences to all you left behind, especially brother John. Love you.

OBITUARY

Joseph "Joe" S. Lavinio Jr.

March 20, 1941 – April 10, 2021

Kraeer-Fairchild Funeral Home and Cremation Center

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