Frank has always been a point of inspiration and cheer  for all who have had the opportunity to know him.   He will forever bring a smile to us all in our recollection of our times together.

We are sorry to learn of your loss.   We remember Frank as a wonderful and kind  teenager when we lived on Cimarron Pass.   Our prayers are with you and your family.
Robert “Hoot” and Carolyn Gibson 
4892 N Conrad Ct, Columbia City IN
260 385-5552

From Barbie Lisa Larry  you will be forever missed and always in our hearts  love you I promise to look out for Aunt Delores you will be forever in our hearts

From: Jackie, Dave and Elaine Wisniewski. Our heartfelt sympathy to entire family, and friends that Frank touched while he was here on Earth. Now in a place of painfree and eternal life with our Lord and savior.  Prayers sent for acceptance and comfort.

From Dave, Elaine and Jackie Wisniewski... our hearts are saddened with the news of Franks passing. You know we are here for you in anything you need. We are the few left and we will see you through this tragedy. God bless you all and may God wrap his arms around you with love and comfort.

Oh Mary, 
I am so sorry to hear of you and your family’s loss! He looked to be a very special man. I know he kept you smiling and raising your girls. Stay strong and live knowing he is now watching over you and the ones you love 💕 
Miss you
Sandy Sarrazin

Rest in peace Frank you was a fighter of that terrible cancer I will always remember my spider plant you gave me I was so impressed by how much you knew about plants flowers I will do my best to look out for your mom and dad rest in pease my cousin love Barbie

For those few who may not know, I am Frank's oldest daughter. I wanted to add that if you were ever to ask my dad (and some times he wouldnt even wait for someone to ask lol) how many daughters he had he would say 5 and let them know how much of a handful we all were lol 😆 his step daughters Andrea and Nettie were just as loved by him. From day 1 he loved them just as though they were his and he was so SO proud of both of them. He loved us all, with his whole heart. He was never one who liked the spotlight being on him....much more a giver than a taker. I am blessed to be able to say that I never left anything unsaid, he was my best friend even though one of his favorite lines was "I'm not your friend I'm your dad". I am happy I get to say that I told him everything and left nothing unsaid...however we were so close that it's in the days ahead when I will wish that heaven had visiting hours because good or bad, rain or shine, the little moments and the big, I confided it all in him. One thing I never did say was goodbye, but for us it was/is never goodbye but I'll see you later. He was one of a kind and I will miss him every second of every single day of my life until we meet on the other side. Xoxo, me ❤️

Dad and I were suppose to go out and get Krystal and Renee nail certificates and to see about getting both of them a lizard for Christmas. We never made it to the nail salon, instead we went to the pet store that we always went in off of Stellhorn Rd. While in the pet store we looked at all the animals.. dad made the parrot cuss every time we walked in there.🤣 We looked at so many cool lizards but kept coming back to look at this giant tortoise. We ended up leaving the pet story with the tortoise and named him Henry. We didn’t have him very long but he was one of the coolest gifts we ever got. Also one of the most memorable memories of dad. I love you, dad! Xoxo 💋

Rest in peace my friend.  You fought the good fight and truly deserve your rest.  My condolences to your loving wife and family and of course your Mom and Dad.  You were always a great friend to me and I'll cherish your memory as I  go forward.  Love ya pal!

I love you dad
"Cow girls don't cry". 💔🤟 but can we make an exception this time 😭 
Xoxo-little biggen

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Frank Raymond Benhower

December 14, 1965 – September 18, 2023

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