Ernest Lee Bowen

Ernest Lee Bowen—known to everyone who loved him as “Lee”—was born on September 23, 1949, in Torrance, California, to Emmitt and Coralie Bowen. Lee passed away peacefully on January 7, 2026, in Fremont, California, at the age of 76.

Lee is survived by his devoted wife of 46 years, Carroll; his son, Mark; his daughter, Terri (Dan); and his cherished grandchildren, Hannah, Joseph, John-Paul, Laura, and Christopher. He is also lovingly remembered by his sister Sharon (Jim), along with three generations of nieces and nephews, and many dear friends. Lee was preceded in death by his son Steven and four siblings.

As a teenager, Lee and his family moved to Point Richmond. At just 17 years old, Lee enlisted in the United States Army in October 1966. He served two tours of duty in Vietnam and was honorably discharged in May 1969. Lee carried a deep sense of pride in being a Veteran throughout his life.

After returning home, Lee moved to Chicago, where he spent seven important years. It was there that he married and became a father to two children, Terri and Steven. Later, Lee returned to California, where he met Carroll and her young son, Mark. The two built a life together and were married on July 13, 1979. Lee and Carroll blended their families into one, and his children were always close in heart, even when miles apart. Each summer he would fly to Chicago to bring Terri and Steven back to California for weeks filled with bonding, fun, and family time. Those summers included treasured trips to Disneyland, Monterey, Half Moon Bay, and Muir Woods—memories Lee held close and deeply valued.

Lee spent more than 35 years working in business equipment sales. Along the way, he started his own company, selling and servicing equipment. After 10 years, he sold the business, but he wasn’t ready to slow down. Believing he was “too young to retire,” Lee took a part-time job as a shuttle dispatcher at the San Jose Airport. It was there that a coworker encouraged him to contact the VA and make use of the benefits he had earned. Lee was proud of his service, and grateful for the support the VA provided him later in life.

Lee and Carroll especially loved taking cruises. In earlier years, they traveled together as a couple, and in later years they welcomed their children and grandchildren to join them, making even more lasting memories. Lee also enjoyed trips to the Indian casino in Jackson, California, where he and Carroll would stay for a few days, relax at the hotel, and spend time at the casino.

Lee was also an avid sports fan, cheering on the 49ers, Raiders, Giants, and A’s—with the 49ers always holding the top spot in his heart.

Above all else, family meant everything to Lee. He will be remembered for his boundless love, kindness, and generosity. He leaves behind a legacy of devotion and warmth, and he will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.