Susan Janet Wildermuth

Though our hearts ache with loss, we take comfort in the beautiful legacy of love, joy, and selflessness she left behind.

Sue was a light in every room she entered. Fun-loving and cheerful, her laughter was contagious, and her sense of humor never failed to lift the spirits of those around her (often known as “Silly Sue”). She had a remarkable ability to find joy in the simplest moments and shared that joy freely, making everyone she met feel like part of her family.

Known for her kind and giving heart, Sue was a nurturer at her core. Whether with a listening ear or words of encouragement, she was always there to support those she loved. She truly never met a stranger, greeting everyone with the same friendly, bubbly energy that endeared her to so many.

Through life’s challenges, Sue remained an eternal optimist. Her resilience and ability to see the good in every situation inspired everyone who knew her. She faced life with faith, courage, grace, and an unwavering smile that reminded us all of the power of positivity.

Sue was not just a mother, wife, grandmother, and sister, but a guiding light, a best friend to many, and a source of boundless love and encouragement.

An enthusiast of animals, Sue was a lifelong pet lover, often found surrounded by her beloved furry companions and about 900 different kinds of their treats and toys. She had an incredibly special bond with her loyal dog, Brodie, who brought her so much comfort and companionship in their cherished time together.

Sue found peace and joy with her toes in the sand, basking in the sun on countless beach vacations, whether in Montauk, the Outer Banks, Hawaii, the Caribbean, or the South Pacific. Her ideal day was spent lounging in beach chairs by the water with her family or on a boat, savoring the gentle breeze and the beauty of the world around her, and maybe a margarita in her hand. She loved being by the water and was inspired by her father’s love for Annapolis, living out his request to “see if it was still there.”

An avid reader and lifelong learner, Sue had an insatiable curiosity about the world. She loved to research to stay informed, dive into books, and was a great lover of language, a natural wordsmith, and a prodigious Scrabble player. Sue’s ability to chat with absolutely anyone about absolutely anything truly set her apart. She had a gift for deep, meaningful conversations, and her ability to listen and understand made her company invaluable. Sue enjoyed tennis and golf in her younger years, and was in the same bowling league for almost 15 years. She was always up for a game of Sequence or an afternoon of fun with her loved ones.

Music was one of Sue’s first loves. She enjoyed every genre and loved to sing along. A fan of Jimmy Buffett’s music, she could often be found bopping around to her favorite tunes, enjoying the island vibes that he so beautifully captured. Jimmy Buffet concerts were something she looked forward to every summer. We also have many memories of Steve Miller concerts, sitting on a blanket enjoying his music and a good sunset.

Sue loved any reason for a party—whether it was a Sunday dinner, holiday gathering, tailgate, or simply the joy of being together with friends and family. She had a special way of making every moment feel meaningful, and is the reason so many family traditions will be upheld in years to come. She embodied the Christmas spirit and really knew how to make holidays special for her family. She never missed an opportunity to wish others well and was adamant about sending cards and messages to everyone on their birthdays. She was known to make a toast at every family meal and an ongoing joke became the saying "Happy Birthday, Keith!" which will be continued in her spirit.

Sue was dedicated to supporting her children through the many seasons of life and as they continued to evolve as adults and parents. She cheered from the sidelines, not just at games, but at every milestone, big or small. Her devotion to her children and her unwavering love for her family were at the core of everything she did. Sue’s dedication to her children was evident in many ways. She could have won the Cal Ripken attendance award for her consistent presence in the softball stands. She was involved in the PTA, the Girl Scouts, served as a den mother for her youngest, and made it a priority (even from afar) to be there for her granddaughter’s shows and grandson’s baseball and football games. She packed school lunches everyday, and often included a sweet message on a napkin. A natural caretaker, being a mother was her life’s calling and one of her biggest life achievements, which (of course) also resulted in her being the absolute best “Mom-Mom” to her grandkids and mother-in-law to Patrick and Ryan. She created a loving and joyful home, where family celebrations, good food, love, and a lot of laughter were at the center of everything.

She was preceded in death by her father, John Baines Siddall, and mother, Jane Mae Siddall, as well as her brothers Gene LaVielle and John Siddall.

Susan is survived by her husband of 47 years, Roger Wildermuth and their 2 daughters Melissa Storm (Patrick) and Stephanie Wildermuth (Ryan Hadfield), as well as her 2 grandchildren: Madison Storm and Jack Storm, who will forever carry her spirit in their hearts.

She is also survived by her brother Richard Siddall (Edie) and sister Jill Tartaglino (Tom), as well as her Father and Mother In-law Bill and Naomi Wildermuth, and brothers-in-law: Richard, Rodney (Cindy), and Joe (Heidi) Wildermuth.

So many people go through life wondering what their purpose is, but we truly believe Sue was put on the Earth to spread unconditional love, laughter, and kindness. Her impact on the lives she touched will forever be her beautiful legacy. She will be deeply missed, but her spirit will live on in the countless memories she created and the many lives she touched.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you honor her memory by making contributions to the American Diabetes Association and dedicating the donation in Susan’s name. A fundraiser for the Diabetes Research Center is being organized in her memory. More information will be shared once it is live.

Sue, you will always be missed, but your light will never fade. Rest in peace, knowing you made the world a better, brighter place, and were so incredibly loved. “We love you to the moon and back.”