

Pam attended the Garden Grove continuation educational systems, carrying forward a steady dedication to learning that would quietly shape the way she moved through life—with patience, care, and an enduring respect for others.
A committed restaurant owner in the vegetarian cuisine, Pam brought her work to life through attentive service and a sincere desire to nourish those around her. Her good heart was evident not only in what she prepared, but in the warmth and kindness with which she welcomed people, day after day.
Pam’s life was shared with her life partner, William Ralph Cote (deceased). They met overseas in a shopping center, beginning a bond rooted in devotion and lasting companionship. Pam was also a loving mother to four children: James, Richard, Will, and Michelle.
Health and vegetarianism coexisted well in Pam’s life, reflecting a thoughtful approach to daily living and a gentle consistency in the choices she made.
Pam was very spiritual and committed to the teaching of her spiritual path. In this devotion, many found a steady example of compassion. Pam will be remembered with deep respect and enduring affection.
Pam is preceded in death by her parents Hong Huynh Tran and Ma Tran.
Pam is survived by her children, James, Richard, William and Michelle Cote; her siblings, Rose Tallman and Phuong Tran; her nieces and nephews, Asia Young, Elizabeth Tallman, Hiep and Hai Tran (Natalie); her grandchildren, Kenneth Lucas, Drew and Benjamin Cote; Eden Cote Abrahamson; and her great-grandsons, Preston Tran (Ashley), and Eliot and Samuel C. Abrahamson. She is also survived by Darlene Knight, Virginia (Jennie), Cannon (James), June Barker (Harold), Teresa Folse (Roger), Shirl Cote, Joseph Grant ( Tammy), and Thomasina Grant.
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