Stephen Joseph Badami

Stephen Joseph Badami, lovingly known as “Stevie-B” to those closest to him, passed away peacefully on Friday, August 28, 2026, in Kansas City, Missouri, at the age of 78. He was born on October 27, 1947, in Kansas City, Missouri, to the late Charles Badami and Frances Mannino Badami.

Stephen was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother, friend, and man of unwavering faith. He was the beloved husband of Philomena Badami, with whom he shared 52 years of marriage and a lifetime of love, laughter, family, and memories.

He was the loving and immensely proud father of Dr. Charles Badami, PhD, Michael Badami, Thomas Badami, Kimberly Kovar, John Badami, Dr. Patrick Badami, PharmD, Daniel Badami, Dr. David Badami, MD, and Dr. Matthew Badami, PharmD. His greatest joy, however, was being “Grandpa” to his 27 grandchildren. To them, he was simply the best Grandpa—a constant presence at family events, a generous provider of treats, and someone who would do absolutely anything for his family. And he did.

Stephen was the brother of, and preceeded in death by his two sisters Cathleen Bellafiore and Charlene Crete and is also survived by his half-brother, Ted Badami, along with many beloved nieces, nephews, cousins, and lifelong friends.

Stephen proudly served his country as a Sergeant in the United States Marine Corps and was a Vietnam Veteran. He loved America and had a deep appreciation for the United States Flag. Yet above all else, Stephen loved God and his family.

His Catholic faith was the foundation of his life. Stephen was a devout Catholic who attended Mass daily whenever possible. He cherished the opportunity to serve as a lector, reading the Word of God to his fellow parishioners. His faith was not simply something he practiced—it was something he lived. He carried his beliefs into his everyday life and tried to share that faith through the way he treated others.

Stephen graduated from Long Beach Community College with a degree in Aeronautics and spent much of his career as an airplane mechanic and inspector. He later worked for 22 years as a Slot Technician at Ameristar Casino before retiring in 2017.

But Stephen was so much more than his career. He was a man who loved music and had a special talent for playing and tuning pianos. He loved to sing, and few things made him happier than gathering in his beloved basement “Badami’s Pub” and singing Sinatra. He would sing there every week and, whenever given the opportunity, would happily perform for friends, family, or even the public. The Pub was also a special place for Stephen and Philomena, where they enjoyed weekend date nights together—a little corner of their home filled with music, laughter, and memories.

Stephen had an unmistakable generosity about him. He was always looking for ways to give—to family, to friends, to strangers, and even to the people in the service industry by leaving large tips. Giving was simply part of who he was.

And if you ever walked through Stephen’s front door, you were going to be fed.

His pantry was always stocked with goodies and snacks, especially for his grandchildren. He loved spoiling them. If someone came to his house, he would make sure they ate. If you said you weren’t hungry, he would insist. And if you said “no” again, he would probably feed you anyway. It was one of the many ways Stephen expressed love—through generosity, hospitality, and making sure the people around him were taken care of.

Stephen was deeply loved by his family and friends. Anyone fortunate enough to have known him knew that he was truly one of a kind. He had a larger-than-life personality, a generous heart, a strong faith, and an extraordinary devotion to the people he loved.

His grandchildren will remember the Grandpa who always showed up. His children will remember a father who would do anything for them. Philomena will remember the husband who shared 52 years of life beside her. His friends and parish family will remember his laughter, his music, his faith, and his generosity.

But perhaps Stephen’s greatest legacy is not something that can be written in an obituary. It is the legacy he left within his children—the values he taught them, the faith he shared with them, the importance of family, generosity, loyalty, and love. Those lessons will now be carried forward by his children and grandchildren and, through them, for generations to come. One tradition never to be forgotten will be sharing the light of Christ at Christmas time with a birthday cake for Jesus surrounded by his kids and grandkids. He would make sure to say “your gift to God is what you do with the gift he gives to you.”

Stephen gave so much of himself to the people around him. He loved deeply, gave generously, showed up faithfully, and made sure that those he loved knew they mattered.

He will be profoundly missed by his wife, children, grandchildren, extended family, friends, and church family. But his love, his faith, his laughter, and the lessons he left behind will remain in the hearts of those who were blessed to know him.

His life was a gift. His love was his legacy. And his family was his greatest accomplishment.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Funeral Mass at St. Charles Borromeo Catholic Church, 900 NE Shady Ln Dr., Kansas City, MO 64118, on September 5, 2026, at 10:00 AM, with visitation beginning at 8:30 AM and continuing until the time of service. The Committal Service will follow the Mass at White Chapel Cemetery, 6600 NE Antioch Rd. in Gladstone, Missouri.

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