Todd J. Doxsee

Some people simply pass through life. Others leave an unmistakable mark on every person they meet. Todd J. Doxsee was one of those rare individuals whose presence filled every room. Larger than life in stature and spirit, known for his signature white glasses, warm smile, magnetic personality, and unmistakable confidence, Todd was unforgettable. He had a way of making people feel welcome, protected, and valued, and he made life larger for everyone fortunate enough to share it with him.

Todd was born on May 21, 1968, in Kansas City, Kansas, to Marshall Doxsee and Dee Ann (Foley) Doxsee. His curiosity, independence, and determination appeared early. When he was only five years old, Todd completely disassembled his bicycle because he wanted to understand how it worked—and then put it back together himself. That instinct to study a problem, understand every moving part, and confidently find a solution remained with him throughout his life.

Todd graduated from Washington High School, where he played football, basketball, and golf, and later attended Kansas City Kansas Community College. Even in high school, his entrepreneurial spirit was in full force. He worked as a disc jockey at a skating rink, built his own DJ business, hired employees, and sold the successful business before he even graduated. Todd never waited for someone else to create an opportunity; he saw what could be done, made a plan, and got to work.

Working alongside his father at The Station gave Todd a foundation in mechanics, customer service, and the importance of treating people with respect. Todd later built a successful furniture manufacturer's representative business, becoming nationally respected in the industry and receiving invitations to return to manufacturer conventions as a speaker. Yet even at the height of that success, Todd knew what mattered most: he sold the business so he could spend more time with his son, Carson. For Todd, family was never something squeezed in around work; family always came first.

He continued consulting and later brought his talent for business development to the material handling industry as Director of Dealer Development for Castle Equipment Company. He loved the company, his coworkers, the customers, and the opportunity to help people discover better and more innovative ways to succeed. He approached every position with the mind and heart of an owner—always looking to improve operations, support dealers, and solve problems. He answered every phone call, even long after business hours.

Todd possessed a rare gift that could not be taught: he knew how to build genuine relationships. Whether meeting someone through a personal introduction or making a business cold call, he took time to ask thoughtful questions, listen closely, remember the details that mattered, and treat people as individuals rather than prospects. It was not uncommon for Todd to stop in to meet a potential contact and walk out with a new friend, even when they never moved forward with doing business together.

Those relationships became the hallmark of his career. Customers remained fiercely loyal, often following him from one company to the next because they trusted the man more than any particular product or brand. When calling on clients, he wore shirts embroidered with company logos made by a local professional he knew personally—just one more way he turned ordinary business interactions into genuine connections. People believed Todd because his word meant something. If he recommended a product, offered advice, or promised to take care of a problem, they knew he would follow through.

Family was the absolute center of Todd’s world. He shared an exceptionally close bond with his parents, Marshall and Dee Ann, and his sister, Kim. Family was never an obligation—it was simply the center of his life. It wasn't unusual for Todd to talk with his mom, dad, or Kim several times throughout the day. Whether he had exciting news to share, wanted advice, needed a second opinion, or simply wanted to check in, one phone call often led to another. Their conversations were woven into the rhythm of everyday life.

Marshall was more than Todd's father; he was one of his greatest teachers, mentors, and role models. Todd admired his work ethic, practical wisdom, and the way he treated people with respect. The lessons he learned working beside his dad extended far beyond mechanics and business—Marshall taught him the value of keeping his word, solving problems with confidence, lending a helping hand, and always putting people before profits. Those values became the foundation on which Todd built his own life.

Todd also shared a special relationship with his mother, Dee Ann. She was a constant source of love, encouragement, and unwavering support throughout his life. No matter how busy he became, he always found time to call, visit, or simply hear her voice. Their bond was built on deep affection, mutual respect, and the comfort of knowing they could always count on one another.

His relationship with his sister, Kim, was truly one of a kind. They shared a closeness that many siblings never experience—they were trusted confidants, lifelong friends, and unwavering supporters of one another. Whether celebrating life's victories, working through difficult decisions, or simply checking in throughout the day, they were always just a phone call away. Their conversations were frequent, their laughter came easily, and their bond remained as strong in adulthood as it had been in childhood. Todd treasured his relationship with Kim, and she knew she could always count on him for honest advice, steadfast encouragement, and unconditional love.

Life has a remarkable way of bringing people together, and for Todd, one of those moments happened on the sidelines of a football field. While attending his son Carson's football practices, he found himself sitting beside Carrie Sue practice after practice. What began as casual conversations soon grew into a friendship and, before long, into the love of his life. Anyone who knew Todd knew exactly how much he loved his wife. He spoke of her with admiration, treasured every opportunity they had to spend time together, and never missed a chance to make her feel loved and appreciated.

Carson was the center of Dad's world, and some of his happiest memories were the years they spent together as father and son, from football practices and games to everyday adventures. When Carrie Sue came into his life, his heart somehow found room to grow even bigger. After they married, Carlye, Charley, and Caitlyn became an integral part of his life, and Dad never measured love in limited portions—he simply gave more of it.

From that day forward, he invested himself wholeheartedly in all of his children and step-children. He was there for practices, games, recitals, concerts, school events, graduations, birthdays, holidays, family vacations, and countless everyday moments that became treasured memories. He loved watching them grow, cheering them on, celebrating every accomplishment, and encouraging each of them to chase their dreams. Years later, he proudly made his commitment to Caitlyn permanent by adopting her—a moment that reflected the love and devotion he had shown from the very beginning.

To his children, Dad was simply the best dad anyone could ever ask for, a true role model who showed them what it meant to work hard, love deeply, laugh often, and always put family first. Dad was the first person they wanted to call, whether they had exciting news to share, a difficult decision to make, or just needed someone to talk to. Sometimes those conversations lasted a few minutes; other times they lasted for hours. Dad had more answers than Google and gave better advice than any therapist ever could. He had an incredible way of helping sort through life's challenges, reminding his kids that every problem had a solution and that even the hardest situations could become something good if you chose the right perspective. He always told the truth—even when it wasn't what they wanted to hear—but they always knew he was on their side.

Dad's love language was giving. He found so much joy in making the people he loved feel special. Whether it was Christmas, a birthday, an anniversary, or "just because," he would spend hours—sometimes days—searching for the perfect gift. It was never about how much it cost; it was about finding something so thoughtful and personal that it made you feel truly seen and loved. Watching someone open a gift he had carefully chosen brought him as much joy as receiving one. He took great joy in giving to his children, whether it was buying sports equipment, helping with school expenses, making sure they had opportunities to pursue their interests, helping them get their first vehicles, or finding thoughtful ways to celebrate life's milestones.

Todd coached football for the Raiders and Sharks and baseball for the Royals, White Sox, and Braves, giving his time, energy, encouragement, and heart to every child on his teams. He did not merely stand on the sidelines and call plays. He invested in the full experience, personally coordinating uniforms and team apparel so the children could look like a team, feel like a team, and take pride in belonging to something special.

Todd believed finances should never prevent a child from having the opportunity to play. If a player needed a glove, bat, cleats, or other equipment, Todd quietly bought it out of his own pocket. If a family was struggling with baseball tournament fees or other team expenses, he often helped cover those costs without seeking recognition or repayment. He saw a need and stepped

in because that was simply who he was. Every child deserved a chance to participate, build confidence, make friends, and create memories.

For Todd, coaching was never measured only by the scoreboard. His greatest victories were watching a child gain confidence, seeing teammates become friends, and knowing that no one had been left on the outside because of circumstances beyond their control. He did not just build teams—he built character, belonging, and belief in young people who may never have fully known the sacrifices he made behind the scenes.

Todd believed the greatest gifts weren't things at all—they were memories. Family vacations were opportunities to laugh together, stay up too late, tell stories, and create memories that would last a lifetime. Whether exploring California, Florida, the Grand Canyon, Michigan, Mexico, the Dominican Republic, the Lake of the Ozarks, taking cross-country road trips (including the infamous RV adventure), or making quick trips to the Amish Amana Colonies and Jamesport, Dad's favorite place was wherever the people he loved were together.

He was a natural host with a gift for making people feel at home. He opened his doors, filled the table, and made sure everyone was included. Friends and family knew that if Todd was grilling, they were in for something special; you could not get a better steak at a restaurant. His steaks became legendary, but the meal was never only about the food—cooking was one more way Todd cared for people and created a place where conversation, laughter, and connection could flourish.

Music was part of many of those special moments. Todd loved jazz and enjoyed sharing theatrical and musical programs with Carrie Sue on their cherished date nights—evenings that might include a concert, a stage production, live music, dinner, and intentional time together. True to Todd's generous nature, they often invited other family members to come along and share the experience. On vacation or while relaxing on the back deck listening to music with friends, Todd also enjoyed one of his favorite Big Daddy Vanilla cigars—part of a familiar ritual of slowing down, telling stories, and savoring the moment.

Todd was in the process of building a home in The Bahamas, carefully searching for unique treasures and imagining how each space would look and feel. He envisioned a gathering place where family and friends could come together year after year, celebrate milestones, relax, laugh, and create traditions that would outlive him. The home reflected one of Todd's deepest beliefs: life's greatest experiences were meant to be shared.

He embraced adventure with boundless enthusiasm. Todd loved golf, fishing trips to Canada with the boys, deep-sea fishing, weekends at the Lake of the Ozarks, and slalom water skiing. He loved horseback riding and proudly rode with the Posse in Kansas City parades. He was an excellent country dancer and had an amazing singing voice. Todd was also a true automobile enthusiast, appreciating craftsmanship and engineering from the T-top Oldsmobile Cutlass that made his high school friends envious to the Bentley he proudly owned later in life. He had a natural sense of style and enjoyed putting together the right look for every occasion; he was a true shoe hound, with shoes in nearly every color and the perfect pair to complete each outfit.

Whether in casual shorts or dressed to the nines in a sharp suit with cufflinks, he carried himself with confidence, personality, and unmistakable Todd flair.

Todd's heart was as big as his presence. He opened his home to friends who needed a place to stay and readily helped remodel homes, fix vehicles, move offices, solve problems, and navigate difficult decisions. There was an unshakable confidence that came with having Todd nearby—you did not have to worry because, somehow, he had it handled. He was a natural problem solver, a fierce protector, and a safe place. He made complicated situations feel manageable because he did not retreat; he stepped forward. He did not merely say he cared—he showed it by being present, making the call, planning the trip, buying the equipment, opening the door, cooking the meal, or standing between his family and whatever threatened their peace.

Todd passed away peacefully at home on July 25, 2026. He is survived by his wife, Carrie Sue Doxsee; his children and step-children, Carson Doxsee, Caitlyn Doxsee, Carlye Genisio, and Charley Genisio; his mother, Dee Ann (Foley) Doxsee; his sister, Kimberly Harmon; his brother-in-law, Greg Harmon; his nephew, Parker Harmon; and his niece, Tara Harmon. He was preceded in death by his father, Marshall Doxsee.

Todd lived with a servant's heart, a protector's strength, an entrepreneur's vision, and a larger-than-life spirit. He made people feel like they belonged. He did not wait for memories to happen; he created the opportunities for them. The world is a little quieter without Todd Doxsee, but immeasurably better because he was here. His legacy lives on in the family he loved, the friends he gathered, the children he coached, the businesses he strengthened, the people he helped, and the countless lives made larger because they were touched by his. Todd was not just larger than life—he made life larger for everyone around him.

Visitation will be held 11 a.m. - 12 p.m., followed by the funeral service at 12 p.m., Friday, August 7 at Newcomer's White Chapel Funeral Home, 6600 NE Antioch Rd., Gladstone, MO. Committal Service will take place at 2 p.m. at Chapel Hill Funeral Home & Memorial Gardens, 701 N 94th St, Kansas City, KS 66112.