Pamela Coss-Hayes

October 29, 1973August 31, 2018

Pamela Coss was born in Nogales, Arizona. She was the youngest daughter of four siblings. Pamela was a precious daughter, mother, sister, aunt, and friend. She had a great personality and sense of humor. She loved dancing to music, and singing karaoke songs.

Throughout her school years, she was smart, and an overachiever. Pamela became a part of the student council and president of her class for several years. She was also a cheerleader and graduated from Nogales High school in 1991.

In 1992, she became a proud mother of her son Fabian Andres Coss-Cano. She was a caring and nurturing mother. Her son Fabian was her pride and joy. She purchased her first home in Glendale, Arizona where she created many years of beautiful times and memories, with family and friends. Pamela married her husband Joshua Hayes in 2016. She was a dog lover, sports fan, Pamela will be dearly missed by all her family and friends. Until we meet again.


  • Memorial Service Saturday, September 15, 2018

Pamela Coss-Hayes

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Leveni Coss

January 14, 2019

Te extraΓ±o mucho, thank you for visiting me. Thank you for the signs. I know You and my dad are walking with me. Te mando un bear hug fuerte...steel magnolias β™₯️

Rachael Rizo

November 21, 2018

πŸ˜ͺI miss you so much my friendπŸ’”

Rachael King

October 29, 2018

Happy Birthday Beautiful. I miss and love you mucho my dearest friend...β€πŸŽ‚πŸŽˆπŸ˜ͺπŸ’”

Sergip Rivero

September 16, 2018

You were very special to me Mija. I will always carry you in my Heart. I am very Happy that you are with your son Fabian and our Lord. Until we will meet again I will always Cherish our moments Pam.

Leveni Coss

September 16, 2018

Como tengo memorias were more than a tia to me, you were my best friend, and mom. I have so many life lessons that you taught me, i can hear your voice in my head and your laugh as well. I’m going to miss you so much :’) te mando un bear hug β™₯️ I love you Tia Pam

Suzanna Coss

September 13, 2018

My beautiful little sister. I love u so much. U had a heart of gold, u were so good to me and all your family and friends. May God rest your soul. For ever and always I love u.

A precious one from us has gone a voice we love is stilled , a place is vacant in our heart. Which never can be filled and after a lonely heartache and many silent tears but always a beautiful memory. Of one we love so dear. My sister and my friend. Love u. Sister.πŸ˜˜πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’›πŸ’›β€πŸ’ž

Kathy Schofield Hernandez

September 11, 2018

I only now found out that you are gone my friend! I'm shocked and so very sad...I can't believe you're gone and I won't be getting any more messages from you. I love you and I can only imagine your reunion with your son. I'm sure your family's only solace.
I'm glad we were able to spend time together on our road trip and the other times we hung out...but also staying connected when we just got busy with life and couldn't see each other in person. Our common thread always kept us close and we'd pick right back up again no matter how much time would pass. I'm glad you met my family, they loved you and will be sad to hear to have left us. My heart is heavy.
Rest in love my dear friend with no more sorrow...and eventually when you meet my son, and I know you will because I believe Fabian met him long ago when you and I first connected at my west side meetings,...give him a hug for me please.
From Pam's POMC Family to your family...we pray for comfort for you all. Take care and may God bless you all with peace.
Kathy Maelani Schofield Hernandez

Vero Mada

September 11, 2018

My heart hurts I still can’t believe it, the only thing that gives me peace is that ur not suffering and that ur in heaven with ur baby boy ur brother and niece I’ve been praying a lot for you Fabian ur niece but specially ur daddy victor and leveni. I love you shorty never forget that I know one day will see each other again RIP my beautiful shorty πŸ’”πŸ™πŸΌπŸ˜’

Ruth Anne Matheson

September 11, 2018

Pam, I appreciate your sharing a part of your life. You will live on in our hearts, you were extremely special. Through our comforting conversations you showed me the meaning of love and strength. Rest easy!

Claudia Felix

September 10, 2018

Pam. Mi amiga!! You will always have a spacial place in my heart. I will miss you very much. I thank God for giving me the chance of being part of your life. Thank you for always being there for me. LOVE YOU ALWAYS πŸ’œπŸ’œ