Tony Ruiz Gutierrez

Born on May 5, 1943, in Barugo, Leyte, Philippines, Antonio Ruiz Gutierrez lived a life marked by perseverance, adventure, and deep pride in the family he leaves behind. Known as “Tono” to his closest family and lovingly called “Papa” by his children and grandchildren, he passed away on May 13, 2026, just eight days after celebrating his 83rd birthday, surrounded by the memories, stories, and generations that grew from his life.

He was the son of Jose Gutierrez and Matilde Ruiz Gutierrez, and brother to Pacita “Mana Patsy” Santos, Jose “Tito” Gutierrez Jr., Prudencio “Den” Gutierrez, Erlinda de Vera, Filomena “Filo” R. G. Cuenza, Manuel Gutierrez, and Matilde “Iday” Gutierrez.

In 1972, he immigrated to the United States, settling in Los Angeles, California, where he would build his life and eventually reunite with much of his family. After becoming a United States citizen, he legally changed his first name from Antonio to Tony, the name many friends and colleagues came to know him by. Along the way, he spent time in Kodiak, Alaska working at the Pan Alaska cannery, embracing demanding work and new experiences. Throughout his career, he worked in insurance and later became a cross-country truck driver with Bekins and Graebel Van Lines, traveling throughout the United States and Canada until retiring after a severe wrist injury.

Outside of work, he found joy in the hobbies and communities he loved. Golf was his passion. He enjoyed golfing with the Fil-Am Golf Club and for many years was an active participant in the prestigious Philippine Airlines Golf Tournament in the Philippines. He had a green thumb, caring for his plants and garden, maintaining his aviary, fishing, dancing, singing, and listening to Elvis Presley. He appreciated good food, lively gatherings, and simple moments shared with friends and loved ones.

He was known for his generosity and kindness. He hardly turned away anyone who needed help, whether financially or just being supportive of their actions. He always sees the goodness in everyone even if to many, at times it may seem that people take advantage of him. But often times, he will always find a way to extend his love, help and support to those in need especially to his family and friends.

He is survived by his children: Rod Gutierrez and wife Dolly Gutierrez; Antonette Ilano and husband Chris Ilano; Rey Gutierrez and wife Misty Gutierrez; Joyce Bagonghasa and husband Dennis Bagonghasa; Anna Lisa Gutierrez de Guzman and husband Reggie de Guzman; Tony Gutierrez Jr. and wife Luisa Gutierrez; and Denise Gutierrez.

He also leaves behind 20 beloved grandchildren: Barbie, Jennifer, Jonathan, Christof, Joseph, Rio, Trisha, Xavier, Dillon, LJ, Ronel, Jasmyn, Justine, Isaac, Jenna, Danielle, Liana, Rhys, Lauren and Luca.

His family continued to grow with the addition of 12 great-grandchildren: Avery, Penelope, Eligh, Jace, Dimas, Danica, Carissa, Ellis, Jalen, Tahlia, Irie Love and Caleb.

His life was not without complexity, and his journey took many paths. But through every chapter, one thing remained constant: he was proud of the family he helped create. In the end, the greatest reflection of his life is found in the generations that continue after him — in their stories, their laughter, and the enduring connections that bind them together. He will be remembered for his big heart, his love for music and community, and the family legacy that lives on through all who carry his name and memory forward.