Lorian Joy Handy

March 6, 1980April 8, 2013
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Lorian Joy Handy, age 33, went to be with her Lord on Monday, April 8, 2013. She is survived by her Son Jayden Ivory; parents Steven and Brenda Dubay; sisters Jennifer (Brian) Coe and Holly Dubay, and nephew Brian Coe II.

Lorian was a 1998 graduate of Rockford High School, member of Phi Sigma Sigma, and a graduate of the engineering program of Ferris State University. She lived on Oxbow Lake in Oakland County, Michigan, and enjoyed swimming , boating, and the beautiful sunsets. Most recently she worked as a cost estimating engineer with the R.L. Deppmann Company.

Funeral Services will be held at 1 p.m. on Friday, April 12, 2013 at Faith Lutheran Church, 2740 Fuller Ave N.E., Grand Rapids, Michigan with Pastor Kevin Sullivan officiating.

You may greet her family for visitation at Reyers North Valley Chapel from 6-9 p.m. on Thursday, April 11, 2013 or at church on Friday one hour prior to the service from 12-1 p.m.

Please consider a memorial contribution in memory of Lorian to The Humane Society or The American Cancer Society.


  • Visitation Thursday, April 11, 2013
  • Visitation Friday, April 12, 2013
  • Funeral Service Friday, April 12, 2013

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Nora Handy

April 2, 2014

Words can't express our profound sorrow at the events that happened. We pray god grants peace to the whole family.
The Handy Family

Courtney Brooks

May 5, 2013

It's never too late to say how much you mean to me as a friend and a sorority sister. Lori you are one of the nicest and most kindest persons I have ever met. I miss you very much. Please know that I will never forget you. Rest in peace. You and your family will be in my prayers. LITP Always.


April 15, 2013

Sorry for your loss. Jason, was my nephew. I didn't know Lorian. Prayers for you and your family.

Gregorio DallaSanta

April 14, 2013

A joyous and beautiful woman. Bless her heart for bringing a great son into this world. RIP Lori

Tina Stead

April 14, 2013

Dear Lori, well I finally have enough courage and strength to write you a message on here. I was thinking that maybe, just maybe, if I didn't write in here then maybe this would all just be a cruel nightmare and tomorrow everything would be back to normal. But that is just my wishful thinking and my broken heart talking! Please know I loved you as a best friend then, now and all the days to come! I promise to help look out for Jayden forever and continue to remind him how much you loved him and how special he was to you! A piece of my heart has died along with you and my life will never be the same without you in it! I was extremely blessed to be able to call you my best friend and to have you in my life for 13 years! You are a better woman then I can ever be! God made a very special woman when he made you and you have positively impacted hundreds and hundreds of people! May you rest in peace sweet angel and not be hurting any more! Until the next time I see your beautiful face, please know I am thinking of you and praying for you! Keep an eye out for me from up above! LITP

The Lance Family (Conner)

April 12, 2013

My thoughts and prayers are with Jayden and his family. Lori was a great mom and a good friend to many. She will be missed.

April 12, 2013

Jayden & Lori's family,

We are very sorry for your loss. We will keep all of you in our prayers.

The Lester Family (Annastyn)

Heather Mullen

April 12, 2013

I am so sorry for this great loss! What a beautiful person inside and out! Heaven has gained another angel who will watch over Jayden day in and day out! LITP Once a Phi Sig always a Phi Sig
Heather Mullen

Tamela Paul

April 12, 2013

As a mother I can think of no greater tragedy. I am so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Tamela & Family

Shelly Ries-Brya

April 12, 2013

Once a Phi Sigma Sigma, always a Phi Sigma Sigma. Rest in peace Lori. LITP always.