To Mike, Ralphie, Minnie and Clarabelle,

Where do I begin with your wonderful Shelley?

I’ve never met anyone quite like her, and I doubt I ever will. She was straight talking, forthright and never afraid to say exactly what she thought. I loved that about her! She was the one person I could count on for an honest opinion, even when it wasn’t what I wanted to hear. I’ll miss that terribly.

Behind that no-nonsense exterior was someone fiercely loyal and protective. If Shelley loved you, she was in your corner, no questions asked. And if you trusted her with a secret, it stayed a secret. I would have trusted her with my life. One hundred per cent.

We met through work and school but we didn’t need years of knowing each other to become friends. We just clicked. I loved our chats, putting the world to rights, having a good moan and laughing about ridiculous things. No judgement, just being ourselves. I’d give anything for one more conversation.

It makes me smile to think how much our boys love each other. Their friendship is so special, and I hope it lasts a lifetime.

And you four were her whole world. She was so proud of Ralphie, Minnie and Clarabelle, and Mike, she absolutely adored you. She loved the life you’d built together. You never had to wonder what mattered most to Shelley. It was always her family.

Ralphie, Minnie and Clarabelle, when you look back in years to come, I hope you see just how much your mum meant to people. She was funny, strong, outspoken and completely herself. Above all, she was someone you could depend on, the sort of friend everyone deserves.

I feel so lucky to have known her, but I wish we’d had longer. More laughs, more chats and definitely a few more deep conversations!

I’ll miss her terribly. Her voice, her laughter, her honesty, and simply knowing she was there. But I’ll always be grateful our paths crossed.

Please never forget how loved she was, and how very, very much she loved you.

With all my love,
Sue ❤️

Shelley, was a wonderfully bubbly,  funny and kind person who would help anyone out  if she could. She brought laughter, warmth and wit to most conversations and made me giggle on many a cold rugby morning. Her family were always the most important thing in her life and a love like that, doesn't just end when the body dies, it will be felt in their hearts for the rest of their lives. 
I'm so glad our paths crossed for a few years. My deepest condolences to Mike, Ralphie, Minnie, Clarabell, her dad, sister and other family members.

Lisa, Helmut, Esther and Flynn Kruse ♥️

Thinking of you all today. Lots of Love Aunty Christine xx

Shelley was someone I knew from the start I wanted to be my friend and luckily for me she became my friend. She was loud and funny and told the truth and that’s why I loved her. She understood me often more than I understood myself. 

To be honest I envied her move to America. Not because it was America just because of her unflinching bravery to make such a big life change. She never doubted it was the right decision and I admire her immeasurably for that. 

I saw her some time ago and we went out for tea with our children  and I’m sad to reflect that that little did I know I wouldn’t see her again. 

She shone with strength and the courage of her convictions. She gave you her honest opinion and was always the one who you wanted in your corner. 

She was a fabulous mother who loved her children with fierce passion. My heart breaks for Ralphie, Minnie and Clarabelle but I know that with Mike they will continue to make memories and that Mike will guide them through along with us all. 

Shelley I will miss you but feel safe in the knowledge that I will see you on the other side 

Until we meet again old friend xxxx

1. Dear Mike, 
I fondly recall how kind you and Shelley were during our visit to Grand Rapids. Shelley really 
took the time to find recipes to prepare delicious meals for us , Shelley also took me shopping for the first time, making our trip truly special with her thoughtful gifts, many of which I still cherish. Shelley also ensured I  went to the doctors when I was unwell, Her kind heart will be greatly missed, and I know she will always be watching over you and the children.
Love always Maureen x

This is the last photo I took of Shelley at her leaving party before you all made the big move.
Shelley was such a big character at Gawsworth Primary. No one will forget the day she shouted at Ralphie across the playground one morning and she silenced everyone!! 
Shelley was the life and soul of the party and even though we haven’t seen her since you moved, she will be deeply missed.
My love, condolences and thoughts are with you all during this incredibly hard time.
Give Shelley the send off she deserves. I’m sure we all have so many amazing memories of her that we will never forget. Rest in Peace Shelley, lots of love The Freeman Family xxx

Mike, 

It seems only yesterday you and Shelley were married. We are deeply saddened by the loss of your special wife and wonderful soulmate. 

May you find the strength you need to soldier on and treasure the memories you had together. 

Sending our love and condolences at this terribly sad time. 

May she rest in peace, safely now with her mum and your mum in heaven. Grandma Mary will have made her one of her chocolate cakes and will also be there to give her comfort. They will all be watching over you and the children. 

Tess and Thora xx

OBITUARY

Shelley Anne Elliott

June 17, 1980 – September 26, 2026

Reyers North Valley Chapel

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