Brian Eric Dancy

Brian Eric Dancy passed away June 5th, 2025 at the age of 54 from complications of colorectal cancer. Diagnosed 5 years ago in August, Brian’s positivity and joy of life certainly contributed to his extended time with us, along with the love and care he received from family, friends and his amazing medical community. He died the way he lived his life - humbly, compassionately, courageously, with gratitude and an unwavering sense of humor.

Brian was born in Raleigh, NC on November 14th, 1970 (along with his fraternal twin brother Timothy) to Larry Eugene Dancy and Judith Tyler Dancy. He lived most of his life in Greensboro, NC, with a few years spent on James Island, SC. He graduated from Grimsley High School in Greensboro in 1989 and the University of North Carolina - Greensboro in 1994 with a BS degree in Business and Economics.

Brian worked as Sales Manager in metal fabrication for 23 years before fulfilling his dream of owning his own business. He purchased United Metal Finishing in 2019, and was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer less than a year later. He successfully operated the business while undergoing countless treatments, chemo, radiation and surgeries until the sale of the business in 2023.

Brian was a warrior, never letting his illness get in his way of brightening another person’s day. He loved people more than anything (except maybe golf) and thrived on meeting new acquaintances and learning their stories, as much as he enjoyed the company of lifelong friends. He connected with all on a level that few achieve - with the ability to make you feel special and interesting, downplaying his own achievements and attributes. Brian’s bright blue eyes, big smile and familiar nature drew folks quickly into various circles of friends. He was honest, kind, loyal and unforgettably funny. He lived to make others laugh.

Brian sought to mentor youth by his work with Junior Achievement and EYC (Episcopal Youth Community). He wanted his positivity to be contagious and for others to take the same path in spreading goodness. He systematically gave advice to teenagers about staying in school and helping themselves with eyes on their futures. He was a member of St. Francis Episcopal Church, where he served in various roles.

Brian was a great golfer and loved the game tremendously, learning from his grandfather, Bob Dancy. The time he spent with golfing buddies and the travel he made for the game were highlights of his life. It was another avenue for him to meet people and make new connections. He was a member of Starmount Forest Country Club, where he served on the governing board and as President and a member of the Bald Head Island Club, where he played golf with both new and old friends. Brian also enjoyed travel, fitness, entertaining, cooking and grilling (at which he was a master), and his annual family fishing trip to Cape Lookout, NC.

Brian brightened the work week of the oncology staff and other cancer patients at both the Duke Cancer Center (Durham) and Moses Cone Cancer Center (Greensboro). He refused to let anything but positivity and friendliness rule his visits, thus becoming a welcoming light on his treatment days. With special love for their expertise, caring and diligent seek of disease solutions, the family would like to thank Dr. Peter J. Allen and Dr. Hope Uronis (Duke), Dr. Yan Feng and Lacie Burton, PA (Moses Cone), as well as their incredible support staffs, too many to name. Their dedication and warmth will always be remembered with love.

Brian is survived by his wife, caretaker, and best friend, Anna Daughtry Dancy; father, Larry Dancy (Linda) of Ravenel, SC; mother, Judith Dancy of Winston-Salem, NC; brothers, Timothy Dancy (Dawn) of Pittsburgh, PA and Paul Dancy of West Ashley, SC; brothers-in-law, John Daughtry of Goldsboro, NC and Robert Daughtry of Jackson Springs, NC; nephews, Luke, Caleb and Zachary Dancy of Pittsburgh, PA, Kilian Daughtry of Spartanburg, SC, Asher Dancy of West Ashley, SC, and niece, Lauren Grounds of Gastonia, NC. Also left to mourn Brian’s passing are his English Springer Spaniels Wilson and Walter of the home.

A memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m., Thursday, June 12 at St. Francis Episcopal Church, 3506 Lawndale Drive. Reception to follow at Starmount Forest Country Club at 1:00 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to Heroes Foundation: www.heroesfoundation.org/donate or St. Francis Episcopal Church, 3506 Lawndale Drive, Greensboro, NC 27408, stfrancisgreensboro.org