OBITUARY
Elizabeth Mary Lawlor
January 27, 1967 – November 29, 2018
Elizabeth “Beth” Mary Lawlor was born January 27th, 1967. A lifelong Greenwich resident, she was a star student-athlete during her time at Greenwich High School. After graduating in 1985, Beth earned a full scholarship to attend Providence College where she was a starting forward for the Lady Friars basketball team and later competed in the NCAA Women’s Basketball Tournament before graduating in 1989. Shortly after starting her teaching career she enrolled in a program of graduate studies at Fairfield University that led to the completion of a Masters in Education in teaching students with special needs. Simultaneous to her hiring as a special education teacher at Rippowam Middle School in Stamford, Beth also began her career as a coach of the field hockey and basketball teams - roles she performed with great success during her 10+ years of leadership.
Considered an institution at Rippowam Middle School, Beth was a leader within the Special Education team. She fostered decades long connections with peers and students alike. She gave of her time as both a union representative and an assistant to various athletic teams. Her colleagues and administrators will remember her as a person of unwavering dependability and kindness whose calm demeanor and penchant for levity could defuse even the most stressful situations.
To her family Beth was a beloved daughter, sister, and aunt. She devoted years of her life to the care of her parents, William and Grace - William until his passing in 2005 and Grace until she passed in 2014. On any given afternoon Beth could usually be found walking around Tod’s Point in Old Greenwich. She would walk for miles around the park regardless of the season, often accompanied by a sister, brother, or niece. She played tennis and frequently cared for the children of her nieces and nephews during her free time. Beth was never one to sit still for long; an early riser, she would usually wake before sunrise and arrive early to work where she enjoyed being able work in solitude before the halls filled with students.
Elizabeth Lawlor is survived by her siblings and their immediate families: Eldest sibling, Margery Tymula and her husband Ronald, their daughter Abigail Miranda, son-in law Joseph, and grandson Levi, and youngest child Matthew Tymula; sister Grace Woytowicz and husband John, their daughters Kate Suscovich, son-in-law John, and granddaughter Mabel, youngest daughter Erin O’Brien and son-in-law Joe, and grandchildren Adam and Grace; brother William Lawlor III and his partner Leann Vadala; brother Patrick Lawlor, his sons Liam and Aiden and their mother Sara; and youngest brother Thomas Lawlor, his partner Eileen Finn, and her daughters Kaitlin and Bridget Melsenti.
Elizabeth Lawlor was a pillar of communities in both Greenwich and Stamford. As probably the greatest tribute to a life well-lived, almost everyone who knew and loved Beth has spent the last week asking themselves, “What are we going to do without her?” May she rest in peace.
Calling hours will occur on Thursday, December 6th from 3-7pm at Leo. P Gallagher & Son Funeral Home - 31 Arch Street Greenwich, CT 06830. A memorial mass will be held privately. In lieu of flowers Elizabeth’s family is asking that people make contributions to Kids in Crisis in Cos Cob.
REMEMBERING
Elizabeth Mary Lawlor
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ADD A MEMORYsheila bragg
December 7, 2018
Yesterday I said goodbye to you... This morning I said Liz why were we friends? WHY ME? You are were everything I am not.. Yet every memory and every thing we talked about we became more and more like sisters.(even your neighbor asked us in CVS...LoL) You taught me to be a better person Liz to laugh instead of cry , to stay silent instead of fight and to be ok with just being me ... We had so much fun at the Cape , Block Island , splitting dinners , sharing family stories, discussing the perfect spot to retire, walking the beach in Greenwich or just making plans that never unfolded. "ABSOLUTELY" ... "Stay in touch",,,," What are we doing????...I still hear your voice...or you asking " what are you having for dinner?" So much of you Liz still surrounding my thoughts . A smile, a giggle a quick wave at the red light to beat the traffic out of Rippowam .. You knew the importance of living out your faith ..to love family, to help the people in need and to accept everyone.. So now its not what will I do without you?? I change it Liz to .. What would Liz do?? I Love you Liz and so thankful for our friendship.
Shanya Hilliard
December 6, 2018
To the Family,
Sorry I could not make it to the services today! I send my deepest sympathies all the way from Maryland! My teammate Liz from Providence College will be missed. RIP.
Andrea Robinson (Mangum)
December 6, 2018
I was so sorry to hear of Liz's death and I want to express my sincere sympathy to the family during this difficult time. Liz was a highly valuable, hilarious and respected member of our Lady Friar team. Liz was a wonderful teammate who understood the meaning of "team." She was always more focused on the good of the team than on her own benefit. For those of us that had the privilege of calling her "teammate/friend" on and off the court, we were humbled by her kindness and compassion.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you guys during this sad and difficult time.
Rest Easy O Capitain! OUR Capitain... Love, "Candi"
Francia Arriaga
December 6, 2018
Mrs. Lawlor was one of my Top favorite teachers she was nice, caring, and awesome. she helped me go through everything while she was here she still is in this school just in everyone's hearts.
Jan Rossman
December 5, 2018
Words cannot express how shocked and saddened I am to hear of the passing of Liz. I would like to express my sincere sympathy to your family. Liz was a dedicated teacher who was admired and respected by her colleagues, students and parents. She always greeted you with a smile and was eager to help in any way she could. She will be missed by all who knew her.
With sincere sympathy,
Jan Rossman
Ajsi Cako
December 4, 2018
Ms.Lawlor was a very supportive teacher she would always encourage the kids in cross country . You could talk to her about everything . She will be missed dearly at Rippowam
-Ajsi Çako
Rest easy
Aldo Franco
December 4, 2018
Mrs . Lawlor was a very nice teacher to us all and she will never be forgotten in rippowam. I hope she is im a better place now
-Aldo Franco
R.I.P
Ann Marie Kennedy Kapfhammer
December 4, 2018
Like Shanya, I too was blessed with the chance to play basketball at Providence College with Liz....she was a Senior when I was a Freshman. The news of her passing is just devastating....way too young. There is one thing that I will never forget about Liz and that was her laugh. She had such a great laugh and just hearing it made everyone else laugh. I am sure that she is spreading that joy now with others. May God Bless the entire Lawlor family during these difficult times.
Mark Manero
December 4, 2018
Very sad to hear about Liz, she had to be one of the greatest athletes and more , one of the nicest human beings I knew. Never a sad face, never a frown all at Greenwich high, and all,the years since we graduated , when I saw her. She was a bright spot in life. She will be very missed. A great person, a great talent. Very sorry.
Maria DeVito
December 3, 2018
To Liz’s Family,
I had the privilege of working alongside your beloved sister and aunt as her co-teacher at Rippowam Middle School. We taught the same students in the same classroom, at the same time, for many years. While there was a formality about her that made Ms. Lawlor the consumate professional, an educator who insisted on manners, eye contact, and the student at the center; there was also a charisma about Liz that drew others forward, wanting to count her among their friends. Indeed the saddest day of my career came this past Friday when, on instinct, I turned to my right to say the routine “Ms. Lawlor, something to add?”...and Liz was not there. The pain in my heart is as large as the distance between our doors.
Though it is hard to believe she is gone, it is even harder to believe I had the good fortune of knowing Liz in the first place. Only Liz would listen to my full round of debrief of a meeting, or compliment me on a letter. Our lesson planning could span days. Equally, her interest in my adventures in marriage and children was sincere. It must have been divine intervention that our last day together we told eachother, for what may have been the 300th time, how much we loved working together, how we wished we could co-teach for all five of our classes if not the rest of our careers.
Grace, Marj, and family - Liz and I started countless mornings with news of the fun you had together. She beamed when she talked about you. My heart breaks knowing there won’t be another pizza dinner for your family to enjoy in her company. I feel so sad knowing that Mae will never have another trip to the playground or sleep over with her Aunt Beth, or that Marj will not be able to celebrate another birthday milestone. I will miss hearing about Grace’s pre-school and Adam’s boundless energy. If it is a comfort, please know that your sister carried the pride of your family everywhere. You were her world.
May your faith bring you peace.
Maria DeVito
Shanya Hilliard
December 3, 2018
I was the point guard on the Lady Friar 1991 basketball team. I just learned of Liz's passing and I am sad. Although we have not had contact in some time now-we were always united as one as a Lady Friar. Liz helped to make me a better person and player. She was an amazing person and player.
I will never forget all the games we won. More importantly, I will never forget the fun we had on campus and on the road. We use to laugh about nothing!! She would call me "shorty"! Liz, thank you for doing God's work. I am sure God is happy that now you are with him in heaven.
RIP from Shanya Evans #4 Point Guard who loved getting you the ball because I know you would score. Now you have received your wings! Sleep well. God bless you!
Jennifer Krizan
December 3, 2018
I am so lucky to have had Beth in my life.
I called her “Liz”.
And we are all asking why?
Being friends with her niece, and wonderful loving family, next she turned into my client.
She was one of the most kind, loving, funny, giving, beautiful, and sweet people I know.
Liz loved coming into the salon and I loved having her in my chair. We always had great conversations, and she always made me laugh.
I just saw Liz right before Thanksgiving and I am so very grateful that I did.
I remember giving her a great big hug, a little longer than usual, maybe because of the holiday season, not sure but I am
So thankful for that moment, as I was supposed to see her next in January.
I am so deeply saddened by her passing.
She is so loved.
I will miss her very much.
May she rest and I will always continue to think of her.
Your Friend,
Jennifer Krizan
Anne O'Hagan
December 2, 2018
Liz,
You were always such a kind person to me and also to other adults and students. I will treasure our times working together at Rippowam and going out for breakfast and dinner where we had wonderful and engaging conversations. You had such a positive attitude - laughing and smiling. You were always so grateful and appreciative of things that mattered the most to you such as your family, home, teaching and your walks on the beach in town. You lived your life to the fullest! I will miss you my dear friend.
Love,
"Annie O"
Margery Tymula
December 2, 2018
Liz
I am heartbroken and in disbelief as your oldest sibling I never ever ever thought our family would be saying good bye so soon!
You are the best of the best
We as your family have spent the past 2 days asking God why you why now
We can only conclude that God felt your work here on earth was over
It certainly doesn’t make this any better
We are in shock disbelief and sad beyond comprehension you are an amazing beautiful thoughtful compassionate loving woman
I was your protector when you were little you were so shy but you blossomed into the most amazing confident woman
You leave behind a legacy of love compassion humbleness and students that are better because of you
Family that is proud of you love you and never ever wanted you to leave us so soon
Rest In Peace my Liz I love you more than
You will ever know
I’m so glad we had the cruise and Palm Springs
Diana Cutaia
December 2, 2018
Dear Liz
I will never forget your friendship and kindness. You were a good soul. You will be missed I am sure.
Peace
Diana
Chris Woodside
December 2, 2018
Liz,
I only worked with you for a short time, but it was immediately evident the passion and dedication you had to your work and your students. I am thankful for having known you. Sending thoughts and prayers to your family. Rest easy, my friend.
Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them
Carol Labruno
December 1, 2018
I heard of the passing of Liz and I am saddened. I know she is in a better place. I am glad to see some of the parent's comments regarding Liz. It was a good day when I hired her to work in Stamford. She will be missed
Carol laBruno
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Joey M
December 1, 2018
Rest in Peace Ms. Lawlor
school will never be the same without you
I will never forget you
Barb Bartlett
December 1, 2018
Liz, my dear and true friend, You made me and everyone who had the pleasure of knowing you a better person. Your bold, honest and unique personality lit up a room! Your kindness and beauty always managed to see the good, wonder and excitement in daily activities, tasks and people. You effortlessly lead by example and possessed the ability to lift people up. I will miss our walks, breakfasts at the diner, laughs, and profound conversations. Sweet Liz , you left us too soon. But I can hear you say “God has his reasons even if we can’t understand them.” We were blessed to have you in our lives, and now you have become our guardian angel and will live forever in our hearts. Thank you for all the good times and fun memories! I will miss you.
All my love always,
Barb
Jen Hanley
December 1, 2018
Liz, You will forever be in Joey's heart and mine. Joe loved you and he still can not believe that you are really gone. You were such an amazing teacher and a good friend to him. For that I will be forever grateful to you. Like I told you these last few months, you were a god send to us. Your beautiful soul shined so bright around all who were blessed to know you. You spread kindness and joy everywhere you went with your smile, positive attitude and contagious laugh. Joe is saving his beat up folder because it has the sticker on it you gave him last week and he is saving the hall pass you wrote out for him on Wednesday. You made such an impact in his life, I only wish there were more people like you in this world. My heartfelt sympathy and prayers for peace and comfort goes out to your family and all who love you. I know that you are in heaven watching down on all those you love. God bless you.
Jill Jacobs
December 1, 2018
Thanks Liz, for your daily morning check-ins with a smiling hello and often accompanied by a little Irish jig, for all of the laughter during our lunches, and your frequent reminders to always try to choose "the high road". Your loyalty, patience, discretion, sage counsel, and ready ear have been and will continue to be invaluable to me.
Miss J
Patrick Alarcon
December 1, 2018
Our family is saddened by the passing of Liz. She always sported a big smile whenever I spoke with her or even just in the hallways at Rippowam. She was a kind person who loved teaching, coaching and students. Liz spoke to colleagues and students alike with respect and sincerity. We can all learn from the way she lived her life.
George Zygmont
November 30, 2018
Liz was a great person . My earliest friendship was when I was 15 years old and I wasn’t feeling well at a friends house and she volunteered to walk me back home with my sister .. 1982 great person then and never a bad bone in her body .. spoke on Halloween at her house trick or treating with my eight year old .. sorry this happened , great person ., you will be missed . Lots of love George Zygmont
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