Irma Katherina Zehetmair

Irma Zehetmair, beloved mother, grandmother, aunt, great-aunt, friend, and inspiration to all who knew her, passed away peacefully at the age of 100 on May 11, 2026. Her life was marked by resilience, generosity, joy, and an endless capacity for love.

Irma was born on November 20, 1925, in Leskau, then part of Czechoslovakia, now in the Czech Republic. She was the eldest daughter of Agnes and Wenzel Forster and grew up in a lively household with five brothers and one sister. She often spoke of her childhood as carefree and joyful, filled with laughter, family, and simple happiness. After finishing her schooling, she trained to be a secretary.

During World War II, Irma was required to work in Marienbad, soldering parts for the German Messerschmitt aircrafts. In April of 1945, American forces arrived, and Irma began working for them. When the Americans were forced to leave in October of that year, they recognized her courage and spirit and took her, along with three other young women, with them to safety in Regensburg.

In Regensburg, Irma found work as a nanny for an American general. In 1948, she moved with the general and his family to Kempten, Germany. It was there, at a dance, that she met the love of her life, Quirin Zehetmair. They became famous for their Tango. The two married in 1950 and soon after immigrated to Detroit, where they began their new life together with the support of Quirin’s aunt and uncle.

Irma worked in accounting at Shell Oil Company in Michigan until she went on maternity leave in 1960. Though she was highly capable professionally, her greatest joy and proudest role was caring for her family. She devoted herself wholeheartedly to creating a warm and loving home, integrating German culture and tradition into her new American life.

Irma was a truly gifted cook who delighted in feeding others. Her door was always open, and everyone was welcome at her table. Neighborhood children stopped by not only for her cookies, but for the love, attention, and kindness she gave so freely. She was a wonderful listener and an unforgettable storyteller. When you sat with Irma, you felt seen, valued, and deeply cared for. She had a rare gift for making every person feel special.

Throughout her long life, Irma remained active, healthy, spirited, and full of curiosity. Her zest for life and unwavering positive attitude inspired everyone fortunate enough to know her. No matter her age, she embraced life fully. She loved fitness classes and attended them regularly, even at the age of 98. She returned to Germany every year throughout her life, maintaining deep connections to her roots and the people she loved. At the age of 96, she took her final trip abroad to attend the wedding of her grandson, Mark, in Tuscany. It was a joyous journey with the entire family.

Irma leaves behind a family who adored her: her son Josef and his wife Paula; her daughter Linda and her husband Ralf; her cherished grandchildren Mark and Kris Luxenhofer, and Julia and Christian Zehetmair; as well as many beloved nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and dear friends whose lives were forever enriched by her love.

Irma’s warmth, strength, humor, and boundless love will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She was truly one of a kind, and helped make the world a better place.