OBITUARY
Lucas Ulbinas
August 24, 1992 – January 6, 2021
ULBINAS, Lucas – August 24, 1992 – January 6, 2021 Lucas will be lovingly remembered by his dad; Lou, his mom; Penny, his brother Todd (Gielyn), nieces; Nola and Adeline, his mociute Ida, as well as many relatives and friends. Lucas was an avid adventurer and enjoyed being active, particularly outdoors. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks for donations to be made to the "Lucas Ulbinas Memorial Fund" in support of mental health and wellness through physical activity outdoors at the Hamilton East Kiwanis Boys & Girls Club. To make a donation, please call 905-549-2814 ext.221 to use a credit card, or you may write a cheque issued to the Hamilton East Kiwanis Boys & Girls Club and mail it to 45 Ellis Ave., Hamilton, ON, L8H 4L8. Tax receipts will be issued and sent for donations $20 or more. Thank you for honouring Lucas and for helping to share his legacy and passions with youth for generations to come. Online condolences may be made at www.marlattfhhamilton.com.
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ADD A MEMORYMaya Amoah
April 6, 2021
I am profoundly heartbroken to hear of Lucas' passing. Sending love and strength to his family and loved ones.
I met Lucas after he had emailed me almost 10 years ago to buy clothing from a clothing brand I had at the time. He bought painted galaxy leggings and a sweater for a friend. He was so enthusiastic about it all! I remember the conversation we had during this exchange an incredibly positive one, and he ordered another shirt a while later and made some buttons for my clothing brand too! Every time was a long, friendly chat and catch up.
To this day I somehow feel like I kept in touch with him all these years, as I, like everyone else would keep up to date and remain inspired by his adventures. A friendly comment or story reply, and he was always helpful when I messaged him for any outdoor hiking advice.
His kind character clearly even made such an impact on an acquaintance like me, so I can only imagine how he touched the lives of his loved ones. I will be thinking of you Lucas, I thank you for your warmth here on earth and will look for you in the stars.
Dad Lou Ulbinas
February 28, 2021
...goodbye My Son..perhaps some Day this will be easier but it hasn’t happened yet..this is so painfull..
..regardless,
I LoveYou, Dad
James MacDonald
February 13, 2021
Dear Ulbinas Family,
I can’t imagine the pain that you must be going through and I am so sorry for your loss. I have been Lucas’s friend since high school, and we worked together at Kiwanis. Lucas has been a role model for me since we were young. In high school I felt very insecure. People could be very confrontational and rude, and this had a detrimental impact on my actions and on how I viewed my social surroundings. Lucas was different. He always treated me with kindness and respect, and this changed my perspective entirely. He always made me feel included and that really helped to build my self-esteem. I appreciated his friendship very much and we had some amazing times together. He had such amazing energy and so many friends. We have all been very supportive of one another through this tragedy and I think that he would be very happy about that. I am so proud of him and the positive impact that he had on all of the lives of his friends. He inspired others to act altruistically. He brought people from all walks of life together in celebration. I will never forget the lessons that I have learned by Lucas’ example and I will always strive to emulate his kindness and compassion, and his love for his friends for the rest of my life.
Yours sincerely,
James A. MacDonald.
Dianne Stanton
February 8, 2021
To the Ulbinas family;
I send my Condolences for this Great Loss and wish to Thank you for raising such an Awesome son, brother, nephew, uncle, love, friend and Amazing human xx
I Celebrate YOU and Your Life Lucas!
Thank you for touching and Blessing So Many!
These 28 years you gave us ...
Wisdom beyond your years, your Kind + Gentle ways, that Caring and Listening ear, Oh that Smile and So many Awesome Adventures have Helped So Many and Changed this World.
Until we meet again (and we will) ...
Please Know YOU Made a Difference, You Will be Remembered in our Hearts and Always !!
Aunt D
xxx
Gielyn Ulbinas
February 6, 2021
It’s been a month since you’ve passed and it still feels surreal. Growing up my dad always said “when it’s your time it’s your time”. But over the recent years when I hear of young people passing I find myself asking “how is this part of god’s plan? They haven’t lived long enough to fulfil their purpose in life.” At the funeral, I found the priest’s sermon about one’s pilgrimage to be quite fitting. After reading every single amazing memories of love, laughter, friendships, relationships, physical/emotional support, nature, art, life milestones, activities & events that people have shared of you Lucas... it is evident that although your pilgrimage wasn’t as long as some of ours will be, you fulfilled your purpose in your short 28 years here on earth. And to know and somewhat understand that gives me some comfort.
When I look back in my memories of us, the one that always comes to mind is that long incessant wave we would give each other at the end of the night when I’d go home after hanging out with Todd. We would just wave for minutes until it got awkward. When Todd left town for those 6 years we’d only catch up during family functions. I love how we’d always glance at each other and just shrug whenever something happened. It was our way of thinking the same thing without saying it out loud. But that’s what our relationship was always like - comfortably quiet around each other. It wasn’t until Nola & Adeline came along and your involvement in their lives that I really saw your love. From bike/boat/toboggan rides, to beach days/lake swims/surfboarding/fishing, to backyard & clear lake camping, to birthdays/baptisms/pancake Tuesdays/thanksgivings/pumpkin carving & Halloween visits at Mociute’s/Christmas, France escapade, movie nights, summertime fires, outdoor hotdog & marshmallows roasts, summer dinner on the back deck, park adventures, reptile zoo date, wrestling & pillow fights... for all of it, thank you. We will hold on to the afterglow, love you.
Darren Burnett
January 30, 2021
I had the pleasure of working alongside Lucas for my first ever job at the Hamilton East Kiwanis Boys & Girls Club. He was always one of the most easygoing and outgoing guards who always helped those around him try to succeed. Though we drifted apart after I left Kiwanis, I still reflect back on the good times I had there and a lot of those times include Lucas. In the short 4 yours I knew and worked with him, he was always joking around and having fun; a great presence to be around. I remember some of the first work parties I ever went to when he would host for the guards and how he would always make sure everyone was okay and looked after while we were having our fun.
My condolences go out to your family. Thank you for the good memories, rest easy Lucas.
Russell Stevens
January 26, 2021
I met Lucas when I was introduced to the game of waterpolo. Lucas was kind and funny and was always willing to help teach a new player. I’ll never forget the memories we made, and the friend I gained.
My deepest condolences.
Wendy Jeffery
January 24, 2021
Lou and Family...my sincerest condolences on the loss of your son Lucas. My heart breaks for all of you!!! A parent should never have to endure the pain of losing a child before their time...this saddens me to no end!!!
May the great memories that you made with Lucas comfort you in the oncoming days, months and years. Please cherish these memories as Lucas will live in your hearts forever. May Lucas RIP!!!
Heartfelt condolences, Love and Hugs!!!
Wendy and Bill Jeffery
HAMCO HEATING & COOLING LTD
January 21, 2021
To the Ulbinas family,
May memories of Lucas and the love of family surround you and give you strength in the days ahead. Our deepest condolences to you at this time and always.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
From: The Vasilak 's and Hamco Heating & Cooling Ltd.
Jacob Arcas
January 21, 2021
To Lou and Family,
My sincere condolences Lou, to you and your family. Praying for you during these times.
- Jacob Arcas
Bill and Londa Mitchell
January 20, 2021
To Lou and family,
Our sympathy on the loss of your loving son. May your memories of him give you peace and comfort.
Bill and Linda
Mickey Bellavia
January 19, 2021
To the Ulbinas Family,
Our deepest condolences to you at this time and always. We are thinking of you Todd & Gielyn.
From Mickey, Charlie, Anthony & Alicia Bellavia
Larry & Joanne Thompson
January 18, 2021
We are thinking of you and your family, at this very sad time.
Our sincere condolences.
Larry and Joanne
Lia Hess
January 18, 2021
Dear Penny, Lou and Todd
We are so sorry that we can not see you to say how sad we are and how we wish there were magic words to take away the heartache.
Continued strength to all of you
Our love and prayers and always..
Hugs
Lia Erik and family
Bruce Mcleod
January 18, 2021
Very sorry for your loss. Hugs to all. Jan and Bruce.
Carlo, Lone and Darren Eriksen
January 17, 2021
Penny and Lou, our most heartfelt condolences. The memories in pictures are a beautiful honour to Lucas. We wish you strength and love.
Robin Wade
January 17, 2021
Dear Penny and family, I am so heartbroken for your loss of dear Lucas, I know your eyes lit up when you spoke of him. May the beautiful, loving memories bring you peace, comfort and strength in time; and please remember I am here to support you if ever needed.
You're in my thoughts, robin
Les & Dorothea Druiven
January 16, 2021
Our deepest condolence to Ulbinas family .
Devan Hamilton
January 16, 2021
My memories of Lucas start from a young age, just shortly after his birth. As Todd's friend, the Ulbinases always treated me like family, and those values were natural to Lucas.
Growing up, Lucas had great role models to look up to. As he got older, he was the one we could then look up to as a role model. It was amazing to see his tight bond with Todd; it was something special. They were so close, Todd chipped his tooth on him.
Looking back, remembering the treehouse days, I knew Lucas would always be an adventurer. When I think of my bucket list, it looks something like Lucas' Instagram page. Knowing the many things Lucas has experienced helps get me through the hardship. He was all in, and I admire his character for that.
I know his family had a special place in his heart. As they do mine.
Sending you all love from my family.
Dragana Skokovic-Sunjic
January 16, 2021
Dear Penny and Lou,
Our deepest condolences. Our son Anthony and Lucas played water polo together. Great memories of carpooling and boys enjoying first forays in this fun game.
Not sure what to say. Sending you big hugs.
Rest in peace Lucas
Dragana &Franjo
Leslie Orzel
January 16, 2021
From The Coronation Games to Beanie Babies and garage sales, holographic pokémon card mishaps and "No Girls Allowed" in the treehouse, to making forts in both living rooms and in the snow, to his Tin Man costume slowing him down while trick or treating and later connecting as young adults swapping travel stories, to the odd shenanigans in high school, and then later in Ottawa (including flying a plane) and Whistler - I am reminded of how lucky I am to have known Lucas and shared time with such a special person.
Among many of those formative memories I have of Lucas, the trip to Burning Man (otherwise known as "that concert in California" we coined it for the sake of my grandparents) was magical. I feel so privileged to have shared these moments with him, Sandy, and Laura out there in the desert.
One of my most recent memories of him included a few of us dancing like ballerinas around my living room laughing incessantly. Most of my memories of him involve a lot of laughter and goofing around. He will be truly missed and I will keep these memories of him close to me always. Thinking of you all during this time and sending lots of love.
Russell & Junine Druiven
January 16, 2021
I had the great privilege of photographing the Ulbinas family when Todd and Gielyn were married. Amongst them, there are captured moments in time of Lucas, with family; happy and proud, they are unforgettable.
I am grateful to have known Lucas, to call him friend. I cherish the time we shared and the unforgettable warmth of his bright smile. Those moments I will always carry with me.
Russell
I didn't get to know you very long but I will never forget how welcoming and warm you always were when I went to your family's homes or went to football games with your family. I will keep these memories close.
Junine
Pietro Di Diodato
January 16, 2021
My deepest condolences for your loss. Lucas was a one-of-a-kind individual with big heart and a bright smile. He will never be forgotten as we keep his memory alive within each of us. May he rest in peace.
Kim & Jim Stewart
January 16, 2021
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We thank Lucas for joining waterpolo and for all of the memories/friendships that he blessed us with. His gentle, caring personality and his sweet smile are unforgettable.
Jenna Robertson
January 16, 2021
Lou, Penny, Todd, Gielyn and the girls,
We are so very saddened to hear of Lucas' passing. Andrew and I knew Lucas through Todd, who taught Andrew how to fly back in 2012. Back in 2014, Todd and Lucas came to Ottawa and we decided we'd go to Mont Tremblant to ski for the day. I remember the day very clearly, as we picked up Todd and Lucas in a snowstorm. I remember really enjoying our chat on the drive down, as we talked about our shared love of music, hiking and camping. Lucas spent most of his time that day on the Black Diamond hills and it showed, because on the drive home him and Todd passed out. We didn't see Lucas again until Todd and Gielyn's wedding but he remembered us and came over to chat right away. We had only met Lucas a handful of times, but we knew he was an incredibly rare and beautiful soul, one that will live on forever. Sending all of our love and support to your family.
Love Jenna, Andrew & Liam Robertson
Dave Wishart
January 16, 2021
Lou, Penny, Todd and family,
Our deepest condolences. You are very much in our thoughts. May Luci rest in peace.
Love Dave Karm Andy and Krissy
Nickie Perkins-McGee
January 16, 2021
Our hearts were with you today. Our deepest condolences to your entire family.
Nickie Perkins-McGee and family
Lindsay Daries
January 16, 2021
I’ll never forget the times we had together, all the laughs and smiles. The good times, hilarious times and not so great times. You were always the positive light. I’ll never forget sitting just you and I on the jumping rocks. We watched the lake and sun while talking for hours about life. Pizza parties, late night shenanagis and boat rides were the most fun with you, and I’ll never forget them. To Lou, Penny, Todd, family and friends I am deeply sorry for your loss. He will never be forgotten, rest in piece Lukie.
Dylan Matthews
January 16, 2021
My sincere condolences to family and friends. I used to spend a lot of time working together with Lucas. He helped show me the ropes when I was first starting to work in the trade. I've always considered him an amazing person with a great heart, an awesome friend, and somebody that I truly looked up to. I'm going to miss the fun times you always brought around. You're going to be with us in our thoughts forever. You will be missed Lucas. Sorry for your loss Lou and Penny. Stay strong. My prayers are with you.
Dylan Matthews
Sarah Kosterski
January 16, 2021
My deepest condolences to the Ulbinas family.
Lucas was a great friend to all. His kindness and sense of adventure was always something I've admired.
I will cherish all the memories from high-school and hold them close. He will always be remembered and missed.
Darla Ulbinas
January 16, 2021
Lou, Penny, Todd and family.
My thoughts are with you.
Becky Mannetje
January 16, 2021
Lucas was a beautiful soul. I’m so grateful to have met him through the Boys and Girls Club and to have been his friend. His spirit will live on forever. Rest in peace, Lucas ❤️
Faye McKnight
January 16, 2021
Sincere condolences to the Ulbinas family, Lou and Penny. May the wonderful memories of years and times spent together be of great comfort to you at this time of loss.
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers,
Faye McKnight
rachel thompson
January 16, 2021
Where do I even begin...grade school, high school, collage, distance, time apart, true friendship is what you gave all of us. It's not fair to describe how it feels. To see you all around are old neighborhood, laughing at all the good times we had. Walking home from grade school planning out French project to going to high school tougher and causing a bunch of ruckus everywhere we went. Riding the bus for an adventure, going from one end of the city to another. That walk home in the pouring rain signing our lungs out and jumping in puddles. My sister making us late every day for school. Getting suspended for me pretending to be your mom because we wanted to skip school.. (Sorry Penny and Lue) . How could I forget the festival of friends<3 you were always there for me, to be the friend i needed. The walks home from school on a hot day bc the bus was full and it was a nice day out, the endless convos, secrets, laughs and stories we had, even then you love the outdoors. Us always going down the valley to hang, the parties in the tree house, the pool parties. I could go on forever. I'm so thankful I have a life time worth of memories to love and cherish. And now recently popping up in my life about once or twice a year with the best hugs and the biggest smile and a new story for me. It sucks I'll never get the chance to take you up on the offer to check out your new place, but everywhere new I go ill think of you. Far well my friend until we meet again safe travels on your way through the universe. I'll miss you<3
Mike Pacheco
January 16, 2021
Lucas
What a crazy kid, meet him while working at Langton he was just starting in the trade and we would do preventive maintenance together , I would remember his easy going nature , his slow down and relax ways , his stories of bike riding , snowboarding and the time he went to burning man
Lucas was so full of life , will never forget you
My heart goes out to all the Ulbanis family
Rest easy my friend
Vivien Underdown
January 16, 2021
Lucas and I were not close, but the few interactions we had over the past couple years made me realize he was someone I wanted to know better.
As kids playing water polo, I remember Lucas being goofy and kind hearted. We had fallen out of touch, and after a decade, Lucas reached out to reconnect a couple years ago. He shared freely, intentionally, and engaged with such genuine interest. Out of the blue, he would reach out about things that reminded him of you, like a mushroom ecology workshop. Unfortunately I could not make it, but I remember admiring his courage to randomly connect with someone he had not seen in years.
This past fall, I started learning how to juggle. After posting videos on social media showing much failure and some success, Lucas reached out with such kind words of encouragement. He shared inspirational videos and offered advice from his own experience. To him, juggling was a mental break “to focus on something that is an extension of you,” and pure fun, an opportunity to goof around and dance with local entertainers at festivals. Lucas reached out to share how my juggling was an inspiration to him to start exercising the mind in unconventional ways again. Little did he know, his messages helped inspire me to keep going.
Lucas also publicly shared his deep love of the Bruce Trail, and inspired my goal to one day complete the whole thing end-to-end. Looking forward to a walk this weekend in memory of him. This world has really lost a gem. Sending deep condolences to Lucas’s family and everyone who loved him.
Nadine Delsordo
January 16, 2021
To Lou and Family
So sorry for your loss you all are in our prayers. Love Nadine Phil and Tracy Cathy and Johnny and the rest of the HMF Stampeder football family.
Dan Amankona
January 15, 2021
My condolences and sympathy to the Ulbinas family, and those who cherished him. I became friends with Lucas during elementary school and had the privilege of attending highschool with him as well. Lucas was one of the most selfless people I’ve ever met. He would give without receiving, help anyone where he could, and acted as a bridge between many different people. The number of lives he touched and friendships he helped forge are too numerous to count. I admired his love of adventure and nature, knack for problem-solving, and most of all his incredible impact on our community. Lucas had a natural way of making people feel warm and accepted and encouraged us all, even now, to be better people. He truly was a Jack of all trades, and a master of bringing people together. Lucas will forever be remembered as a dear friend, adventurer, and cornerstone of our community. A radiant soul gone too soon
Katie Mason
January 15, 2021
Oh we've had our ups a downs you were never one to give up on someone. Honestly I don't know which memory to talk about I have so many with you and each one is held so dear to my heart.
You could alway make me smile even when I didn't want to. The last few years we didn't keep in touch but I always loved seeing all the amazing place you went.
When we were on the swim team I always wanted to be as good as you. You were so fast! But at one particular meet there was an obnoxious team who had this huge banner and were driving us nuts. So we planned our very own Italian Job (remember that movie. We called it that because of the mini cooper) I remember running away yelling eat my bubbles! Then we went back to celebrate our victory Micheal Phelps stlye in the tree house. Wonder what ever happened to that banner. Any ways just keep swimming ❤️
John Fuller
January 15, 2021
Dear Lou, Penny, & Todd,
We have never met but perhaps one day we will. Lucas came to work for us as we like you, were recovering from the loss of a loved one. Lucas knew his role from the very first day he started which was to fill some big shoes and help us move forward. He brought light to us to help us thru some of our darkest days. We will be forever grateful!
We grieve with you as we too feel your loss.
Thank you for sharing your son & brother with our family.
Rest in peace Lucas!
From your friends and former co-workers at Claremoore
Alexis Giore
January 15, 2021
My sincerest condolences to Lucas' family
Lucas was such a light. Anyone who knew him, knew how special he was. He was a friend to all, and the most kind and gentle soul. His smile and his laugh were so contagious, and you could feel his warmth even just passing by him in the hallway. I’m so thankful to have the high school memories that we do. You were a great friend.
The last time I saw Lucas was almost 2 years ago, i was at the side of the road, it was snowing and I had a "very flat tire". Lucas saw me from up the street and was unaware of what was going on. He just came to say hello and offered to get a hot chocolate to catch up. I explained what was happening and immediately he started to help. He ran to get his little flat tire kit and tried to change my tire in the snow. He had even cut his hand in the process on the ice, but still insisted on helping me. During this time we shared so many laughs, and reminisced on old times. It felt like we had only seen each other the day before. Later that night I had messaged him to thank him again. He brought up some old inside jokes, even things that had slipped my mind. It just showed how much he valued his friendships with everyone and how much he cared about everyone he crossed paths with.
Lucas, you will be missed as deeply as you are loved. Rest in peace pal.
Joan King
January 15, 2021
I remember watching Lucas run around and swim with Todd as a young boy after going on those restaurant walking tours. Those were fun times. Lou, Penny and Todd, I wish I could give you each a big hug. Take care of and be patient with yourselves and each other. You are in my prayers.
Cassandra Lobsinger
January 15, 2021
Lucas,
I really don't know where to begin or what to say.. My heart and prayers go out to your amazing parents and brother, Penny, Lou and Todd.
I feel so lucky and blessed to have been able to grow up with you since we were about 5 years old starting off at St. Eugene's, to growing up into adults and keeping our "St. Eugener" family together.
Every tribute written about how wonderful and beautiful of a person you were couldn't be truer. I have never met a more kind or gentle soul. I will forever cherish the times we shared and the memories we made.
Fly high up there Superman and watch over us.
I will miss and love you forever xo.
Eric & Maryanne Mitrikas
January 15, 2021
When we remember Lucas, we think of a kind, loving soul with great lust for life and adventure, who's intellectual curiosity was guided by a great spirit.
We would have loved to see what he may have accomplished, had he been with us a little longer.
When he returned from the Burning Man festival that year, he was on fire!
It is with great sadness that we bid adieu to a fine young man and to family and friends our most sincere condolences.
Krista Syczewski
January 15, 2021
Lucas and I went to high school together and were the class of 2010. I never got to know him too well over my 4 years there but I always remember him to be a smiling and funny guy who always greeted people with a smile in passing in the halls. He was a kind and gentle soul.
I am saddened to hear of his passing.
Rest peacefully Lucas. I know you and Alex Keating are doing great things up there.
Krista
Mark Davie
January 15, 2021
To Lou and family,
So sorry to hear of Lucas passing. He will be surely missed by many.
Deepest Sympathy,
Mark
Nadine Trach
January 15, 2021
Dear Penny, Lou, and Todd
My heart goes out to you and your family. My deepest condolences.
" The world will sometimes take from you the very thing you can't bear to lose, but if you listen closely to your heart, if you look always for the light, you will find it always offers something back."
Nadine
Fern and Don Anderson / Pente
January 15, 2021
Penny, Lou, Todd and extended family
Our deepest condolences to you all. RIP Lucas you will be missed
Fern and Don
Skrobek Family
January 15, 2021
Penny, Lou and Todd,
Keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers. May you take comfort in the many beautiful memories that you have made with Lucas. He has made a lasting impact on so many peoples lives including ours and may you be proud of that.
Monika, Michelle, Kathy and Zdzisław.
Debbie Tarves
January 15, 2021
Lucas you were taken way to early from this world and will be missed by many. Lou we can't even imagine what your family is going through right now,it is heartbreaking.You are all in our thoughts and prayers.Rest in Peace Lucas
Ramune, Ramunas, Inga, Karolis Brazauskai
January 15, 2021
In this sorrowful time, we would like to extend to Lou, Penny, Todd and family our heartfelt condolences. Lucas will be missed by many. Inga and Karolis had a joy to dance with Lucas in "Gyvataras". Lucas will be missed and never forgotten. May his soul rest in peace.
Lou Ulbinas
January 15, 2021
..to All of You.!. I ThankYou, ThankYou, ThankYou.!.
..as I know most of You to be My extended Family, let me say that You are certainly helping Me out with your words of Recollection of Stories and Memories and therefore much easier so I’ve less need to offer up My countless and endless Stories of Lucas’ legacy. It is because of You being Lucas’ Friends and Family that I appreciate to have been able to share his Love, his Life, his Adventures, his Travels, his Talents, his Experiences and even his Misbehaviours.
You are all an integral part of Lucas’ Purpose, his Intentions, his Reason to be, his Reason for making Me so Proud.!!
I have always and will always appreciate every one of You that have experienced the ‘Lucas Factor’ in Your Life.
..did I say, I ThankYou, ThankYou, ThankYou.!.
I appreciate All of You.
Love Lou/DAD
Candice Taneda
January 15, 2021
So sorry for your loss. Wishing you all strength and sincerest condolences during this painful time.
Mario Bernardi
January 15, 2021
Dear Lou and Penny,
We send you our deepest and sincerest condolences on the tragic passing of Lucas. Although we didn't know him very well, we’ve only heard incredible things about what a wonderful and kind young man he was. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Mario & Betty-Ann Bernardi
Lou & Edda Martinello
January 15, 2021
The love & joy that Lucas gave to everyone that knew him, will live on forever. Lou, Penny, Todd and family, many hearts are broken alongside of you. Our sincerest condolences and please know, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Lou & Edda Martinello
Janice Laurin
January 15, 2021
Dear Lou, Penny, Todd and family,
Your shared memories of Lucas will his lasting gift to forever hold in your hearts. Keeping you in our thoughts may these memories help you through this difficult time.
Jan and Yvan Laurin
Cheryl and Chaneesa Ryan
January 15, 2021
We are deeply saddened to learn of the loss of Lucas. We have nothing but fond memories of Lucas during the years we spent together playing water polo, attending tournaments and parties together. Lucas was the type of person that everyone wanted to be around. He was kind, genuine and fun, with a great sense of humor. While we grew apart as our lives went in different directions, we have no doubt that Lucas grew into a kind and honourable man, who touched the lives of those that were fortunate enough to know him. Penny and Lou, please accept our sincere condolences and know that we are thinking of you and your family.
Cheryl and Chaneesa
Gary Stevens
January 15, 2021
Our deepest condolences on hearing of the passing of Lucas. Our hearts go out to your family. Lou and Penny, our prayers are with you. May you take comfort in your memories of happy times together.
Gary and Jan Stevens
Linda Desmarais Hartnell
January 15, 2021
My condolences to Penny, Lou and Todd. I know this loss will be felt by sooo many — gone too soon. May you Rest In Peace.
Madame Desmarais
Kindergarten St. Eugene elementary school
Tracy Reynolds
January 15, 2021
Lucas had a way of making me feel so privileged and rewarded. With the small turned up corner of the lip , his covert smile. His eyes expressed it all , the event only you and he had noticed. It made you feel like you shared a secret . Maybe it was a secret that he had let you in even for just that moment in time .I felt special . His quiet way of conducting himself. This man of few words will be missed.
Aaron Bolyos
January 15, 2021
If you were lucky enough to have Lucas Ulbinas as a friend, congrats - you hit the friendship jackpot. His selflessness, kindness, and sense of exploration are qualities that can never be emulated.
He treated the earth with respect, would crack jokes to cheer anyone up, and always found a way to turn every day into an adventure. I have learned a lot from him and hope others aspire to be as amazing as him, too.
From treehouse hangs to camping trips to crazy concerts, we had too many good times to count. I was fortunate enough to call him a great friend and although we can’t make any new memories, I will always cherish the ones we have.
Thank you for being a brother & a friend.
I'll miss you forever.
Karl J. Andrus
January 15, 2021
Lou and Penny, I'm so sorry for your loss.
Years ago when you lived on Cornation Ave., I remember working on the boys bedroom, they had a fabulous tree house and the Red Hill Valley for a playground. No wonder Lucas was such an avid outdoorsman.
With sympathy and kindest thoughts.
Karl
Maddie Kurchik
January 15, 2021
I want to express my deepest condolences to Lucas’ family. He will be missed by all who encountered his resilient, energetic, and wise spirit.
Lucas and I were not particularly close in high school, however our paths crossed years later in 2015 when we were on the same flight to Iceland. He, Sandy, and I had rather expensive beers before they set off camping. Since then, Lucas and I kept in touch, sharing our mutual love for physical activity, adventure, travel, and the outdoors.
We became particularly close over this last year. In May, before Lucas moved up Muskoka way, he dropped by my mum’s house where I was staying to give me some plants of his. Lucas was such a kind and thoughtful person, and this small gesture really lifted my spirits in the midst of all the pandemic madness. I was always in awe of the efforts he went to to bring smiles to the faces of the people around him.
Over the last few months Lucas and I spoke regularly: swapping photos of my dogs and cats for photos of his turtle, sharing our love for cold lake dips well into the winter, and dreaming about adventures we each wanted to go on post-pandemic. It was clear to me that Lucas loved living up north. He loved the views, and the starry night skies just outside his front door. I remember him being particularly excited when his brother’s family visited.
Lucas often lamented the rapid speed with which we are expected to work and live these days. He craved a simple and slow paced life- for this he was very wise. He consistently reminded me to “slow down and connect with nature”. Amongst the last messages between us, he wrote, “pleasant conversations, movement, and yummy food is all we need”.
Kim Carson
January 15, 2021
Lou, Penny, Todd and families, I was so very sorry to hear of this devestating news. My heart aches for you all and I send you much love at this sorrowful time. My best memories of Lucas were his smiling face running around at the cottage. I'm so sorry that I didn't get to know him better as an adult - reading through all the lovely tributes here has given me a glimpse of what an amazing person he was.
Julius Sakalauskas
January 15, 2021
To Penny, Todd, and Louis, our deepest and most heartfelt sympathies to Penny, Lou, Todd, and family. In the days, weeks, months, and years to come, find solace and strength in each other, and carry his living spirit in your hearts and to the rest of the world, sharing the best of his life.
Ilsekis ramybeje
Johana Sakalauskas
Dora Keeping
Julius Sakalauskas
Spencer Reynolds
January 15, 2021
I have only good memories of Lucas. I remember a boy who listened more than he spoke (a truly unique disposition) and a young man who was caring, gentle, and deeply thoughtful.
I am profoundly saddened at the news of his passing, but grateful to have shared time with him.
Spencer Reynolds
Ona Stanevicius
January 15, 2021
Our deepest condolences. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Stefan Samotulka
January 15, 2021
To;
lou, penny, todd and family.
I can not express the pain in my heart to words. I am forever blessed with having the opportunity to grow as a punk teenager with lucas, and the amazing chance to learn with him through work as an adult. Lucas was a great guy, someone you couldnt stay mad at for long because his quirkiness and laughter lit up any room or conversation he was in. Lucas was a great friend to me even when i wasnt the greatest in return. His lessons of empathy and forgiveness are something ill have forever and his secrets to a great garden.
My thoughts hopes and prayers are with you all during these difficult times.
Much love
Stefan and Melissa Samotulka
Chris Jankus
January 14, 2021
Dear Ulbinas Family,
I’m so sorry for your loss. Lou, I was really happy to hear Lucas was enjoying himself in his new chapter up north. It’s a terrible shame that time was cut far, far too short.
Please take care of yourselves and know how many lives Lucas was able to touch. He will be deeply missed. Rest In Peace.
Pam Bolyos
January 14, 2021
Dear Ulbinas family,
Lucas was a wonderful friend to our son Aaron . When he was at our home visiting, he always had a new adventure to talk about. He will always be remembered with lots of wonderful stories, laughter and love. Our deepest condolences to your family. Alan and Pam Bolyos
Deborah McKnight
January 14, 2021
Penny, Lou and Todd, you have my sincere condolences for your loss of Lucas. I pray God helps you get through this difficult time and eases your pain with memories you have. I knew Lucas as a young child coming to get his hair cut. He always had a smile on his face for me. I will remember him this way always. My heart is breaking for all of you. Sending you all my love .
Debbie McKnight
Sheila Munday
January 14, 2021
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. There are no words that can convey the sadness that we feel.
The family dinners we had, and colors in the pool with the kids will always be a special memory for us.
Prayers for peace 🙏 🕊️ .
Love and hugs always .❣️
Glenn Mellors
January 14, 2021
To the Ulbinas Family,
Our thoughts and prayers go out you at a time of such significant loss, Lucas was a fine young man who would make any parent proud. Always a smile and eager to learn, may he continue to smile down upon us all.
God bless and rest easy Lucas!
Glenn and Terri Mellors
Stefania Salzer
January 14, 2021
I met Lucas while we were both working at the Boys and Girls Club of Hamilton. So many fun memories of potlucks, pool parties, triathlon trainings and staff get togethers. I could always count on him to help me encourage staff to join us in swimming lengths.
Rest In Peace Gorf 🐸
DORIS KONOW
January 14, 2021
Dear Lucas;
Mark and I never knew you, but we know your father. His eyes would light up whenever he spoke about his boys. He loved you so much. I can see by all of the postings that many many people loved you and I know I missed something special.
Lou, our hearts break for you.
Doris and Mark
Jason Butkus
January 14, 2021
My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Caila Muir
January 14, 2021
You are superman in many people's eyes! We were at Julie Albanese house for a halloween party. As my friends know I love to document moments and take pictures. Lucas was about to walk down the stairs to the basement ( and let me tell you these stairs are no joke lol) and he fell feet first down them all while dressed like Superman. He instantly looked up and instead of being embarrassed he said "I was flying, just like superman" . I asked him how testing out his cape went and we just laughed uncontrollably for a few minutes. After I stopped laughing I took this picture down below. There are so many great memories and now you're flying with your cape watching over all of us. You are forever and always loved by all your family and friends. Till next time Lucas!
Glenda Ireland
January 14, 2021
A young man who lived a lifetime in a very short time on this earth. Special part of our family for 25 years. Our prayers and sympathy go out to Lou, Penny, Todd. Rest Well Lukie U. 💜 Glenda and Keith Ireland.
Brittanie Smith
January 14, 2021
Lucas, where to even start. Your soul was one of the brightest and kindest ones I’ve had the pleasure of knowing! I, with the other “St. Eugener’s” grew up alongside you, learning, laughing, loving, guiding, teaching, and just overall experiencing life together for over 20 plus years. I know we are all eternally grateful to have met someone like you!
To me pictures are worth a thousand words and this one oddly shows how you were as a person;
You never had to be the centre of attention, not always the loudest in the room, always put others needs before your own, and always would go out of your way to make sure EVERYONE else was happy, comfortable and welcomed in not only your presence, but the presence of your home. Always the person that would do a good deed and did not need the whole world to know about it. Not to mention do it all with a smile on your face. Do not know how you did it Lucas! You were definitely one of the most genuine, and caring guys on this planet.
Thank you for being your adventurous and most authentic self, and bringing kindness into this crazy world.
I will miss and love you forever XOX
P.S-How through all the years have we still not out-done any party like yours! Thank you for all the AMAZING memories, I will cherish them forever!!!
joe lakatos
January 14, 2021
Dear Lou and Penny,
I know no words can ease your pain and the heartbreak. I will keep your family in my prayers.
With Sympathy
Joe Lakatos
Irene Jaster
January 14, 2021
I met Lucas when he was two years old, bright-eyed, a beautiful little boy, full of energy, and carefree with a curiosity to know everything about the world around him.
As the years would pass, I had the pleasure of weaving in and out of Lucas’s life as our paths crossed.
At each crossing, I observed a refined version of the toddler I first met. A boy, teenager, then handsome young man with the same sense of interest, adventure, kindness, and energy that became passion.
Lucas’s curiosity led him to a life well travelled and to an assortment of talents. His passion led him to mastery in all things he endeavored. His kindness led him to be adored by everyone he encountered.
My personal favourite was watching Lucas master the art of Poi. He had a silent confidence and humor that allowed him to enjoy an audience, even when he fumbled. And above all, he was simply a joy to be in the company of.
I have a son who is now at the age when I first met Lucas. Sadly, they will not meet. As Lucas would trend towards the positive side of things, I will as well in sharing it is a small comfort to know, like us, my son can also be a lucky one, not by the experiences we have been fortunate to have, but in learning the tales of a man who if he endeavored to try, could flawlessly tip toe on water.
May you rest peacefully.
Johnny Murphy
January 14, 2021
Where to start.
Lucas was one of the first people I met when my parents split up and I moved schools. The rest seems like history. I feel like his family was truly a second family to mine. His dad to this day still calls me Eddie, after Edward Scissor Hands when I first met him as a child with long black hair. There are so many countless memories, from the parties in the treehouse that I basically grew up in, to bringing us to the best camping spot I have seen so far. If I could put them all in words I'd leave every memory I have here. He was the sweetest and most intelligent dude with an answer from everything. Taught me so much over time and inspires me to be more like him everyday.
I'll never forget the handshake we have, and it hurts to know the three-way handshake we made with my cousin Mikey can't ever be recreated again. It was always that shake or a hug whenever we saw or were departing with eachother. When we went to Montreal for a weekend just the two of us I knew it was something special. That YOU were something special. And that was just a bump in the road of our story. I would have hoped we could have grown as old friends with families to pass these down to. Everything I do from here on out is for you. Love you so much brother. Truly the brightest spark in my life. I hope you and Jasper are looking out for me, I know he's probably so excited to see you. I'll see you when the time is right. XOX
Anthony Anacleto
January 14, 2021
Lucas, was one of the warmest, kindest, genuine people I've had the pleasure of being friends with. Infact, being friends with Lucas was so much more. In all my years, I've never met someone with such a thrill for adventure, you taught me that there is so much more to this world than my general perception, and you opened my eyes to so many new experiences and friends I've lost count. Remembering the endless Treehouse hangs, camping trips, concert runs and a good ol Spy Seshes brings tears to my eyes but it also reminds me to be better. Be nicer to my neighbour, reach out to a friend, take interest in the interests of loved ones, and to never take a day for granted. You were that type of person, and I'll never forget it.
Peter, Zach, Luke BOGDON
January 14, 2021
Dear friends Penny, Lou, and Todd - We cannot begin to adequately express our feelings of grief for your loss. We have many fond memories of family gatherings in Hamilton and Cambridge while the boys were still young. Thinking of you all during this time and sending our love.
Cindy Lapp
January 14, 2021
Dear Penny, Lou & Todd,
Glen, Shirley and I are heartbroken to hear of the passing of your dear Lucas. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rest in peace Lucas.
Mike Russell
January 14, 2021
I had the pleasure of working with Lucas at Gravenhurst Plumbing and Heating. He always came in to work with a smile, he was dedicated and very knowledgeable. You can tell Lucas took pride in his work, he will be missed. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends.
Sandra Lynes
January 14, 2021
When Lucas moved to Muskoka from Hamilton, it was very apparent he was a friendly, outgoing guy. I would get texts from him saying your friend so and so says hi and then give me updates on how they were doing. He was such a pleasure to work with, it was great seeing his smiling face in the office in the mornings and having a quick catch up. Lucas will be greatly missed.
Vilija Ancona
January 14, 2021
Ulbinas family,
Sorrow prevails in all our hearts.
There is no justice for the loss of Lucas. God be with you all and give you strength .
Vilija and Marino
Ella Wiernikowski
January 14, 2021
Lucas,
I have nothing but warm memories of you. Most of them are silly high school memories, but warm all the same. We became friends in Grade 9 after Monika introduced me to you. We became like the 3 Musketeers after that, and for that I’m so grateful. I get flashbacks of us wrestling in the grass at lunch, and behaving like obnoxious children at the park outside my house. You were so fun! I was always laughing when you were around.
Our lives took us in different directions after high school, but that never meant our friendship was over. The last time I saw you was the summer before the pandemic. I was walking to meet a friend for lunch and you were passing by on your bike. You yelled my name from across the street, just to make sure the opportunity to say hi & catch up didn’t pass you by. That was just the kind of person you were.
Thank you for being an integral part of why I loved my high school years. You are so loved and will be so missed.
My sincerest condolences to his family and friends in this unimaginable time.
Howard Craig
January 14, 2021
Labas,labas from our entire family.....we will mourn with you....... although...our understanding of your pain is not possible we will remember the brief family encounters & Lucas's visit with us while he and Flower tr ecked the Bruce trail......or he,Todd and Lou spent day boating with us in Collingwood/Midland.........Your family are strong.............love The Craigs
Frank and Donna Gutauskas
January 14, 2021
Lou, Penny and family
Our sincere sympathy on the passing of your beautiful son. Judging by the wealth of rembrances being shared here, he was loved by all and obviously had wonderful parents who raised him so well to be the man so many had cherished. We keep you in our prayers and thoughts.
Greg Hayes
January 14, 2021
When I look back on time spent with Lucas, I feel the kindness and sense of adventure he brought wherever he went. Whether we were hanging out with friends, camping, snowboarding, or going to a music festival, his enthusiasm and positivity lifted us all up. Lucas was a genuine guy and always a great friend. He lives on in my memory and in the inspiration I’ve gained from the way he lived life to the fullest.
My heartfelt condolences to all his family and friends.
Rest in peace, Lucas.
Daniel Norman
January 14, 2021
Lucas, you lit a fire under anyone you came into contact with. You bridged people together. Your positivity, wit and determination to learn something new was inspiring to everyone. The world needs a bit of all that and I am incredibly saddened of the news.
The memories we made camping I'll never forget. The pool parties, the tree house and the nights you wished would never end.
You taught me to see life through an unfiltered lense and I am forever grateful to call you a friend.
Melanie Kitney
January 14, 2021
One of my favourite memories of Lucas was building our bridge together in our Grade 10 tech class. We had no idea what we were doing, and we just slapped a bunch of popsicle sticks together and thought we could cheat the system by just spreading glue everywhere and hoping it would hold. We laughed at how ugly and ineffective it was. I was the only girl in that tech class, and he made sure he stuck up to anyone that bullied me in it.
Just a few weeks ago we were talking about his turtles.
Can’t believe he’s gone. Rest In Peace, Lucas. You were truly too pure for this world.
Sarah Wood
January 14, 2021
I’m so sorry to hear of Lucas’ passing. My heart is with his family during this overwhelming time.
I met Lucas when he worked for Claremoore. He came to my house to help me with a few projects, after the passing of my own husband, far too young. Lucas was kind, and friendly. His kind soul very much obvious in the way he spoke and carried himself. He was at ease around my whole family, who was much to curious and involved with the work he was doing. I recall being told that I would like Lucas before he was set to arrive at my house, and I did.
I’m so sorry for the heartache his family is experiencing at this time. Sending much love and light in this period of darkness.
John Mitrikas
January 14, 2021
Our hearts ache. What a beautiful human being Lucas was. We only met and communicated with him on a few family occasions. We instantly felt his goodness and love of nature, creative things and all that is great about life. To all the family, We send our deepest condolences. Shine on you beautiful diamond and you will live on in our hearts and soul. Love John and Dixie ❤️❤️❤️
Alex Duncan
January 14, 2021
I may not have known Lucas as long as many others here, but I do know that the world has lost one of the good ones with his passing.
A favorite memory of mine is the time Lucas and I met up for for a beer in the middle of my bike race in Quebec City of all places. He had time off from work and decided to drive all the way to camp out and catch up. This epitomizes Lucas in my eyes, the sort of person who would drive 16 hours round trip, for the chance to spend a couple hours catching up over a beer.
From weekend rides to group camping trips Lucas you always had a beaming smile, and the world is a little bit darker for its absence, you will be greatly missed.
My condolences go out to Todd and family.
Much love, Alex
Julie Mazzuca
January 14, 2021
Our deepest condolences to the entire family , We are all thankful to call him a friend .
Mike Macaskill
January 14, 2021
Lucas what can I say that hasn’t been said from all your adventures here in Canada to somewhere els in the world or just camping with the boys. I am so grateful to have known you for the past 10+ years it’s still hard to think that your gone but your life and Spirit will live on through everyone who knew you Lucas anytime some takes a hike or goes on a Adventure you will be there. From the last time I was with you in the summer we had a great time camping and trying to see all the stars and Cliff jumping I will always remember you Lucas love ya bud and in till our next Adventure.(three-way high 5)
Basia Woloch
January 14, 2021
I have never met Lucas, but knew Todd through Gielyn, as a member of the 'N-Zanity MPC. My heart goes out to the family and my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Rest in peace, Lucas.
Laura Orzel
January 14, 2021
It feels like yesterday Lucas stopped through Ottawa while on his way to go snowboarding in Tremblant right before our first lockdown. We had the chance to catch up over burgers and donuts, and talk about how life was going. Even though we only saw each other once in a while, whenever we did see each other it felt like we could pick up our friendship right were we left it.
Growing up with Lucas meant racing to his house to be the first to push the doorbell so that we could hear what different chime would go and wait for Penny to get him so we could all play outside. We'd run around the street playing games like "the Coronation St. Games", watching scary movies in the clubhouse, and playing capture the flag or hide and seek in everyone's backyards. Definitely causing a ruckus and trespassing in all our neighbours yards and sheds. Even though as we grew up and went to different high schools, and moved on past these childhood things, he was always one of those people I could text when I came home to Hamilton to get together and go for a run or bike ride. Spending these grounding runs with you really meant a lot to me and are some of my favourite memories. (But when you, your dad and Todd built that crazy tall snowman and huge snow fort in front of your house, that was also pretty cool!)
Lucas was a very patient and caring person always taking his time to enjoy the little things, even if that meant walking up every hill with me during a run because he was basically a cheetah and I was the slow elephant. Lucas you were a really special friend and I'm going to miss you a lot. Sending all my thoughts to you and your loved ones right now, Penny, Lou, and Todd.
Mike Kirk
January 14, 2021
My deepest condolences to the whole family.
Lucas was a pleasure to get to know and I enjoyed teaching him starting out in the trade.
I loved hearing his stories of his adventures he was always going on. He had a love for that adventure and always so kind and polite.
He will be greatly missed.
Rest easy friend.
Alexandria DiFazio
January 13, 2021
Lucas and I went to high school together. He was always so kind and genuine. We would call each other ‘birthday buddies’ because we have the exact same birth day and year.
I can’t fathom that he has passed. Gone way too young.
I’ll miss you, birthday buddy.
My deepest condolences to Lucas’ family and all his loved ones.
Rest In Peace, Lucas🙏🏻
Tessa Meier
January 13, 2021
It’s been difficult to wrap my head around this as I’m sure many can say the same.
It was just at the end of November that I last spoke with Lucas. We were chatting about his life up in the Gravenhurst area as he came to learn my parents had moved up to Port Loring. We planned to get together in the new year to hit up some hiking trails or tag along with me to go ice fishing and pop into a local brewery the next time I was headed North. I had known Lucas as one of my first “boyfriends” back in grade 5 or 6 when a few friends had introduced us. I feel that anyone who had the pleasure of meeting Lucas would agree that nobody could ever have anything bad to say about him. He was a free spirited, loving, and overall amazing person full of kindness and good intentions. A part of me regrets not making it up sooner to visit and enjoy the outdoors with him for the first time in a long time. He will be dearly missed by many, and there will always be a special place in my heart for him.
I am dearly sorry for this loss experienced by so many.
Cass Valchuk
January 13, 2021
I still remember the first day of grade nine very vividly. Everyone was either nervous, excited and/or lost in the hallways of BR. I met Lucas that day, as our lockers were side by side, and he greeted me with that warm smile. As time went on, we started to become friends. I always called him ducky. Not sure why, but it stuck. So we continued to exchange ‘quacks’ and laughs every time we met at our lockers.
Fast forward to years later, a few years after high school, we found ourselves both wanting to go to Osheaga. We packed up his hatchback, grabbed Fred the Head and headed to Montreal. I think that weekend was when I really got to know the real Lucas. The do-anything-for-anyone Lucas. The “let’s make custom buttons to always remember this weekend” Lucas. That free spirited wild child that we all love and know.
The last time I saw you in person, we were under one of those rainbow parachutes at Wayhome. We were all laughing like children with a handful of other strangers and it was a real good moment. I’m always going to cherish that day.
Thank you for your light and your friendship Lucas. Can’t wait to meet again.
Madeline Kurpeikis
January 13, 2021
I have countless memories of us growing up; the endless summers spent goofing around at the cottage or by the pool with Todd & Steph.
You guys were like the siblings I never had - and I'm forever grateful for the times we shared together.
Although we drifted apart, as many people do as they get older, move cities, countries, jobs, etc. I have always remembered you and thought of you as such a positive force. Going through life to the beat of your own drum and positively influencing and blessing those around you with your genuine demeanour and kindness.
Thank you for your time with us, may you rest in peace
xx Maddie
Julie Albanese
January 13, 2021
Lucas you were honestly the best friend anyone could have and I was so lucky to have known you.
I have so many memories with you I don’t even know where to start. When you asked me to be your science fair partner in grade 8 I remember being so excited. You were always so creative and gave everything your all so I knew we were going to make a great team. We spent hours working on growing our plants and recording all our new evidence to come up with something we were both so proud of. I was so happy when I found our project a couple months ago (14 years later) and so glad I was able to send the pictures to you to bring back those memories. I will cherish that forever.
Throughout high school you really supported me to push past my fears and self consciousness and just enjoy life. You pushed me to do things that I would have never done and took me on adventures I will never forget. You also helped me get through some really tough times in my life and I will be forever grateful to you for that.
I will also always be thankful to your parents for all the kindness they have showed me throughout the years. From throwing amazing pool parties, to taking us to the science centre, trips to the cottage and just generally always making me feel like family. I would not have been able to experience so many wonderful things if it was not for the Ulbinas family. My thoughts and prayers are with them at this time.
We’ve been friends for over 20 years and I can’t wrap my head around the fact that you’re gone. I will miss you forever and will forever tell the stories of my amazing adventurous friend who brought so much joy to my life and the lives of everyone he encountered along the way. Love you forever buds.
Sophie Morgan
January 13, 2021
Lucas was one of the most kind hearted and considerate people I've ever met. I've spent weekends camping and going to music festivals with him and he always brought this greater sense of peace, intention and responsibility with him - not only to others but also with nature. He was a very special person and I am grateful to have called him a friend.
My deepest condolences to his family and friends. Wishing your hearts happy memories.
Linda & Brian Benish
January 13, 2021
Oh Lucas, our sweet Fluffy Duck, our hearts are broken over your passing. You became a part of our family almost 25 short years ago and left a huge impact with your sweet smile and quiet unassuming ways. Yet you lived such a HUGE life, several lifetimes worth with all your world travels, adventures and the many unique talents you taught yourself! You touched so many of us and left your mark on all of us who had the privilege to call you "Friend". Now you're off again to explore other realms. You will be profoundly missed but always remembered with a smile. Gods speed Fluffy Duck xo
Penny, Lou, Todd and family please accept our sincerest condolences for the tragic loss of your incredible son and brother. Just know that we truly felt blessed that Lucas was a part of our family and will remain in our hearts forever.
Jessica Mitrikas
January 13, 2021
I have such great memories of Lucas, Todd and your family in Hamilton during summers that we came to visit and at the family reunions. I will always cherish my memories of Lucas being the happy go lucky spirit that he was, always with a smile on his face. I was always amazed at the physical feats he would do and share, he loved travelling the parks and hiking and exploring. Myself and my family are thinking of you guys and remembering Lucas. Love Jessica, Chris and Clara
Kjerstine N.
January 13, 2021
Lucas was a good person. We lost a good one. The world lost a good one. Im going to miss him. We are all missing him.
My condolences to the family.
See you later alligator ( rocks out on air guitar) *
Regina (Liale) Bagdonaite-Feeney
January 13, 2021
Sincerest condolences, Lou and Penny, from myself and Vida Paskeviciute-Beniusiene. “Ilsekis Ramybeje Lucas”. Condolences to your mom Lou and the rest of your family.
Colin Brown
January 13, 2021
The memories shared here have described Lucas so well. Forever grateful to have know him. He was humble, wise, a great listener, genuine and supportive. I will forever remember Lucas as a guiding example for how to live life to the fullest and how to treat others.
Eli Craig
January 13, 2021
Although I didn't hang out with Lucas regularly, the times I did are fondly remembered. I often think back to a particular family party in Collingwood. It was there I really met Lucas. I smile remembering his personality shining through his quiet persona before he delighted the crowd when he performed his poi fire spinning.
Lucas you are missed. My thoughts and condolences are with Lou, Penny, Todd and all of his family and friends.
-Eli & Mia Craig
Stephanie Benish
January 13, 2021
Lucas was one of the most beautiful people I have ever come to know and love. His smile and laugh could light up a room. He was always there to celebrate our biggest milestones with us and we are so lucky to have these special memories with him. We were so blessed to have him in our life. We will make sure our daughter, Charlotte, knows about her wonderful Uncle Lucas.
We love you so, so much, Lucas. Rest easy.
Reg Valliere
January 13, 2021
Lucas was always a happy go lucky type of guy every time I saw him. I always enjoyed watching instagram videos of him riding his bike, jumping in a lake in the middle of no where, balancing on a rope at a park. He was truly so talented. You will be missed Lucas, may you forever rest in peace.
Diana Gora
January 13, 2021
I have been very fortunate to have known Lucas since early elementary school and had continued to stay in touch these last 20+ years. From school field trips and pool parties to seeing friends get married, so many of my memories include his blond, smiling face. I will forever treasure the amazing years and moments we shared.
My deepest condolences to his family, he was a one of a kind soul who made an imprint on the lives of many. To those that had the privilege of knowing him, we were truly blessed with a one of a kind friendship. There are not enough words to describe the amazing person he was.
I love you Lucas and I will miss you xo
Rest in Peace
Alanp Millar
January 13, 2021
My deepest sympathy
Christina Zlataric
January 13, 2021
I went to St. Eugene's with Lucas and he was such a ray of sunshine. You'll be missed dude. Rest in Peace. Sending my love to his family.
MONIKA SKROBEK
January 13, 2021
Lucas truly lived life to the fullest and loved making people smile and laugh. He was genuinely the most kind-hearted person I have ever met, everyone loved him. He was extremely thoughtful and could make anyone feel special.
Lucas, the amount of happiness you brought to so many people. You could light up any room you walked into. Everyone was a friend to you. Your heart was always up for an adventure and your spirit was infectious, I’m such a lucky person to have known you. I know I met you for a reason, my favourite qualities about myself I know are because of you and how you helped shape me as a person. I admired how often you loved learning new things for example Poi, tight rope etc. You always challenged yourself.
You are so special to everyone. The impact you left on the world and all those who knew you, the amazing friendships, amazing memories that will stay with everyone forever.
I will forever hold our memories close to my heart, I will always bring up all the amazing stories we have together, and I will look after our lovely trees.
You will always have a piece of my heart, I will never forget you. xo
Samantha Mazzuca
January 13, 2021
I will miss you forever.
Lucas was quiet yet extroverted and bold, collected yet adventurous and quirky, and so adaptable for a new challenge. He was exactly what everyone needed. The memories I hold in my heart will be cherished forever under lock and key.
A few times stick out to me in our 12+ years of friendship. The time we went on a hike to Cherry Hill, one of my fave places, and we found the RBG gate unlocked and accidentally broke in, what a gorgeous magical moment that we got to share.
Every time he or I went on a trip, we found a way to call each other just to talk. I was always his friend no matter how far apart we were. In Florida, I hid in the closet to talk to him so my parents wouldnt know I was running up our phone bill.
When his grandmother sold her cottage and cabin we went up for one last weekend and enjoyed forest and the memories, and created some new ones. The first time I listened to some of some pinnacle musical albums under the stars.
We went to so many concerts and referred to each other as our "concert buddy", because we enjoyed the same bands so much. He even took me to my first concert- kings of leon!
We shared an affinity for cute capybaras, cheesecake, artsy things, nature and so much more. I really felt sometimes our hearts were cut from the same material. Speaking of material, I had a blast making the curtains for his camper car. The retro pattern and "just makes sense" perfection were so very Lucas.
I always told him how much I adored his sense of adventure, his kind heart, his passion for life and told him how proud I was of him every big step he took, so I have no regrets there. If life was measured in pinnacle moments, he lived so much.
Every time I turn around, flip a photo, or a station on the radio it seems as if I reminded of him. He left a permanent mark on so many peoples hearts and will live on forever in my memory.
My deepest condolences to Penny and Lou, Todd and the rest of the family + friends.
Cole Papalazarou
January 13, 2021
Lucas was one of the warmest hearts you could ever know. It's hard to pick a moment over the 12 years I was honored to call him a friend. Before quarentine we got lunch together , and I think this photo shows how even just his smile could make you feel loved, and like everything would be alright. He was the kindest, humblest, and bravest person I ever knew . He lived more in his short time here than most people could in 3 lifetimes. I take some small comfort in that. Rest well, my dear friend. I love you. I will never forget you, buddy.
Ciara Thompson
January 13, 2021
We were only friends for a short time in high school at BR and didn’t talk much after that, but I always remembered Lucas fondly as a genuinely kind and funny person who would do anything for his friends. I send my deepest condolences to everyone Lucas touched, he will be deeply missed.
Dolores Socha
January 13, 2021
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers during these difficult times. Lucas had a heart of gold and will be greatly missed. He was always willing to lend a helping hand, as I was too short he spent the day with Uncle Steve helping put the roof on our Corona Cabin, I am sharing a picture for you all.